I loved a girl and said her that I loved her, I told her that I want to marry her and asked just her assurance, but all she replied was she always looked at me as an elder brother though the age difference is below two years, I dont want to hurt her but I cant live without her, what should I do?
2007-12-07 03:31:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your going to have to learn to have her as a good friend. She is trying to tell you in a nice way she doesn't like you like that. She just wants to be good friends. Good Luck♥♥
2007-12-07 03:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she looks at you as an older brother, she's definitely not interested so you are going to have to move on and be with someone that actually wants to be with you. Your still in her life but just as her friend and sometimes that means more than anything. Don't act obsessive and crazy, just meet another nice young lady.
2007-12-07 12:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can live without her. Get yourself together and do what you can to get over her (except hurt her or yourself). Then go out and get another chick. The more time you spend stressing her, the less time your spending finding someone who will love you in the way you need.
2007-12-07 11:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you the best answer she could. That she doesn't share the same feelings you have towards her.
Be a gentleman and accept that.
Sorry honey, but you're going to have to live without her.
Don't push this any more - you'll be branded a stalker - and that's pretty awful.
2007-12-07 11:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda in the same situation with one of my friends and all i can say is try and change her mind make her see that u r right for her.
I hope what i said helps u any good luck
2007-12-07 11:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by PhlicMhyBic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might love you, but she might not really want a commitment to you. It sounds like you havent even had sex with her. That is probably the main issue. She might not see you as a sexual object, someone that she can share her body with.
2007-12-07 11:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A while ago, a very very good friend thats a girl of mine, said she looked at me like a younger sybling, cause shes 15, im 14, and well, i was like, well does that mean you dont like me? she was like, noooooooo, i didnt mean like in all ways, i just mean that you funny and cute like one, lol, i laughed, so ask her, maybe she thinks your wise....idk, lol
2007-12-07 11:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dann (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid she isn't interested. I know it hurts, I've been there. You've just got to move on.
You can live without her.
2007-12-07 11:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sucky situation but if you can't live without her, learn to be just her friend. If you can't do that, then you're going to have to get her out of your life altogether.
2007-12-07 11:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rhyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to live without her
shes telling you shes not interested
2007-12-07 11:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋