resperidal. my husband and i have a very difficult relationship, mostly due to my mood swings and confusin emotions, anger, etc. before i was hospitalized due to self-harm, we were filing for divorce because i didn't feel that i loved him and he didn't understand me at all. my friends (girls & guys) seem to be able to understand me, validate me and listen without judgement. anyways, since i have been out of the hospital (2 months), i have tried very hard to straighten myself out and that including repairing our relationship with 150% effort. after a while, his parents offered us ther basement, which means us moving in with them andevetually guilding a new placeon their land out in the country (we live in he city). when i agreed to it, i started feeling even more apprehensive about the relationship. though i was giving my all, i was still scared i was making a mistake (ambivalence is a bad habit i work hard against everyday, so i TRY combat thoughts daily w/ affirmations)
2007-12-07 03:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by lookin4ansrs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we've been together 8 years and most of the time, my friends and my family have said they would support me if i chose to leavebecause they didn't like the way he talked to me. even his own parents would say things to him. i have 2 friends left, due to bothe my bpd but also in part to him. he is very jealous, of anyone or anything that takes my time away from him. my question is...am i deating a dead horse by trying yet again? or am i doing something that might actually work? my thinking is that with it being so hard for me to communicate with him, is it that i love him, why i'm staying. or that i just don't want to lose to this bpd, a relationship that will affect my kids and my family? I feel so much guilt for even thinking this still.
2007-12-07 03:08:18 · update #1
Life is hard a lot of the time. Been there. Good that you are working hard on your relationship. You may feel better with the right meds, so stay in close contact with your doctor. Things will change. Keep looking forward, focus and be easy on yourself.
2007-12-07 03:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by DR V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are trying to do all of the right things. I believe you are apprehensive about the move do to the fact you will have no security. In the event of a breakup with the husband you are out in the cold with no home. This possible problem could be solved if the parrents deed a parcel of land to the two of you, in both of your names. After this is recorded no matter what happens in the relationship, 1/2 of the property is yours. If the husband wants to stay he will have to pay you for your interest in the property. This will give you some funds to start over. Another thing that might help you would be to get a job. This will give you a feeling of worth and you will not be so dependent on others. Hope this helps, good luck.
2007-12-07 03:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kurt W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 04:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question? It is totally different to be friends with someone with a mental illness then it is to be married to and live with someone with a mental illness. Just stay on your medication and make the best decisions that you can. If your husband has agreed to try to work this stuff out with you, then give him the benefit of the doubt that he is on your side and wants to help.
2007-12-07 03:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Deanrijo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really not sure what your question is...... But I used to be on the exact same medications and Risperdal and Zoloft should never be mixed in my opinion. They made me WORSE! They also gave my friend the same prescription and she killed herself. I would be speaking to your doctor about your medications. I have had horrible experiences with mixing those two and that could be part of your problem.
2007-12-07 03:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop a relationship with the Lord. You need to speak scripture out loud and ask Him to take away your anxiety. Also try geodon and seroquel. Get off of risperadol.
2007-12-07 03:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
200 mg is a big big dose of medication.Normal is about 25 to50Mg.I'm sorry,but you need to find a new Dr.,some of this medication can be causing more problems than helping the issues...
2007-12-07 03:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U MAY HAVE A PERSONALTY DISORDER BUT PART OF UR PROB;EM COULD BE UR ENVIRONMENT SOMETIMES IT TRIGGERS MOOD SWINGS IT MAY BE BETTER TO TRY FOR A SHORT SEPARATION AND SEE IF U GET BETTER THE MEDS WONT DO IT ALL U HAVE TO FIND WHAT TRIGGERS UR MOODS AND UR DEPRESSION IF DURING THE TRIAL SEPARATION U GET BETTER U MAY FIND THE ANSWER TO UR PROBLEM PROCESS OF ELIMINATION
2007-12-07 03:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by MARIA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will do my best to help you.IF you are bipolar
moving to the country may help,but being so far
from your Doctor,and different surrounds and
people you will see ever day may not work.you
talk about yourself.but not about your husband.
the way you wrote your question,it's like a short story.would you like to try again ?
2007-12-07 03:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you've got it rough
does the zoloft help ?
prozac helped me theu something similar many years ago
seems as though you husband has been there for you don't let him feel like you don't appreciate him, and his family,
write if you need to vent or talk
2007-12-07 03:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋