My Bf Broke Up With Me, and we sit together in every class, and we sit near each other on the bus. i havent seen him today, but wen i do, my heart feels broken and i just want to kill him. it is very awkward sitting next to him, should i talk and act like friends, or should i act rude? what should i do?
2007-12-07 08:01:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-07 08:05:42 · update #1
move on hun, if you are still in school, then you have plenty of time before settleing down. its all going to be ok, in time. i know how much it hurts, but time heals all. its gonna get easier every day. i dont know that i would be rude to him, maybe not too talkative at first, but what can you expect? he just broke up with you. if you are too rude, hes going to think hes got the upper hand. just take it easy. good luck to you.
2007-12-07 08:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 4 boys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,I know you probably feel heart broken, but you should change your way of thinking if you're still going to see him, and if you want to prevent yourself from being hurt when facing him. What you need to do, is prepare yourself that you are going to see him. Try to feel confident about seeing him, even though the two of you have a history. Try to move on. you're single again, so there's nothing wrong with looking around for a new guy. Show him that you will be able to move on. That's really the best way to cope. Show him you are strong and that you don't need him. just know you can do it. good luck girl!
2007-12-07 08:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, it'll be awkward for the first couple of days, but sooner or later, both of you will have to move on. Don't be rude, and don't let bitter feelings get ahead of you. Try to be friends, and even if that's not possible, at least try to keep civil with each other. Hating one another is just not worth all the hurt all over again. Give yourselves time to heal. Eventually, it won't hurt as much. Good luck! =]
2007-12-07 08:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went through the same thing a little over a week ago and he is in my 3rd block. he still sat next to me until he found out i knew that he lied about the reason why he wanted to break up and now he sits across the room. it is hard seeing him in there everyday but dont let it get you too down. it will be difficult at first but it gets better over time, i promise. try not to let it be obvious that it bothers you when you are around him. you will find someone who treats you like you should be treated. its his loss for breaking up with you.
just have hope that things will get better
best of luck
2007-12-07 08:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had almost the same thing happen to me not too long ago. at first i tried being rude to him but trust me...t just makes him worse. when u act rude to him he thinks ur over him and he'll do stuff that will break ur heart even more. so i suggest that you not necessarily act rude to him...but don't be his best friend. i kno it's agravating when people tell u to just act like nothing's wrong..but it works. me and my bf just recently broke up too and we still talk. i'm heartbroken over him and i want him bac but there's nothing i can do. so i think u should be friends with him...but if he asks u to do sumthing for him like...try to find him somebody else to date...don't do it.
2007-12-07 08:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for him anymore. he broke up cuz he doesn't want you. Dont act anyway but urself. End this chapter and create a new better one with someone else.
im sure everything sucks now b/c you had a routine of seeing him and now you have to change that, but if he broke up with you, you are probably much better off.
2007-12-07 08:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are hard. It's probably really hard to ignore him, but that would be the best way. When you know you should be around him, don't look for him. Notice other people ;). Think positive and move on.
2007-12-07 08:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunley it's tough to get broken up with , but losing your cool and acting diffrent then you usually did/do around him won't make anything better . Show him that this doesn't bother you and you are strong with or without him.
2007-12-07 08:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is get over it. Everyone goes through bad break ups maybe even worse ones.
2007-12-07 08:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by (Anonymous) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like he's not there.
don't look at him.
avoid his eyes.
the eyes tell everything.
avoid him.
try to sit somewhere else on the bus.
give yourself time and space away from him so you can get over him.
I really hope this helps!
2007-12-07 08:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋