There is this guy, i have known him for ages, we went to the same primary school and i have recently started talking to him again. He likes me but i dont think i feel the same, but i am really tempted to go out with him. The only thing is i can't just go out with him once because he is so sweet but a little bit of a bunny boiler and he will pretty much think we are going out if i go out on a date with him one time, and he will tell me i have broke his heart. I dont want to do that to him, but i am really tempted to go out with him. Also, my friends have told me to give him a chance, because i might not like him because i am trying to stop myself from liking him because he is a bit, different.
I don't know what to do :(
2007-12-07 07:22:02 · 7 answers · asked by Yeahh (: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeahh i said i DONT want to hurt him
Which is why i asked for help
I dont want to be horrible to him
When i ask for advice i dont expect to be called a slut!
2007-12-07 07:31:32 · update #1
girl ur not a sl ut. ur want to date him, but ur afraid if it dont work ul never talk again. tell him what u telling us, work something out with him, not moody people on here lol
2007-12-07 08:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by \m/ Battle Metal \m/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be completely upfront with this guy. If you do decide to go out with him, tell him that you will go out with him, but only as a friend. I know it may hurt his feelings, but either way, he'll be hurt and there's just no easy way around it. It just being friends with him is not good enough, then you need to cut the friendship off. You do not need people in your life dragging you down and making you feel bad - that is not what friends do.
2007-12-07 07:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats so diffrent about this guy ? Why did you start talking to him in the first place . Oh ! because you went to Primary school together come on .. Give this guy a chance . Your being Picky because of YOU not him.
You can't judge a book by it's cover .
2007-12-07 07:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him if you know that you absolutely will not have the same feelings for him in the end. If you do go out with him and lead him on, things will get a lot harder for him. Don't be a tease.
2007-12-07 07:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bunny boiler? Wow I am really getting old. It is really simple. If you want to go out with him set the ground rules and go out. If you DON'T want to go out with him then quite fantasizing about him and get on with life.
2007-12-07 07:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart.
some people are different...nothing wrong with ( to an extent)
maybe you could just go to dinner and not really call it a date and see how you feel after that.
Sounds like you like him but you don't want to like him.
I am sure you will figure it out. just have fun together maybe have a few friends go with you and then it wont seem so date like.
2007-12-07 07:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you go out with this guy what can you loose? i mean you never know you could feel the same way about him it may just take time. Thats what i would do =)
-lshizzlelove
2007-12-07 07:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋