im feeling out of touch?

Question

please advise, my partner an i are not speaking im trying to be strong and trying not to dail his number ( wen i do he clicks the busy signal ) it hurts me not to talk to him, im also feeling like uprooting from the area i live in as theres not much of a social life to be had here, but my son is still in education ( please dont think im selfish) i work hard and provide a nice home single handed, im finding also that i seem to be one of the few no ties people around here an because of that seem to find myself on my own just too much at times. thanks for any advice

Answer 1

being not able to talk about problems with your partner is a sign that he has problem with himself,disturbed,bad past,not happy with his life or with you ,insecurity
its not easy ,you should carry on talking with him and there is no result guaranteed here or just move on and let him sort out his problems but it would be very nice if you sit and talk

Answer 2

I know it is hard, but stop calling. He might find out that he needs you also, but right now he is trying to hurt you. Don't let him control how you feel. You need to get out and do something to fill your time. There is a lot to do, but you need to find out what you enjoy doing and get out there and do it. Do you know what an example you are setting for your child. You are telling your son that in order to have a good life, you have to have someone, and you don't. You need to become a full person, and then if you have someone, it will be a plus.

Answer 3

We all have felt that way at one time or another-look into some social activities for single parents or your favorite hobby -sorry your ex is being so rude.Best advice focus on yourself and your child.

Answer 4

there are loads of people in your situation, all sat at home thinking they are the only one.
i dont know how you all get out and meet each other

Answer 5

who r u

Answer 6

If you feel you have to move to move on, move. You need to put yourself first hun