My Wife and I have been married for 11 years and I am hung like a mouse and don't typically last that long during intercourse.
What suggestions do you have so that I can provide her more pleasure?
2007-12-07 08:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was in a simular situation. What my husband and I did was we went out on "dates". Just him and I and we found the love that we used to have. See, alot of times when you are married for so long you get comfortable in the relationship and thats when your sex life goes to hell. Try and be romantic and rekindle what was there to begin with.
2007-12-07 08:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hyper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral sex. become a master at it. And by the way, the very first orgasm I ever had was from being on top and the guy's penis was truly no larger than my pinky finger. It's the motion.
If you want to really make her eyes roll back in her head, get a penis shaped vibrator and use it on her while doing oral sex on her at the same time.
Another idea. A man I used to date would bring me right to the point of orgasm orally, and then put me on top to finish. It usually took just a couple of minutes at that point. He never lasted very long, so this way I had my orgasms at the same time he did.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-07 16:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house,take her out to dinner, buy her a months worth of tanning and a day at the hair salon, be thoughtful and kind and get over thinking that women only want physical pleasure
2007-12-07 16:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well 11 year you must be doing something right well try ky warming gel or different position or go to the por store and get some help from the experts.
2007-12-07 16:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Others have suggested creams and pills. Keep it simple, try these three easy (and inexpensive) solutions first:
1. Fingers
2. Tongue
3. Toys
Use any/all of these until she's "had her fill" and then you get to "finish up".
Kudos to you for having the courage to face the problem and seek a solution.
Good luck!
2007-12-07 16:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by a_niceguy_in_virginia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to a adult store they have stay hard cream and other things like that..heck get a scrap on. You will be amazed on what you find in them places. Good luck! Does your wife have a problem with this?
2007-12-07 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not the size; it's the love that goes with it. Slow and easy; hands, lips, tongue before anything else....betcha she'll love it! Eleven years....you must be doing something right.
2007-12-07 16:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pleasure her orally
2007-12-07 16:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by pensk8r 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If its really a big issue, ever consider penis enlargement plastic surgery?
2007-12-07 16:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your hands a lot. Concentrate on pleasing her before yourself. Good luck on that one pal.
2007-12-07 16:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋