Relationship problem?

Question

I have been friend with aguy , and i like him alot. i told him about what i feel. he said that he doesn't have feeling for me. I found my self always trying to do what make him happy, I think i have low self esteem becouse if there is problem or misunderstanding, i blame my self and always think that he did the best for both of us .But it makes me start feeling recentfull toward him becouse i feel that iam being used and not happy from keep ignoring what i really want. I don't know what i should do , i want to stay frien with him but i also don't want to keep feeling that ialways wrong , What do i have to do?thanks

Answer 1

First lesson: you can not make someone else happy only yourself.
Second, he said he didn't want to be with you, but you still hang around, so of course he is going to use you, because you let him.
Third, You need to like yourself before anyone else will want to be with you. Don't worry about being friends with him, go about your life, and your'll find out he isn't someone you really want to be friends with. If you sit back and watch he probably uses all of his"friends".