Would a woman like to receive a note or email from her spouse as to what they would like to do to them in a sexual nature. I am not talking nasty, but a note to tell them how much they were loved and they were being thought about in a desireful way. I would like to maybe let my wife stew on it and get the juices flowing as it might be. Something to arrouse her and have something to look forward to. Is this a good or bad idea. My wife is rarely in the mood and I thought that this might put her in the mood with something to look forward to.
2007-12-07 01:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounded pretty good until I got to the part where you say 'My wife is rarely in the mood'. If that's the case, I'm not seeing her be to receptive to this email idea. Maybe you should plan an evening around her, take her to dinner somewhere she can get dressed-up, shower her with compliments, etc., but don't go down the sex road. Even if you don't get any, you want her to know your actions are not motivated by wanting to get some. Women are weird and men are like little puppies always wanting to pee on our leg. The longer you spend time with her without any sexual overtones the more worked-up she'll get sexually. She could get so worked-up she might start rippin' your clothes off. That's all.
2007-12-07 02:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Janette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were your wife, I'd love the little notes, after 6 yrs of marriage my husband & i still do the little notes. I personally like the idea, & doesn't hurt once in a while to get a note in return either. Let me know how things work out.
2007-12-07 10:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Blu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!! My bf and I do this all the time. We actually went to a park one day and I had a notebook. We asked each other sexual questions, little notes, etc... we were so horny we went off into the woods so we could make the little notes come true!
2007-12-07 10:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my husband used to do the note thing and it was really fun and exciting. it might work for your wife. but if you have kids try going out 2 times a month with out kids too. good luck. and find a cologne that she really likes on you and wear it to turn her on . example walk by her and give her a kiss on the check so she can smell it on you.
2007-12-07 10:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by ms01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would work for me, but I'm almost always in the mood
2007-12-07 10:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
totally, there is nothing more sexy than when you are catch us unexpected. Cu dos!!! Do it, she will react totally cool about it. She will ponder all day on your words and get ready for the night to come.
2007-12-07 10:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea. I would love it if my husband done that for me.
2007-12-07 10:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by dreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be great.
2007-12-07 10:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. you def need to do that.
2007-12-07 10:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by special s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋