Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

I had a very good relationship with my partner that called it off because she said that she is not ready to commit yet. We live in different towns about 4 hours away & met on the internet. The chemistry was incredible. She called it off a couple weeks ago because she said that she was not being fair to me & that she was not going to hurt me. She said she did not want to commit and that she was not leaving her job or where she worked. She said she needed to finish her therapy before she was ready for any relationship and that I had been through enough shitty relaionships & she was not going to contribute to it. I get a text message from her once in a great while. For Thanksgiving she sent me a Big warm thanksgiving hug & said that I was a part of her and she carried our experiences together in her heart always. We both love each other no doubt, but she is not ready to commit or leave her job of 8 years or the town she lives in. I can not leave where I live either. What do you do?

2007-11-23 01:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very good relationship with my partner that called it off because she said that she is not ready to commit yet. We live in different towns about 4 hours away & met on the internet. The chemistry was incredible. She called it off a couple weeks ago because she said that she was not being fair to me & that she was not going to hurt me. She said she did not want to commit and that she was not leaving her job or where she worked. She said she needed to finish her therapy before she was ready for any relationship and that I had been through enough shitty relaionships & she was not going to contribute to it. I get a text message from her once in a great while. For Thanksgiving she sent me a Big warm thanksgiving hug & said that I was a part of her and she carried our experiences together in her heart always. We both love each other no doubt, but she is not ready to commit or leave her job of 8 years or the town she lives in. I can not leave where I live either. What do you do?

2007-11-23 01:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very good relationship with my partner that called it off because she said that she is not ready to commit yet. We live in different towns about 4 hours away & met on the internet. The chemistry was incredible. She called it off a couple weeks ago because she said that she was not being fair to me & that she was not going to hurt me. She said she did not want to commit and that she was not leaving her job or where she worked. She said she needed to finish her therapy before she was ready for any relationship and that I had been through enough shitty relaionships & she was not going to contribute to it. I get a text message from her once in a great while. For Thanksgiving she sent me a Big warm thanksgiving hug & said that I was a part of her and she carried our experiences together in her heart always. We both love each other no doubt, but she is not ready to commit or leave her job of 8 years or the town she lives in. I can not leave where I live either. What do you do?

2007-11-23 01:35:56 · 12 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a very good relationship with my partner that called it off because she said that she is not ready to commit yet. We live in different towns about 4 hours away & met on the internet. The chemistry was incredible. She called it off a couple weeks ago because she said that she was not being fair to me & that she was not going to hurt me. She said she did not want to commit and that she was not leaving her job or where she worked. She said she needed to finish her therapy before she was ready for any relationship and that I had been through enough shitty relaionships & she was not going to contribute to it. I get a text message from her once in a great while. For Thanksgiving she sent me a Big warm thanksgiving hug & said that I was a part of her and she carried our experiences together in her heart always. We both love each other no doubt, but she is not ready to commit or leave her job of 8 years or the town she lives in. I can not leave where I live either. What do you do?

2007-11-23 01:34:45 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I will be getting married in the Dominican Republic next year. He wants to get married in the city where he's from and I would like to get married in the capital where I'm from. What should I do.

2007-11-23 01:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really hate my ex who broke my heart to a point where i dont want to see him.The thing is we live in a same city and i dont knoe how i would react if i ran into him.How can handle it if i were to run into him?

2007-11-23 01:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What to do about family who comes to every event as a guest and takes loads of leftovers home?
Every holiday and family event, my sister and I prepare a HUGE meal for about 25 people. What can we do about other members of our immediate family that attend every year, sit down and expect to be waited on, then leave first taking home several meals worth of leftovers? Some will bring a dish to pass, but still sit on their behinds the whole time while my sister and I bust a** to pick up after everyone and do the clean up. They don't monitor their pre-teen children who are sure to be first in line for food and take several servings of dishes on their first time through the line as my sister and I cringe worrying there won't be enough of the favored dishes to go around, only for those children to leave mega portions of untouched food on their plate laying around the house for us to dispose of later. While my sister and I are finally eating, they announce that they have to leave and they fill up a pan of leftovers sufficient to feed their family several meals... what to do?

2007-11-23 01:26:01 · 17 answers · asked by Michele L 3 in Family

Do you have to married to be classed as a daughter inlaw?

2007-11-23 01:25:10 · 21 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

be honest......... im 15 by the way.

2007-11-23 01:23:46 · 51 answers · asked by AbbiLovesNick&BlooregardQ.Kazoo 2 in Singles & Dating

Say you meet this girl that you thought was really hot at an airport this summer. You talked with her for a couple of hours and it turns out that you tow have alot in common, and you feel like she's not just another pretty face but a real down to earth girl that is also kind and funny. Your plane arives and you have to go, you forget to get her number or e-mail but you know her name.

My question is when you got home would you try to find her online or just forget about her & if you didn't fine her online would you still remember her today?

2007-11-23 01:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It really sounds like my bf has the symptoms of ptsd. He was abused by his dad, almost got raped by him, then his dad was arrested, him and his mom lived on the streets for a year, his cat caught on fire and watched it burn, he seen his best friend get killed by a buss right infront of him, all his gf's verbally abused him accept me, etc.....he tells me he feels emotionally muted, even though he makes it feel like he really shows his love for me. Yet, he recently told me he wasnt sure if i wanted to be with him when i took him back(we were together 8 months, he dumped me, saying he was confused, didnt know what he wanted, cuz of his music)i told him i really do want to be with him and when he told me this : just keep in mind that my music comes before everything'' how can he say that? he also says he feels worthless all the time and never ever let go of his past. Im the only gf whos treated him good, and its complicated to know how hes feeling... plz help

2007-11-23 01:17:31 · 3 answers · asked by Canadian19 2 in Singles & Dating

have friends that costantly put you down

2007-11-23 01:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3 in Friends

before ur marriage?

2007-11-23 01:12:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-23 01:07:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay as a family sometimes we all go to church together...well i am a christian but i don't like going to church and or expressing my beliefs....welll i didn't go to church last sunday cuz of all reasons i didn't want to...well my mom told me that i can't get out of going to church every sunday and so bascilly she will make mee go to church and i have told her i don't like going for all the reasons i have already named...i just wanna know if it is me that is mis-understanding all of this or my mom

2007-11-23 01:03:12 · 27 answers · asked by Hispanic Bratttt 1 in Family

The other night my sister in law was talking ok then the next thing she turned into a ventriloquist!!.....she looked really freaky..do you think it was the spliff ?

2007-11-23 00:48:42 · 8 answers · asked by little devil 4 in Family

No one did for me-which is fine-but I´m just curious if someone did something for you to make it more special.

2007-11-23 00:44:14 · 21 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

2007-11-23 00:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cheated with my boyfriend at the weekend there and i thought i wud never do that but the guy i cheated on him with is like prefect and treats me with so much respect but the only thing is that we cant get into a relationship cause he is joining the marines and soon to be shipped away i am guted. i am still goin out with my boyfriend but he treats me like **** and doesnt care at all and sees me when he wants to but i tried to dumped him the other day and he is like oh i will change and he is actually trying i dont think i can break up with him now but i do feel guilty that i cheated on him , but me and the other guy called it quits. shud i tell my bf i cheated on him?

2007-11-23 00:29:11 · 52 answers · asked by maxine m 1 in Singles & Dating

can yall give me some proposal ideas!?! please!
thnxxx..

2007-11-23 00:27:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His parents were staying with him from out of state...Will this be coverd under thie homeowners insurance??? Can I sue their insurance company????

2007-11-23 00:27:05 · 13 answers · asked by Rylee's Mommy 2 in Family

my best friend, a nice guy... we've always been happy with other all that. but on wednesay i found out that he has a gf... he doesn't know that though. but nowadays in class he'll act so different... he'll get rude to me one minute and the other be nice ,laugh with me , tickle me and all that. he'll give me bad comment and say sorry. it annoys me sooo much.

i don't kno what i could now.

2007-11-23 00:17:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now a days, making friends on the internet is common. Many people fall in love through chatting. And falling in love leads to marriage, but what happens after that?? Unsuccessful marriage, Divorce, depression and finally suicide.

2007-11-23 00:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 27th.. most of my friends were married since their 24 yrs old..i'm shame with them..it makes me less confident..huhuu

2007-11-23 00:07:40 · 35 answers · asked by farah s 1 in Weddings