I loved a girl and said her that I loved her, I told her that I want to marry her and asked just her assurance, but all she replied was she always looked at me as an elder brother though the age difference is below two years, I dont want to hurt her but I cant live without her, what should I do?
2007-12-07 03:33:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you can't make someone love you. And u can't be mad at her for not loving you our feeling the same way u do. Why would you hurt her? Sounds like your the one hurting. I would jus stop talking to her and seeing her that will help you move on. Start dating other people you will find someone who loves you and can give you more then she can. It will be hard at first but you can do it.
2007-12-07 03:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by christina m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blah, Blah, Blah, Sounds like the first heartache, but it won't be the last! So where did you plan on living if you got married? How secure is your employment history? We're you going to split the morgage payments, the car payments, the insurance, the electric bill, the cable bill, food cost, clothing, etc etc.? Hmmmm...maybe you can live without her!!
2007-12-07 11:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Give it time. Besides, you're still young and need to date around and test the waters elsewhere. Teenage years don't fully count. Date as an adult as well.
2007-12-07 11:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just scared her! That was really deep. Anyway just wait for it to blow over and make sure so remain friends. This way in the future you can bring it up again.
2007-12-07 11:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just freaked her out with the marriage talked. she loves you, and you should've just kept things simple. but now there's nothing you can do except call her and let her know that you're sorry for thinking too far ahead, and that you've done some soul searching and you realize that things are wonderful the way they were. good luck bud 8)
p.s. thanks for adding me to your contacts ;)
2007-12-07 11:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by mnd_hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her think on it and try to be friends maybe you will you find another love or maybe she will see how much she likes you and maybe you guys will date i nthe future but just give it time and see how things work.
2007-12-07 11:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jolene H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋