I signed divorce paper of legal and physical custody of our kids and got approved letters from court. However things are getting twisted. 1st her attorney requested the court to try all she can to save my marriage, got court approval and am ordered to meet with a mediator. The woman attorney as been investigating me but I can't figure out what she is up to, telling my wife(ex) that she would fix my marriage when i know that under all circumstance I am not changing my mind to accept anything less than divorce. I came home this morning and my wife acted up. She intentionally wet my bed, saying its too much to bear, she loves me,etc, got all stuff from the ice box asking me what would she do to make things work out? Wet all the couches;asking me why I don't ask her for sex etc. She continued complaining that its too much for her to bear living with me under one roof, treating well, not abusive despite of what we are going through. I know she is coming for my computer. what would I do?
2007-12-07 02:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I sat down to talk to her politely, asking her why she is doing these she explained that its really stressful on what she is going through, she can't imagine starting to date again, she continued explaining on how men are out there and regret big time on how she was taking me for granted, apologizing, regreting and asking for a one more golden chance to make it up all those year lost
2007-12-07 02:54:10 · update #1
Divorces can be nasty.....I have been through one and all I can say is cut your losses and go. Take the kids with you and don't look back. The acting out, wetting the bed, etc is unhealthy for the children. Both of you should also seek individual counseling and she may need to be referred to a shrink for evaluation.
2007-12-07 02:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you two still living together? I was confused about custody of the kids-Does she have custody or you? It is very difficult to be under one roof when the relationship is over. Spare yourself and your computer and most importantly your kids this horrible end game. No offense meant -every relationship that ends has a part called the end game. How it goes depends on you both, Endings suck. They just do. The trick is in negotiating your way through this. Someone has to be the bigger person (looks like you here)and do whatever it takes even moving out to restore some semblance of calm for the kids sake if for nothing else. If she has custody make sure the kids are safe use extended family if possible to help your wife make it through in a less destructive manner. Again none of this is good for the kids to see, hear, or even know about. Hang in there...your kids need you too.
2007-12-07 02:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call the cops. As soon as possible. I am not sure why you are living with her if you are getting a divorce. You have the right to LEAVE.
Doing this on the furniture and on your bed, that sounds a little odd. At least do something. It takes two for a happy marriage. If one of you is unhappy, the best choice is separation or divorce.
2007-12-07 02:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already made up that you won't accept anything other than divorce than stick with the plan but if you honestly think some counseling and another try would be worth it then go for it.
2007-12-07 03:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by collapsed_generation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who're like this commence exhibiting those characteristics early on.....in line with risk in small tactics that grow to be greater extreme, yet their undesirable character features come by. the girls who finally end up staying with them understanding those men are like this have already got issues with the aid of fact they the two think of they are able to alter a guy or are desperate of their lonliness. even if, then what happens is the purchase lowers their self-properly worth so as that they locate it stressful to bypass away long as quickly as they knew they must have. So in answer on your question, it somewhat is the two. they're emotionally no longer sturdy to start with, even if it grow to be made worse over the years with the boys they chosen.
2016-10-10 11:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what happened for it to have gone this far, but, ofcourse she's going insane, you are taking everything away from her. You sound really cold towards your wife, either she messed up really bad, or you have found someone else. Either way, she was your wife, the mother of your children, there has to be a better way of resolving this.
2007-12-07 02:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to move out, take the kids with you. It doesn't sound as if you're wife is stable enough to be a good parent.
2007-12-07 02:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say have her checked out in by a medical professional like a psychologist and/or therapist. also get a lawyer and have him figure out what in the world is going on and why is some lawyer following you.
2007-12-07 02:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by DJ M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911, and have them come and pick her up and take her to the hospital. Mental instability.
2007-12-07 02:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...lol... your wife don't want you anymore!!! Tell her to wet someone eles bed... kitty kitty kitty ...here kitty kitty kitty,,,,
2007-12-07 02:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋