I was at school today hanging about with Steph(mine and Charley's(my exgirlfriend's) bestfriend) and Jacob(Charley's second exboyfriend after me and Steph's current boyfriend) because Charley after 6months has finally asked for some space which even though I'm not over her yet I'm giving it her(me and Charley are bestfriends but I'm always hanging around with her and she says it's getting abit annoying). Now lately I've been wanting a new girlfriend and I want to move on from Charley and I told Steph this and she told me to ask this girl called Curisha(one of Steph's friends) out who was stood right next to me and I thought this girl was way to good looking to ever go out with me and I said, 'no she'd never go out with me' and then Curisha said, 'It's a possibility', and I went so that's a maybe and she said, 'Yes' and Steph left us to talk and all we really did was stand there and I asked how old she was and she said, 'She was 13 going on 14 and she said that it isn't really that biga deal to her that we're one year apart(I'm 15) as girls normally go out with guys who are older', and this girl is perfect for me, our age difference doesn't bother her like it did Charley(Charley's 12 going on 13), she has a nice personality, her body isn't perfect but it's ok, she's got a gorgeous face and I'd like to ask her out but it just seems way too easy, I mean with me and Charley it took us atleast a month and a half to get together.
What should I do, should I ask her out or maybe leave it for a week or two?(I'm gonna leave for a few days if I ask her out or I'm gonna seem desperate with how I am at the moment)
2007-12-07 04:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are reading way too much into this. Ask her out today. You will not look desperate at all. If you beg her to go out with you, then you will look desperate.
It sounds like she is interested in you, so ask her out. Waiting a couple of weeks is never a great idea. Someone else could easily ask her out during that time.
The effort that it took to ask Charley out was because she did not feel the same way about you and it did not work out. It is better to spend some time talking to a girl and get to know her. If the conversation is good and you like her more and she seems to be more interested in you, then it is time to ask her out.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-07 04:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i know what you mean. I remember the good old days of young love. Putting something on yahoo, and her catching is giong to be the end of it, so make sure that. Second of all, if you like the girl, do it. If she already said yes, then wheres the problem? Man up and do it, believe me. You could miss a good thing, even at your age. Good luck!
2007-12-07 04:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by sneakyshark24 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out once you have the time to pursue it
If she says yes then see how it goes.
It might be just what you need to help you get over your previous relationship.
2007-12-08 02:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the girl out will you man! Especially if she already fancies ya.
2007-12-07 06:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Wait for a day or two, like you've planned, and then ask her out.
2007-12-07 04:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Raindrops_on_Roses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty clear that you have thought about the situation. My advice to ask her out, when the time is right.
2007-12-07 04:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel, who cares what people think. Once you leave school you will almost certainly never see them again.
PS. Don't write an essay for a question next time :)
2007-12-07 04:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Call Dr. Phil
2007-12-07 04:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by WHE3LMAN 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, leave it a couple of days then ask her, why not?
2007-12-08 00:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tefi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
christ, that gave me a headache just trying to follow who was who in that lot. lol
just ask her out, what harm can it do? she likes you right?
go on and have a bit of fun, you have so much life in front of you to be taking all this stuff too seriously at the moment.
2007-12-07 04:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by *mental*MooCow* 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋