we have been going out for half a year, we love each other. Im 28, he is 35.
I recently found out Im pregnant by accident, he said he will be supportive to whatever decision I make, and within time, he showed more that he wants to keep the baby. And he wants me to move in with him to try out the relationship. He said we should try to start to have a life together, he also said the relationship may fail. He is currently hunting for car for me and doing other preparation. but he didnt talk about marriage.
Im irritated, bcos I dont think its the right time to "try out" the relationship by living together, we should either get married if he wants to keep the baby or not get married and not having a baby. The "move in" thing shows he is very uncertain about the marriage and I probabely shouldnt count on him marrying me.
Im in America alone under lots of pressure for my PhD study, thats why Im not gonna have the baby alone, and adoption is not for me either.
should I do what he sugges
2007-12-07
07:18:09
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Marriage & Divorce