If you tell someone you want to be single, and you dont feel about them the same anymore. They want to work things out and you dont. They have ask you wait untill after Christmas to break up?
2007-12-07 07:26:43 · 17 answers · asked by gurlypunkyprep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its kinda hard just to break up
i've been dating the same guy for 3years
2007-12-07 07:30:24 · update #1
Oh girl, run away. You have a needy one here! No, you basically broke up with them. If they don't want to accept that fact until after Christmas, it's their problem. Make sure they understand that you are moving on......period. No more trying to work things out.
2007-12-07 07:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what Still cheating? When was anything you posted ever cheating to begin with?
It's cheating if you step out on your partner, without their knowledge and/or consent...otherwise, no issue.
If you want to break up with someone, and they ask you to wait...that's not cheating. If you stay together (at their request) but you see other people behind their back, then you are cheating.
2007-12-07 15:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel guilty enough that you have to ask "is it still cheating" then obviously it is. If you're wanting to see other people - and plan to... Have enough respect for this guy - that it sounds like you care about - to be blunt and straight forward with him !! Ya, he will hurt, and the holidays are a sucky time to dump someone - but wouldn't it be worse if he was to find out on his own ?? Nothing is worse than being lied to, made out to be a fool, and be dumped all at once. Just have enough respect to be honest
2007-12-07 15:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by charcoal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only cheating if you have someone on the back burner or hiding in the bushes.......You need to make sure that don't like him because it's about him and not because you have your eyes on someone else.
When you are taken you have more people flirting and telling you how awesome they will be when they are your boyfriend/girlfriend when in reality they just want what you have.
Be Careful....don't let go of a good thing......
Never let go of the one you love for someone you like, because the one you like will let go of you for the one they love.
Personally, I would keep him.
2007-12-07 15:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, if that person wants to break things off than its basically over and not worth the time and effort of the other person. I, myself would just end the situation and move on.
2007-12-07 15:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by d_mnbadword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on yourself. If it's so hard y wait till christmas. Xmas is not a very good reason to delay thgs. But, all for the best.
2007-12-07 15:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you agree to wait until after Christmas and you hook up with someone else in the meantime, then yes it is cheating. If you truly want to be single and you want to hook up with someone else, don't agree to wait until after Christmas. It is what it is.
2007-12-07 15:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
between two people it doesnt have to be both of ur decisions.
if u really dont like the person then break up with them. They cant argue with u because its ur choice.
if ur worried about hurting his feelings then tell him u can still be friends. i know its original but it works!
2007-12-07 15:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up, just break up and don't give them that extra time.
If you give them that extra time and then go with someone else, yes it is cheating.
2007-12-07 15:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its over it is over move on now no need to wait
then yes it is cheating you should wait till you break it off first
change it around would you be upset if he did that to you ?
2007-12-07 15:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋