Me and this one guy starting Dating in Sept and ended the realationship in Oct, We borke up because he told me that he was moving back to Michigan where his mom is. We had flings on and off and stuff, Last month I told him I cant do the fling stuff anymore he told me lets just be friend. What should I do I still have feelings for him :(?
2007-12-07 00:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by brunk_martha08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will definitely get over your ex but it will take time depending on how much you really like him and your ability to put it behind you and move on.
2007-12-07 00:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're always going to feel something for this guy. The fact that the two of you continues to come back to each other off and on says that you either enjoy each others company or you haven't both put yourselves back out there to find someone new.
When you decide that you're worth more than just an on/off relationship, then you'll start being able to move on. You have qualities that make you worth getting to know. You deserve a deep and mature relationship. Only way to do that is get out there and look.
Make the break, find others things to occupy the time you want to sit and mope, thinking about him. Go out and have fun with other people.
2007-12-07 00:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by christyo58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one that said you didn't want the fling thing anymore. Did you really thing he was going to get serious? Doesn't work that way. You know the old saying"why buy the milk when you can get the cow free". You are either friends, or you continue the fling thing.
2007-12-07 00:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. Plenty more fish in the sea. Go and have fun with friends. Its hard to forget some1 but eventually the days turn to weeks, the weeks turn to months and before you know it you wont even think about them at all.
((good luck hunni))
2007-12-07 00:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You'll get over it eventually. Remember there are always more boys out there. But you don't have to leap into anything if you don't want to.
2007-12-07 00:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have always found mindless sex is best
2007-12-07 00:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by bdsmslavegirly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋