Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

Ok, My sister and I are going to be moving into an apartment because of a family trouble=( But we need to live,eat,ect. And we need some ideas on how to make about $1,000--1,500/month I'm 13 and my sister is 18 right now she only makes about $400-500/month. We need some ideas since I can't get a job right now, how can I make some money? I already babysit but I only get alike $25-50/month and that's not enough...And right now she can not take on two jobs...Our grandpraents or cousin,aunts,ect. can't help us. So we need to make some more money lol...Oh, We live close to Virginia if that helps=)

THANKS 4 All The Help=))
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2007-11-23 03:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by ?DontKnow? 1 in Family

I am a 14 year old girl. I live with my family: dad, mom, sister-20 years old, brother-17 years old, 4 cats, and a dog. My mother smokes constantly and everyone in the house is sick and tired of the constant smoke ruining our skin, lungs, body. It is completely disgusting and I can not stand it. Also, I am the only person in my house that can not drive, so my mom usually drives me places and she smokes in the car. I try talking to my mom about her smoking but she completely refuses to even do that. I have no idea what to do about any of it. She makes it so difficult to live and to like her. She knows she is killing herself and everyone in the house but truthfully, she seems not to care. Sometimes I get really angry when she's smoking and do crazy stuff to bring her attention to her smoking issue. Once I cut up 5 packs of cigarettes and poured them in her bed (my mom and dad don't sleep together). Also, I threw her ashtray into the street once (damn thing doesn't break). Please help! :(

2007-11-23 03:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she is telling me she loves me since a year. we never met yet. it was all on phone. we are about to meet this week. she was about to leave the country next month, i felt love for her today...(may be i accepted it today), i am trying my best to stop her from leaving the country. she yet loves me. she says she loves me more than her dad. i got a principle in life, thats - one life one woman. so its her now. i found her flirting with other guys a month back, she made excuses to avoid meeting with me (though she is meeting next week now) even though she wants to commit. apart from all these reasons, instead of leaveing her, i simply got attracted, and felt a soft corner for her. i dont know if its gonna work, i dont know if she will continue throughout life, but for me, its a lifetime already. its not a risk (though their are hundreds of chances that i took). its not fake (judged her pretty well in a year). i need no suggestions as my love wont change now. just comment. thankx !

2007-11-23 03:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by confused soul 1 in Singles & Dating

After over a decade of marriage and 2 deployments, my spouse suddenly announces that he is no longer in love (I love you but...). After this announcement, he turned very distant and cruel, and makes hints of divorce. He has minimized all contact with the children and I, and has nothing positive to say about us, work or life in general. I am unsure if it is the stresses of war, or he has simply lost his committement. I have been loyal and supportive. Is he able to file for divorce from Iraq? Any suggestions for me. Time is of the essence.

2007-11-23 03:23:23 · 15 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i started talking to gals ........want go further

2007-11-23 03:19:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so this guy on my street wants 2 have sex with me....but we r not even goin out n stuff...thats kinda a problem 4 me cuz im still a virgin n im not just gonna go out n have sex wit him which can ruin our friendship...my friend asked him if he likes me just 4 that n he said "i dont like her at all" but i like him...wat shud i do??? n guys, do u just like girls 4 sex?....do u think hes lyin?....he said he wasnt playin around bout the sex thing.

2007-11-23 03:15:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you say its from when you started seeing each other, like cinema and gig dates and stuff?
from when you first kissed?
or from when you actually confirmed it?
like i asked my guy 'where do we stand' and he said 'as far as im concerned we're going out'. so where would he take it from because i would say from that date.
sorry its confusing i know!

2007-11-23 03:14:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I now have a THIRD married guy flirting with me...I don't want this!!!! Why do I seem to attract married ones and not the single ones? The only thing I can think of is that I am completely my goofy self around the married guys because I am not thinking I need to impress anyone but with the single ones I might come across more reserved.
Also how do I let the married ones know its just not going to happen without being rude? I have joked with them when they have made passes about how "they won't do me any good since they are married" but they don't seem to take the hint. I don't want them to feel bad -like its them- because I could see myself dating at least 2 of them ...IF they weren't married but I want them to realize I am not the one they need to be chasing if they are looking for an affair. I am so frustrated ...why can't the single guys give me as much attention????

2007-11-23 03:12:42 · 17 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my (ex)boyfriend were doing very well since we first got together about 5 months ago. we did break up at one point but he said it was an honest mistake of what he did (not going into detail) and i did forgive him and we went back together because he really wanted to and went very far with an apology. but a couple of days ago he told me that we should just stop without even TELLING me why.......and when i asked him he just said something else and is not telling me. why...is he like this?...

2007-11-23 03:12:03 · 22 answers · asked by 2514 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF can be sometimes great -- he is very funny and cute.
But he says it is important to him to be friends with all of his exes because "you don't want to lose that intimacy" I have no idea what that means and am not sure he does either, but I guess he values friendships with exes. It makes me somewhat uncomfortable, but he is unwilling to stop hanging out with them. Do I just go on with this? He is very immature in some ways too -- he is 30.

2007-11-23 03:11:26 · 15 answers · asked by seeksadvice28 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean can't they see anything else in a girl

2007-11-23 03:11:15 · 30 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think that anyone exists whose never fallen in Love for once?

2007-11-23 03:09:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so my bf broke up with me becouse of the school i go to. see where i live everyone calls me a rich snotty girl (my ex never heard anyone call me that before) becouse of the school i go to. then a cuple days ago i told my ex what school i go to (it was when we were still bf gf) then he called me a rich snotty ***** so i called him a jerk he told me he hates me and that was our breakup but if your gf told you what school she goes to and everyone around were she lives calls her the rich snotty white girl (i live in a place that has mostly black people in it but i'm not racist or anything) would you stay with her or break up with her (somthing like how my ex brok up with me) and plz be honost i wont be mad at you if you say yes you would other people might but i wont yell at you or anything so plz be completly honost.

2007-11-23 03:08:28 · 43 answers · asked by spiritgirl2595 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a pal who's been in a relationship for 7 years and has lived with her boyfriend for about 6 of them. She has Reumatoid arthritis and works part time as a nanny to earn as much as she can within her physical limits, she earns about £500 a month. Her boyfriend is the same age as her (27) and does factory work, earning about £2000 a month. My friend always thought she payed excactly half of the rent and bills with her boyfriend (that was their agreement from the start) She found out recently that she's paying just over half and doesn't know if she's right to feel confused and angry. Her boyfriend controls all the bills and finances, she just gives him a certain amount each month and is then broke. She told me she also does most of the food shopping on top of that. Her boyfriend is saving up to go travelling on his own for a year apparently. I know how I feel about this, but what do I tell her? She says she loves him.

2007-11-23 03:02:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So what is a guy's favorite type of panties that you like to see on girls. .... style, color, ....

2007-11-23 03:02:22 · 7 answers · asked by pantiesfromus2u 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell some cool things that are good to talk about on a date that is interesting and not anything that nasty please, thanks a bunch!

2007-11-23 02:56:14 · 14 answers · asked by sportman459 1 in Singles & Dating

if they stare and me and all but they dont make the first move who knows maybe i might give them a chance cause im still searching

2007-11-23 02:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by jacqueline m 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend, has a boyfriend who vows he loves her , yet he is going on holiday with his wife,(they have been seperated for years) i understand how upset she is ,what do i advise her ,????

2007-11-23 02:45:12 · 37 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 02:37:58 · 21 answers · asked by eirefaeriemom 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been inside my box for a long time,and I seem to be having trouble coming out of it,and I have tried to come out,but having trouble, sexualy,and all around. If you have any ideas that would work let me know. Only honest answers please!!! This has become a serious problem for me!!!

2007-11-23 02:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story,so I'll break it down to the basics.
A few years ago the wife(now ex) cheated on me, got knocked up and I divorced her.
She got the house and car (which I still make payments on) as well as alimony and child support for a kid that is not even mine.
Since the divorce, my boss has let me do as much overtime as I could, but with the sluggish economy he can no longer approve overtime.
I got a night job at Home Depot but it's 1/3 of what I made on O.T.
I have friends and family who have been very good to me and deserve something, but with her maintenance, the attorneys payments and the cutbacks at work I don't even have enough to pay my own bills.
I thought if I stole some things (from stores, not individuals) it might be excusable ?

2007-11-23 02:18:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend had a sleepover.i wasnt invited so i threatened to murdur her(it was supposed to be a joke).she knew it was and last night at my house she stabbed my little sis,kendra w/ a knife i called the cops on her and she ran away.kendra was bleeding so bad.my dad had just went for a buissness trip and my mom went to work.i dont have a car,what should i do?

2007-11-23 02:07:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My hubby use to raise his ex's little girl til she was about 6.She moved away to live with her real dad but is now coming back to Seattle.This girl has contacted his family and spent Thanksgiving w/them. I have alot of bad memories about her and her mom and the hell they put me through. Not leaving my husband out b/c he usually took their side(dont know why I stayed w/him!stupidity I'll admit!)He even put that little girl before our own daughter who is a year younger. Since hearing of this, I am haunted by my past. There is alot of anger I have towards him for our past and what he did to us.Its been bothering me so much that I dont even want to be w/him anymore. We now have more children and I know he loves them with all his heart and they to him. Thats whats been stopping me from leaving him. I hate him so much right now that these memories are on my mind and I want OUT!!

2007-11-23 02:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by taylor_22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship with this man for 2 years now. We have a daughter together. Generally he is very nice on the surface, but underneath he has a lot of problems and instability.

He drinks and when he does he cannot control himself. When we fight, he throws our furniture around and crawls in a corner and bawls. If I try to leave, he threatens suicide and tells me to 'take good care of his daughter.' We live across the street from his parents so everytime something happens, he runs over crying to his mother. I have no one here.

Worse, he runs over to his parent's house every day and tells them I'm mean to him all the time, that I don't keep the house perfectly clean. His sister even admitted to me last night that he is a major overexaggerator and that she doesn't think those things of me.

We got into a fight last night and he told me to leave and not come back and that he'd be taking my daughter away from me. How can I prevent him from doing this? I want to protect her.

2007-11-23 02:04:24 · 17 answers · asked by Agnostic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 02:02:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been together for 2 months and we both know that the other isnt a virgin. at what point do u think it would be ok to have sex? and PLEASE no one answer that we should wait till marrage cause we already havent and i know we won't.

2007-11-23 02:00:27 · 30 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 01:54:16 · 35 answers · asked by redbow 1 in Singles & Dating

how will i know if i am really in love with him?..
what are the common signs?
i need help!

thanks!

2007-11-23 01:46:10 · 18 answers · asked by katecroft 1 in Singles & Dating

why dont men agree to their love for their wives? why are they so egoist? In our relationship my husband has never ever given importance to my feelings. . he never has any word of praise for me whatever good i do. he has a lot of 'main' in our relationship. he never hugs me , never kisses me. its only at the time when he wants me on bed only then he comes close to me. and that too once in a week. othervise he never touches me . he never holds my hands.
i have lost all my confidence. i feel shattered because of his this type of behaviour. i am a good looking, educated smart lady. but he has made me as if i am thing to be used & then ignored. i feel hurt. what do i do. its not that he is not expressive. he shows his love towards the kids, towards his mother towards every other person in his family, including his brother, sister etc. but has never ever shown his feelings towards me.
i have started disrespecting & disliking him

2007-11-23 01:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by cancer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very good relationship with my partner that called it off because she said that she is not ready to commit yet. We live in different towns about 4 hours away & met on the internet. The chemistry was incredible. She called it off a couple weeks ago because she said that she was not being fair to me & that she was not going to hurt me. She said she did not want to commit and that she was not leaving her job or where she worked. She said she needed to finish her therapy before she was ready for any relationship and that I had been through enough shitty relaionships & she was not going to contribute to it. I get a text message from her once in a great while. For Thanksgiving she sent me a Big warm thanksgiving hug & said that I was a part of her and she carried our experiences together in her heart always. We both love each other no doubt, but she is not ready to commit or leave her job of 8 years or the town she lives in. I can not leave where I live either. What do you do?

2007-11-23 01:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Singles & Dating