Some women say they keep their man happy by using skills. Why cant many women keep their men by using skills?

Question

Some women say all women posses the ability to keep their man from cheating. They say most never use these skills because they either dont want to or they dont know how
These same women says they didnt learn these skill from parents but many learned by listening to the advice of someone.
One woman says her man has been tempted to cheat through forty years but he never did because she resorted to her skills that she learned from a person who cared.
This same woman has never cheated herself
Her husband is a doctor and he still delights after forty years of coming home to her and her skills.
He doesnt know she uses skills
I say those skills definitely exist,

Another woman says an 18 year old tried to temp ther man to cheat with her smooth skin, newness and youngness, She kept her man by resorting to skills she had leatrned from another person. She says she now has kept her man for fifty years and not once did he cheat eventhough he was tempted many times, She says her skills worked that she learned.

Finally, One woman who has kept her man from cheating for 30 years says no matter what the reason a man may want to cheat he can be stopeed by using skills she learned from someone years ago. She says i the skills work and the man dont even know youre using them but he certainly enjoys himself.
I say the skills exist.

One ex cheating man got divorced and met a skilled woman. From that day forth for 22 years he has never cheated. He says he dont know how she does it but whatever it is keep it going, He rushes home from work to her.
I say the skills exist.

The man asked me if i knew what his wife was doing. I smilled and said she must be skilled. He says whatever it is it works.

Some women who keep therir man say they use skills that is composed of many aspects of life and not just one thing.
I say these skills exist sensually , emotionally, lovingly. attitudinal and much more, I say These skills exist in many forms ways, and fashion,

I further say these skills can be applied to all aspects of a mans life.

Answer 1

I hear such a lot about keeping the man happy, a lot of advice is given on this subject, but I do not hear much re the opposite issue.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY? Not a lot of men ask, or women for that matter, on what they need to do and what skills they require to keep the ladies happy, is it assumed that men have all the right answers and they do not need to know or learn any thing, apart from the push and shove required to unload their lot.
Keep the man happy so he does not go out to look for it some were also, I get a bit annoied when I hear that sentence, we as ladies are told that we should look at our self when we raise the issue.
There is a large part of the women population that are totally lost in pain,sorrow,their confidence down the drain, their only Joy their children, for some that have more courage, and ventures to find a little treasure away from home, society is very quick to judge and destroy, but for the the man there is immediate sympathy, poor fellow his wife did not know the right tricks, as John put in his question.
Do I sound like a man hater ? I am not !
The issue is so much more complicated than that, and it has been bothering for a long time.
John talks about skills, to become a professional any thing , doctor, lawyer,concert pianist, scientist. a professor of anything, we need years and years of study, to specialize in to any field more study.
Why is it then, that the most important jobs in life, and we trow our self in to it with no knowledge at all, no one teaches us any thing, just what we observe, but that is not all, we go in to it carrying with us all the negative stuff learned at home as we grow up, so we are not only unskilled (MAN AND WOMEN) I would say that we are actually incompetent.
Who teaches us how to be lovers? We fumble along from one bad experience to the next,(yes men too, up and dressed before the last squirt of semen is out) gone before the lady opens her eyes in the morning, not call or returning our calls any more, do I need to say more?
Who teach us how to be husband - wife, no one, once more we fumble along mistake after mistake and blaming each other for not full filling our needs, when we do not even know what our needs are.
Parenting now is the biggest fumble and the most dramatic, because with our lack of knowledge we more often than not ruin our kids lives, because of our lack of knowledge we more often then not follow with the our parents examples, even when we tell ourselves that we will not behave like our parents in dealing with our kids,well guess what we look at ourselves twenty years later and we are our parents, we cannot avoid it they have been out teachers, so very often we are not the best parents to our kids , we love our kids, some too much, others too little, too strict, too impersonal. too too too.
SKILLS OR THE LACK OF THEM, SHOULD CONCERN US IN EVERY WAY, NOT JUST TO KEEP A MAN HAPPY,THAT IS BUT THE SMALLEST THING
THAT SHOULD CONCERN US ABOUT THIS

Answer 2

For some men the lack of or the lack of use of skills isn't why he cheats. Some men need variety, plain and simple. They like the feeling of the new and unknown. It has nothing to do with the wife what so ever.

Answer 3

Getting and keeping a man is kind of like buying and maintaing a car. You work hard to get a car that you really like but once you get it home you get lazy and don't keep up with the regular maintance and the car stops working. So you sell it to a friend for a few dollars and the friend works on the car , gets it running, keeps it tuned up and enjoys driving it for a long time! Some women work hard to get a man by being sweet, making themselves attractive, and doing things for him. After they get the man they get lazy and for get to maintain a man by being sweet, making themselves attractive and doing things for him. Instead they nag, let their apperance go and find fault with everything he does. So the man leaves and finds someone who takes better care of him. He stays with this person for a long time because he is well cared for.

Answer 4

They can and do - but it isn't "skills", it's "attitude." Willingness to experiment, initiative to start things, sense of humor, and brains. The rest is details. No guy ever complained because his woman lacked technical skill. "I divorced her because she couldn't lick counterclockwise." You never hear that, trust me.

You don't need an engineering degree to eff a man's brains out, cupcake. You need attitude.


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Answer 5

both parties have to be willing to make the marriage work. that's in the bedroom and otta the bedroom. i think these women understand that. if you don't please ur man, someone will. and its too many home wreckers out here tryin to f*&^ unavailable men anyway. the men who still wanna cheat when they go plenty of lovin at home are just greedy doggish bastards.

Answer 6

It's not skills, that keeps a man from not cheating. It's morals, his love for his wife and family, his fear of hurting her and losing her.

Answer 7

If a man is a cheater, then he will always be a cheater. Doesn't matter what kind of 'skills' the wife possesses.

Answer 8

Never, ever, known a man to cheat because he was getting to much loving at home....

Answer 9

because *most* men, if they're going to cheat, no amount of "skills" will prevent it

Answer 10

I say that grammar exists and you might want to use those skills.