Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

2007-11-19 23:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by DONNA 2 in Friends

he says he didnt but a month ago he cheated with his ex but he says his is done and he just proposed after a moth of dating but weve known each other for 6 months soo i dont know if he even wants to be with me or he has feeling for his ex teresa

2007-11-19 23:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by sarahboszor17 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out Saturday that my ex has a friend living with her now. This friend is a drug addict and an alcoholic and has been on the wagon many many times. They also are Bipolar and I don't know if they take their medication but they weren't on it the last time I saw them and they were very manic. She threw this person out after being with them for only a week because this person drove her crazy. I doubt this person has changed in three months. Do you think this will last with them living together or will my ex eventually get tired of this person and throw them out again? It didn't work the first time. I'm just worried about her. She seems to be desperate around the Holidays and she needs someone there to do for her, yard work etc. so I'm guessing that's why they are there. I can't talk to her because she's pissed at me so we aren't speaking. When this person leaves I'm sure she'll start talking to me again. It's the case of I have my friend I don't need you kind of thing.

2007-11-19 23:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 23:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well At school yesterday my friend was sick, and at lunch he was all over this girl that is his friend, but that doesn't make it right in my book. She was in his lap, and he was flirting, well I decided to pull him aside and talk to him. Then I had my other friend talk to the girl and the guy. After that we went and talked the rest of our group. And he walked over and we started yelling my friend yelling at him and then I did 2. I was just trying to keep her from getting her hurt. So when I got home there was a myspace message saying " Good job for ruining my life". and we started talking and she hates. She said "He broke up with me because of YOU!!!"


I prayed to God because I honestly didn't know what to do

I've had problems with this group before, Right now I feel like they aren't good friends, and I should just cut my loses, and move on. This is what I think God is trying to tell me.

2007-11-19 23:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. I KNOW that he is the one for me and vise versa. I can really be myself with him. Yes we have our fights but we both are trying to make things work! We are talking about getting married sometime next year. I'm 24 and he is 26. We are both grown and old enough to make our own decisions. His family loves me! I love them to! I feel so comfy around them. They treat me like part of the family. My family can't seem to warm up to my boyfriend. He has made some mistakes in the past but he has turned his life around 360 degrees. My family never liked any of my boyfriends. Especially my mom. Should I get married to this man knowing how my family feels about him? HELP!

2007-11-19 23:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by sweetone_08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 23:44:22 · 21 answers · asked by Dr. Susil 3 in Friends

They have asked me and the kids to have Thanksgiving with them. Yes, their mother will be there with her boyfriend as well. She has not seen the kids in over 3 months, She has made some pretty bad choices since she hooked up with this guy. Because of those choices, I have full custody of the kids and she only gets supervised visits.

I do get along well with her side of the family. They do help me out a little. Sometimes, they will ask if they can have the kids over so they can spend time with the kids.

Could it just be me not wanting to see her? I don't want the kids around the boyfriend. He has been in jail several times for drug charges. Now, my ex-wife has also been arrested and found guilty of drug possession too.

I would love to go to her families home I have a good time around them and the kids do too. Should I just suck it up and go for the kids sake or do as my instints tell me "Don't go."

Tricky situation! Thanks for your help.

2007-11-19 23:43:57 · 18 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was fixing him breakfast and then he tells me during it that he is gay and I was like upset so I told him to eat healthier and take vitamins so he wouldn't be gay and he said no! I am so frustrated with him now because he should know this isn't normal. I don't know if this is a phase or if he isn't eating healthy or not. He is like 17. I don't know what to do.

2007-11-19 23:43:42 · 25 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Family

i want to help him and make this work i just dont know what to do

2007-11-19 23:36:41 · 51 answers · asked by J L 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I'm Nick from New Jersey. Im going with my class for a field trip. But the problem is, I dont have friends there. Another class is going for a field trip next month. If I cannot attend the field trip with my class this month, then I will have to attend next month with another class. I have friends there in the next class which is scheduled next month. I want to attend to the next class but the problem is my classmates might think that I dont want to be part of the class, they may think of me as an outcast and if that happens, I would have a harder time making friends in my class. So what should I do? Should I attend with my class this month? or attend the next month with me enjoying but taking the risk of worstening my situation in my class? Please help me decide...

2007-11-19 23:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I saw him at Target and he was electronic and was moving his head back and forth and I was brushing his hair!!! Sooo cute!!

2007-11-19 23:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 23:36:01 · 15 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

for me it was when i met my dream gal :) i love you hazel xoxo

2007-11-19 23:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by snoopy 4 in Singles & Dating

what do you guys mean when you keep telling a gal that she's very cute on her face ( she's pretty ,her gf's are many a times jealous of her ). does this mean guys dont like her in that sense ....i mean cute!!! if a gal is beautiful u tell her she's pretty and all nt cute !!!!!!!!!

2007-11-19 23:33:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is polygamy that bad ?

2007-11-19 23:28:50 · 9 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question before with regards to a gift for my brother-in-law.

Ive just ordered him engraved photo cufflinks they have a photo on one of his wife on her hen-night, very funny with cowgirl hat and veil dancing, and on the other her in her wedding dress on her wedding day looking gorgeous again.

Is this a nice gift? They got married last year so are still newlyweds....

2007-11-19 23:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by Hannah 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If she says no?

2007-11-19 23:24:19 · 24 answers · asked by Johnny 7 in Weddings

and that you look fine

2007-11-19 23:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I hooked up with this guy at a party..it was just a physical thing, no more. At first. That was about 2 months ago..we are still fooling around and have all these great connections. Thing is, he was seeing someone when we started this whole thing, albeit not seriously. This didn't bother me, he was very up front about it. Now, he is still up front about when he sees her (sparing me the details) -except that I feel myself beginning to care ...if I tell him this -he may run for the hills..another clingy woman etc. what to do???

2007-11-19 23:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 23:19:35 · 19 answers · asked by sue w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey
I know i have talked about this before but I need to know what to say to this dude who is my ex that wont leave me alone!! He is always showing off to me!

2007-11-19 23:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by Baby R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 23:15:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and I've only kissed one guy ever!Thats how pathetic I am!
I have a good personality and people tell me I'm pretty but I don't seem to get the guys!I do go out clubbing and have a great laugh.I have lots of brilliant guys friends at college but thats all they are just friends.They never seem interested in anything more.
I'm really feeling down about still being a virgin and I'm afraid that my inexperience will put guys off.I'm very afraid of the pain aswell and sometimes I think I'd be better off just doing it with some random guy then its done!I'm so frustrated and fed up!

2007-11-19 23:11:43 · 11 answers · asked by Mossy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 23:10:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My buddy told me to have sex with my wife first before i married her just to make sure we were sexually compatible and i didn't listen. It has been just a a couple of years into this marriage and she is still terrible. She is the missionary only type of woman and then rushes me while we're at too. I tell all my buddies now to test the waters first before you jump in....

2007-11-19 23:07:47 · 3 answers · asked by cabryan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 23:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by sue w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think that it should be made legal? im 15 and one of my teachers is in his early 20's. were not dating, but i wanted to know if anyone felt the same as i do, that it should be permitted as long as the minor consents to it. i wouldnt have sex either, but if a minor was to have sex with the adult, i think that although inappropriate, it would be the the people in the relationship who make the decision.

2007-11-19 23:02:29 · 20 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I contracted with herpes five years ago! Feel lonely and deeply depressed. I regard me as a dirty woman and because I have herpes I will never find a husband, I will never marry, I will always be alone. My life changed since I met a great man on a personal dating screen http://herpesmates.com. Now I wonder will I give my herpes to my baby.

2007-11-19 22:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd have to call my mom, I'm not sure I'd want her to attend, quite frankly. If they took me out, she'd have to go too, cause she would kill everybody in the room, after they killed me (regardless of what I did) Mama don't play that mess Lol! But yeah, I'd call my sweetness. What about you? Imagine that nobody was allowed to be there in the room. What would you say on the phone? Depressing question, but some people have to make these decisions in real life, and some people never get the chance to.

2007-11-19 22:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships