help with relationship?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 months, and we seem to "argue" all the time. one of us is always seeming to be doing something wrong and idk what to do. it's normal, but i don't have bad intentions ... i have good one but i guess they always come out bad. i love this boy a lot, and i want this to work and he does too, but i also see that he never understands me...he always takes something to heart when i talk to him about something that hurt me or whatever the problem was and he gets mad and is hard to talk to about it and i tell him all the time. you never understand me! that just makes him even more mad....i don't know what to do about this and no, i don't plan on leaving him so thats not in the question. a teacher told me he pushes me away because he probably doesn't want to get hurt which seems to be true, i don't know how to prove that i'm not out to hurt him. he knows i'm not like everyone else, but theres mistrust from him to me for no reason... :(

Answer 1

NO, theres good reason, for one, you don't know how to be honest with him. A vague statment like "You don't understand me" is a sure way to push someone away. ITS HALFARSE HONESTY!!!!!! NOT TRUE HONESTY!!!! He will not understand you, unless you EXPLAIN it to him, as honest and heart-felt as you can. Problem thou, is you don't have a choice, lol, this relationship well slowly, over time, end, no offense. Your not knowing how to fight for him, you can't get the true HIM out of him, nor can he get the true YOU, out of you. Your both playing a game of romance, trying to make things seem light and happy, but the deep and serious stuff keeps popping its head out of the shadows. So ether you start talking more SERIOUSLY about how you feel about you, him, and this f'in world, or watch as you two strangers, drift apart. No offense, but its EASY to love, shoot, I'm loving this right now, but the trick is knowing HOW to love, and even I'm not sure I'm doing it right here. But its a struggle to find the best way, on how to love. What did you think relationships would be easy? HAHHA, try a struggle for peace.....

Answer 2

well first of all you need to get together and sit down and talk and really express your feelings to him and tell him how you feel and what you are trying to do in this relationship and have him explain what he is feeling and how the both of you can make improvement so that this love between you two will get better and enjoyable and you then would be able to talk about anything.when two people really confront their feeling for each other and talk to work it out,it is a bond that gets stronger as time goes on.god bless and hope everything works out.