My fiance of 4yrs.left me 2mths. ago & I continued to allow him to play head games with me in the hopes that we would work things out. Not much has changed & now he is seeing someone else who is married, no less. During the 4 yrs. my daughter & I became very close to his family-they welcomed us with open arms & vice versa. I do not know what he has said to them about our breakup.I have not contacted them being that they are "his" family. I heard from a nephew that he had taken this woman to meet his family & that they were alittle uncomfortable because they do not know what is going on. I would like to send a card to say good-bye & to thank them for welcoming us into their family & that we will miss them. This is not a ploy to get them to side with me in this or to get him back, even though I still want to be back with him, just a sort of closure. Is this a good idea or should I just let things be?
2007-12-07 03:41:24 · 8 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you think you need to cut them off?? I am still friends with my ex's Dad, cousins, his sister is my best friend , His aunt and uncles. It does feel a lil weird when he is around, but a small price to pay for a life long friendships I have with his family! They consider me there family. And I dont even speak to me ex I havent talked to him in 2 years!
2007-12-07 03:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by amanda h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any harm in it, if you really belive it will help you move on. They've been good to you and your daughter - saying thank you is a nice thing to do. And they may not even want to let you go! Go with your gut. Life is short. If you love them and want to say thank you (or good-bye), then do it.
2007-12-07 11:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bizzybizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its over, But since the family was so nice you should contact them and tell them why, your side anyways, and if he gave you a ring pawn it, because it forever be a reminder...
2007-12-07 11:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by A.K.A.Allen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first thought is it going to cause friction. if it does that is only a question you will have to answer. because you know the whole story as far as what is going on. if they do not know what is going on i would at least send the card. have you ever sent any cards of any kind to them ????. if not a call should not hurt.
2007-12-07 11:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by CEH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no rule saying you cant talk to his family even if you're not together. do what feels right to you. i would thank them. who cares what he thinks if hes gonna act that way
2007-12-07 11:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by distorted_sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye
Shaloom
Adios
or just get the $$$$ out.
2007-12-07 11:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send them the postcard, since it will be christmass send them a card saying how thankful you are
2007-12-07 11:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by crazygirl123 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why haven't thet contacted you by now,i'm not being mean ,i'm looking at both sides.
2007-12-07 11:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋