my boyfriend controlls who i talk too,what iwaer where i go and a whole lot of crazy thing and it doesnt look like hes getting any better(from 1-10 i give it 4).The reason he's like this is because i cheated like 2 years ago,and we have a 3 month old baby girl together so should i stay or should i hit the road.
2007-12-07 07:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by Love peace and chicken grease 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it ok for him to be like that if i cheated on all my other boyfriends,so maybe hes just tring too make me a better person
2007-12-07 07:40:17 · update #1
IT'LL GET WORSE!!! HIT THE ROAD. I'VE BEEN THERE AND I KNOW WHAT WILL PROBABLY HAPPEN. PHYSICAL ABUSE IS LIKELY THE NEXT STEP. HE CAN'T USE THE FACT THAT YOU CHEATED AS AN EXCUSE-- IF HE WAS THAT UPSET ABOUT IT HE WOULD HAVE LEFT YOU 2 YEARS AGO.
2007-12-07 07:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did cheat so expect him to be cautious on what you do . It seems he has not got over this yet . And don't expect him to (depending on how long it has been) after all 2 times . Think how you would feel . It seems one of the reasons you all are together is because you have a 3 month old baby . Just because you have had issues don't bring the baby into it . work it out for the babys sake . Remember whats important in Life your Kids.
2007-12-07 15:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think he shouldnt of be a control freak with who you talk to, but if you cheated on him then he prob. doesnt still trust you. Plus the fact that you both have a baby together than its common sense to be careful who you talk to especially to guys, whats the point anyway?
2007-12-07 15:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by tai&amc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit the road girl. You've gotta have some life. I guess I still hasn't forgiven you for that, but he needs to get over it.
2007-12-07 15:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road...no one should ever tell you what to do!! And you wouldnt be asking this question if you really wanted to stay ;)
2007-12-07 15:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel and try to make it work for the baby... but if it doesn't get better you need to get out of there... because him being so controling will only get worse!!! believe me i would know
2007-12-07 15:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Life sucks!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious your the cause of his insecurity and if you cheated on him then you should ask yourself if you want to be with him probably not .and you should not stay with anybody who is controlling there is no need for it
2007-12-07 15:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by mahaylaa2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for your baby but you gotta get out of there!
2007-12-07 15:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by pgdakapig2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasnt forgiven you for cheating. but no one can live like that so you will probably be best to leave.
2007-12-07 15:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not trust you, you should not be in this relationship. You have to convince him that you can commit.
2007-12-07 15:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ellie-boo~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋