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my daughters father has tried for years to win me back he asked me to get divorced and marry him several times i don't love him that way and told him it wouldn't work. he knows the only reason me being seperated right now is working is i talk to a married man who i feel strongly about and i want to try to see him for christmas. i feel bad if i go anywhere but the man i want is married and he has a hard time getting away. i think he got upset this morning because i told him that i will have house guest for x-mas. they both know about each other and my daughters father knows i would not have left if it hadn't been for this man and the way he makes me feel about myself but he thinks i'm going to fall flat on my face if i keep talking to him. i tried to stop the phone calls but they have become more often and more intense since then i told him i would like some answers or i need to move on. i don't want anyone to get hurt especially the one who keeps me smiling every day.

2007-12-07 01:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

6 answers

This is a tougy, but do what is right in your heart.

2007-12-07 18:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by PHP 2 · 0 0

You say that you don't want anyone hurt but you are wanting a married man. There is some reason he is staying with his wife and is not with you. I hope that the married man does not have children. If so not only are you wanting to break a home with a wife but also one where you want the man to leave his children. Don't settle for being the "other woman". That does not mean that you have to start anything with your daughters father. It sounds like you are in a mess and need to straighten out several things before you are in a relationship with anyone. You need to ask yourself where your child stands in your life. She should be the priority......not who you can be with.
God Bless you as you search yourself for these answers.!

2007-12-07 02:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by saved_by_grace 7 · 1 0

Your solution is quite simple, Send them both packing & start fresh. You don't love your daughters (father), so he's out. The 2nd man is married & probably has no intention of leaving his wife for you anyhow. So the way I see it, you only have one choice here, Get out and find someone (perferably single), to start a relationship with.

2007-12-07 02:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Blu 2 · 0 0

Too much drama, where is your daughter in all this? Sure hope she isn't being pushed by the side. First don't give in to her father, since you don't feel that way about him. And first rule of seeing married people intimately, YOU DON'T DEVELOP FEELINGS FOR THEM, you will fall flat on your face. You should end that now too, regardless of your strong feelings, HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE.

2007-12-07 02:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1 0

You might be looking to marry for love not out of practicality. I don't know enough about the baby-dad, but if he's a hardworking guy who means well, maybe you should give him a shot for the sake of the kid? Practicality goes a long way -- love (and lust) comes and goes.

2007-12-07 03:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle W 5 · 0 0

Have you ever heard that song Homewrecker by Gretchen Wilson....maybe you should listen...cause if it were my husband you were after i wouldnt give you the chance to take it somewhere else i would take you outside. You guys dont realize how hard it was for us to find our man. and how much that man means to us. you dont care he has a wife and children. all you care about is you coming out ahead in the end. and i hate people like you LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE.....how can you have any pride in yourself. he made a commitment to his wife in front of god
to love and cherish this woman and here comes you walking in strutting your crap and trying to take our husbands....people like you make me sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-07 02:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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