haw can i get my husband to be more romantic?

Question

when it comes to aniversaries ,valentines day etc. i am the one that does the planning i do the whole romantic dinner for 2 at home.rose pedals in the bed room and all i do admit im more creative. but i want to be supriesed with something already ........he does bring me flowers out of no where, gives me a kiss and tells me he loves me while i pretend to be asleep every morning on his way out to work but thats the most romantic he gets. any advise on how i can get his creativity going

Answer 1

ok you..

I am not the kinda guy that lives on a calendar of events.... i like surprises...

If you wait for a calendar event and he doesnt... oops

try being more like him and dont use the calendar and start getting him special things for no real reason or special day... this will have a reverse effect he will want to return the favor more...

i hope this works for you.... always make a special day somewhere about two weeks before you want something special in return because men have bad memories and if he doesnt return the favor in less than two weeks then he forgot... so make another special day...and wait two weeks... if this keeps going then i would say after 3 months you should divorce him and marry me because i would really appreciate getting a special day from someone every once in a while.

good luck!!!

Answer 2

we all hope that our husbands were romantic but it doesnt always happen. I often give ideas and hints, and no they dont work!! lol but know that your husband is a good man I guess thats what we have to suttle for. You can try to suggest things and see if that works but dont talk about other husbands that are romantic to there wives. I learned a big no no. Best of luck!!

Answer 3

That is just he want you can do make him a nice dinner and give him the most amazing sex you can every give and after you are done tell me I would like this sometime just for me.

Answer 4

You know most guys just aren't that romantic. Sounds like he's doing a fair job. Don't hassle him about it. You might lose what you've got.

Answer 5

flowers, kisses, and telling you he loves you may be his romantic limit and you should be appreciative of those things, sometimes the simplest things are the MOST romantic

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Very good with a surprise ending. Reminds me of the guy who married a lady who had not let him touch her during the courtship. On the wedding night he was lying in bed expectantly, and relishing the pleasures to come. She came into the bedroom and paused by the dressing table. "Just a minute honey." She said "I'll just get ready." So saying, to his surprise, she removed her hair, which was a wig, to reveal a bald head underneath, and put it on the table. Next she took out one of her eyes, which was a glass one, and put it in a jar next to the wig. Thirdly she took out her teeth, which were false, and put them in a jar next to the glass eye. Following that she bent down and unscrewed her leg, which was false and put it under the bed, slipping into the chair at the side of the bed. "Right." She said, "I'm ready now. How do you fancy feeling my breast?" "Sure honey." He replied laconically. "Just throw it over!"

Answer 8

i am the romantic one and after 34 yrs. you somewhat stop give up

Answer 9

accept the limitations and stop wishing for more-some people just arent creative-doesnt mean he doesnt love you!

Answer 10

I don't know either, if anyone has a clue, let me know.