Ladies only please.?

Question

If your bf,husband,or lover told you that he only had 5 years left to live. How would you take it?

Answer 1

I would be heartbroken but I'd do all i can to make it the best .

Answer 2

Initially, i would be upset and heartbroken, but after the shock wares off, I think I would probably quit my job and have him quit his.....and we would use the nest egg we have for retirement and do everything and anything we wanted. Travel and just spend the time together. I might consider or discuss with him having a child, but i think the most important thing would be to cherish the time i have left with and to be honest-this may sound selfish, I don't know if i would want to share his last couple years with a child. If he wanted to have one though I would not be against it, but it just probably wouldn't be mandatory.

Answer 3

I would be very upset and heartbroken.But i would also embrace the fact that he only had 5 years left to live and just spend as much time as i could with him.I would also do whatever i could to make him enjoy the last years he would be alive.

Answer 4

I would be devestated, but would come to realize that that man upstairs has a reason for everything, this is the card we were dealt so we are going to deal with it. I will do everything i can do in my power to make the next 5 years enjoyable ones

Answer 5

I would be Devestated and Heartbroken! i'd Probably cry everyday (i'm very emotional) thinking oabout how it would be without him. even though we've been going out 1 year and 14 days, and i'm only 17, I love him soo much, I have this special bond with him. I would try to spend as much time as I could with him.

Answer 6

I'd smile while crying, touch his face and tell him that it'll be okay. I would take his hand and slow dance with him until my legs gave out. I would hold him so close and tight that there wasn't any room for air between us. Then I'd spend every day of the rest of his life showing him exactly what I would have given him for the rest of his life.

Answer 7

it would depend in what status he had with me.But if he were my boyfriend,the one im in a relationship with now, id be sad! He's my boo, and i love him. Along with being my boo, he's the father of my baby, so I need him to be here for her as well. Id be sad, start crying ask him what is his condition that he says he only has 5 years left, see if there were anything i could do to help, and pray.. pray pray pray.

Answer 8

if he told me he only had 5 years to live i would spend as much time with him and make the most of the time we have together.

Answer 9

def wouldn't leave him. enjoy each day. avoid fighting. discuss whats okay for after he's gone, such as if you're married if it's okay to try to start dating again, and stuff like that. do all the dumb almost unrealistic things you talk about doing but never actually take seriously. just live for the moment and cherish everything.

Answer 10

id look to him in his eyes hold his hands(i couldnt freek out; like if i did he would feel worse so like imagine to be told that urself and have to deal wth ur lover freakion out!)
i would do everything he wants for the left of the time

Answer 11

I'd make a five year plan with him...A things to do list...if you will...Of coarse your gonna be sad...that's natural...but stay composed and ask what would make his life complete...Trips...people he want's to see...movies... books.....If you both realize that your time is limited...Make the best of it...Love the hell out of each other...make some Memories that you will have to hold on too...Thanks I just bummed myself out... ; \ Good luck...