Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

I have come to the point of realizing that girls when they are children don't see things like love feelings....so they don't understand that a boy feels love for her..and they get scared if he tells her that..years later, this is confirmed by telling her that she was our biggest love when we were a kid......probably ending on a making up at that point but the feeling isn't the same. Still, years later, the girls now show what love is better than man generally, because they have developed a sixth sense..... It makes sense to me lol but how can this be? What the hell is on our mind? :)

2007-11-19 00:29:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...To smarten up and get their life in order or do you move on to greener pastures?

2007-11-19 00:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

She was an issue at the beginning of our marriage. We had huge fights because of her. My husband hid her from me at the beginning of our marriage. He purchased a folder lock just to hide her pictures from me and kept going to the internet to chat with her behind my back. I came to know all about it when i found out about the folder lock. I was very upset that time, i felt i am betrayed by the two of them. We fought so hard and almost ended up our marriage. He accused me of being jealous, insecure and even sending me away.
Six months,he said that he cut his communication with her already. So be it. I don't want to stress myself again because of her. He stopped going to the net to chat with her and our relationship changed into more closer and deeper.
When i got her message yesterday it upsets me and i became grumpy all day yesterday. He asked my why but i didn't tell him that i got a message from this woman. I don't want to open a topic about her. She's a closed book to us already.

2007-11-19 00:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by margarita lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Endurance or Intensity?

2007-11-19 00:26:56 · 12 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

she have contineous harrasment,illegal debauchery,bloody hell sarcasm

2007-11-19 00:23:01 · 2 answers · asked by Shyam R 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found a seperate secret email ID s that he has been using for one of them. Initially he was deleting all his messages and call logs and I never doubted him a bit.But now I know.If I tell him that it hurts me if he talks for long hours or text messages them frequently. the calls last anywhere between 1 hour to 1 1/2 hours.He claims that he has the right to think and behave in the way he likes and he needs personal space.He says the seperate email ID was created as he was afraid of my comments and resentment. I dont know if what am doing is invading his personal space? I am deeply hurt and confused.help

2007-11-19 00:19:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and they call her a sl ut but when a boys does the same thing but even worse nothings wrong with it i see this a lot in my high skool it just makes no sense at all

2007-11-19 00:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need advice from outside my family. I work for my father and stepmother and they allow me to bring my infant to work with me (which is great). HOwever, they want to babysit him or come to where I work and take him for the day. I am totally against it and I'm about to get fired. I have not left my child with anyone yet and am definitely not comfortable with them watching him as my father drinks and my stepmother is bipolar and I have seen some of her episodes. I have tried to reason with them and explain that he is my first child and I am not ready to leave him yet but i have been yelled at, cussed at, and told that I am being a bad mother. I want to quit but no one else would allow this type of work arrangement. Am I being unreasonable?????

2007-11-19 00:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by brod 2 in Family

2007-11-19 00:09:51 · 18 answers · asked by Lingam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a monogomous relationship with the same 55 yr old man for 6 yrs. I work full time and have a successful career and he does too. He has been divorced now for around 7 yrs and I had nothing to do with his divorce. He has 3 kids and
They have told their dad they do not like me. Probably because I have been very up front with my belief these kids ranging from age 26 to 32 should all be out on their own.
They should be able to support themselves by now and not be milking their dad. We have a great relationship except when it comes to these kids. I also have 2 adult children who are independent. His adult kids move home like a revolving door with their whole family and when they move in suddenly go on weekend vacations and dont help with the bills or anything. They blow money and then cannot pay bills.
I pay my share when we go out. I have deferred family get togethers for 3 yrs now. I dont really care either way. I want whats best for him and to make him happy

2007-11-19 00:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

We live in a dual residence (ie one house downstairs with my parents living there & Another upstairs where my husband & I live with our 2yr8mth old daughter). I am the only child, my daughter the only grandchild. She is used to her grandparents downstairs. Her grandfather is about to die. We do not have any religion in our lives so I cannot say to her that he has gone to heaven, or to live with angels, or god etc & I dont want to just try that now. When he is gone she will regularly ask where he is. We say now, hospital, asleep etc. We can say this after he has gone & she will be fine but I do not want my mother to keep going through the reminder day after day and having to lie to her. Do we actually take her to the funeral and say he is in the coffin and gone? (I dont like that as her last memory of him, but maybe thats what you have to do). i expect many people have tried things that I cannot think of now, so, Please, any and all ideas and suggestions... thank you !!!!!!!

2007-11-19 00:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by RR&BB 1 in Family

I have decided to join the Marine Corps and leive everything behind. Even though that my ex doesn't want me to leive, it is something I must do. I can't stand the sight of her with her new boyfriend. How do you think I should tell her?

2007-11-19 00:03:43 · 7 answers · asked by canyon 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been married once before so i'm weary of how bigger dress i can have thoughl, just for my first wedding i did and sjp and wore a very plain dress and regretted it ever since. the onces i'm looking at are
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http://www.mon-cheri.co.uk/dimontellabridals/LRB1716.htm

or any other ideas, money is no object - just really need some impartiacail adivce

2007-11-19 00:00:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband was a wonderful husband till the business failed, we had some family losses, and other downfalls in our lives. It was followed by a period of time that required us to be separated due to situations. I never stopped loving him and waiting for him to return. Now he's been back for five months, and I've done everything he's ask of me, but he just took great advantage of my willingness to do things for him out of my love for him. He moved in with his sister, telling me that he was done. I told him that he would never find a woman that would love and care for him as deeply as I do, and he replied "I'd like to see." When I married him I told him if it's not forever, don't marry me, but he insisted that he would be with me till the day he died...he's still among the living. I've stuck by him and supported him through the years, and I've never denied him anything. He tell me that since we did not marry in the catholic church that our marriage is disposable, is that right?

2007-11-19 00:00:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce