Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

done something intentionally to make your bf jealous?I asked because a while back this girl asked me out in front of her bf

2007-11-19 04:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see on here often that a girl is engaged with no date set. Now my grandparents say if you don't have a ring and you don't have a date, you just have pillow talk and you aren't engaged. I heard a similar statement on a judge show recently. You don't have a date you aren't engaged to be married. I am not sure what I think about this. I mean, obviously if there is a reason--like still in college and when I graduate we will set a date, it would be hard to know until your last semester. I mean things happen and you may need another class to graduate. Or you are focused on passing the bar and don't have time to plan a wedding, when you need to set a career in place. But in general I think those that are engaged 4 or more years with no date are living in denial. I mean he didn't set a date b/c he wants an escape route. And definitely no ring is no commitment.

What do you think? No date set for a wedding. Are you really engaged? Is there a hard and fast rule?

2007-11-19 04:40:08 · 18 answers · asked by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 in Weddings

well i was watching a commercail the other day and it was about a guy talking to his friends niece and like planning on going on a date with her and then the friend tells the other friend that it would be wierd for him to go out with his niece and the friend responded SHES LIKE YOUR COUSIN TWICE REMOVED ive always heard that saying but i never could get it what the heck does it mean????

2007-11-19 04:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by cynthia o 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girl cannot marry a guy due to unavoidable circumstances..should she continue the relationship with the guy just like a friend or break it up,inorder to save the guy from further heart-break.?.

2007-11-19 04:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I moved on with a new boyfriend,and he moved on.On the weekend he talk to me on the phone,and mentioned that this woman that he cheated on me with has a baby by him which I had a feeling,but he just now telling me about it.He said that he wants my kids to be in the baby's life.My children who's 7 & 9(boy & girl)doesn't know about the baby,and I don't want to tell them,cause they'll ask questions,and might be confused.What should I do?

2007-11-19 04:38:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your man (or lesbo partner) said that they liked your big rear end. Would you be mad because they think you have a hippopotamus butt or be happy that they look past that and love you despite what idiots on tv think about what are "proper" looks?

2007-11-19 04:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by SUMMERWE 3 in Singles & Dating

when i look at 360 profiles i often see that women calling themselves sexy, beautiful with revealing pics. also when you see the names on YA, like sexymom or hotwife. you never see this in guys, prettydude or maybe richguy (to show of money?) seems like guys dont need to label themselves like that as if they have nothing else to offer. i always find it so silly when women do this as if they have low self-esteem and only get attention that way. to me that has nothing to do with being confident, because thats something you dont need to put on your forehead. anyone else feel that way about the profiles?

2007-11-19 04:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by not this way 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so up until a day ago, I had every intention to marry my British fiance in England on Oct. 3rd. After talking to a mutual family friend, I realized that since I'll also be living in the UK, having the wedding there might seem like I'm trying to cut my family out of our lives. My fiance and I were thinking about having two ceremonies- One in the USA, and one in the UK. The only problem is all the legal stuff that goes with it. Is it possible just to have a wedidng ceremony in the US without having a marriage certificate? Will we need to get my fiance some sort of visa if the first wedding ceremony is in the US? Or can we go ahead and have the ceremony there without having a legal ceremony, and then have the actual wedding in the UK a few months later, where we'll actually have it certified and legitimate? I know it's a confusing questions, but any input would be greatly appreciated...Thanks so much.

2007-11-19 04:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Melanie P 2 in Weddings

Im getting married next year, its going to be in Virginia but we want to go to an island for our honeymoon. Does anyone have any Idea's. I want something beautiful and Exotic

2007-11-19 04:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by riialicious 2 in Weddings

Recently, I decided that I am repaying everyone in my life for everything that they have done for me, but the one person that I can't think of what to do for is my boyfriend. We have only been together for 3 weeks but he has done so much for me before we started going out. What would be something nice to do for him? Thanks a bunch!

2007-11-19 04:35:36 · 1 answers · asked by <3 3 in Singles & Dating

What is the typical way the costs for a wedding are divided up? I'm sure they could be divided up in any given way, but what is the general "rule of thumb?"

- Like, the bride & groom pay for what?
- The bride's family pay for what or contribute how much? The groom's family?
- Does the bridal party pay for their own dresses & tux rental?
- Who pays for the flower girl's dress?

Etc.

If there is a website (OTHER THAN THEKNOT*) that gives info on this, please let me know.

*I've been using theknot & having a hard time with it; plus, the layout for their pages makes it very difficult to find things. I'd rather just stay away from it.

2007-11-19 04:35:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

were are you from?? what country state etc etc.. just wondering were the majority of answers come from....tanx:)

2007-11-19 04:34:15 · 44 answers · asked by **mum to a little miracle** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

at me he doesnt come over to my house were he usually stays. he gets drunk and hes a total different person.he yells at me like i were a child getting scolded.i get very afraid of him when hes like this he makes me very nervous.what should i do?

2007-11-19 04:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by sandie c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 04:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sinead 1 in Singles & Dating

or, how do you teach him the way you like to be kissed?

2007-11-19 04:31:08 · 3 answers · asked by Bambi 1 in Singles & Dating

ok these are rubber band type rings (a rubber band might actually work) that are worn on the base. sometimes they are used by men with ED. they help keep blood from escaping and help maintain an erection. I have no problem with ED as I'm young and healthy but I noticed when using one, I do get noticeably fuller. Just curious if any women have been with a man that used one and if you noticed a difference or noticed it feeling fuller. thanks.

2007-11-19 04:31:00 · 3 answers · asked by JM D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok these are rubber band type rings (a rubber band might actually work) that are worn on the base. sometimes they are used by men with ED. they help keep blood from escaping and help maintain an erection. I have no problem with ED as I'm young and healthy but I noticed when using one, I do get noticeably fuller. Just curious if any women have been with a man that used one and if you noticed a difference or noticed it filling fuller. thanks.

2007-11-19 04:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by JM D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never been very good at this activity, but someone suggested writing the alphabet with my tongue. I guess some comedian said it in the 80s but I wondered if it worked?

2007-11-19 04:30:10 · 2 answers · asked by butnozzle 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not a very insecure person so I'm a bit of a realist on the topic but why is it that when a gf/wife catches us looking at woman who's better looking than her we are dogs and the girl is 'probably a *****', but when the situation is reversed and a guy says 'at least be descrite about it' , suddendly we get a feminist speach about being controling and supressing a womans sexuality or "excuse me.. first off.. I look at what the f*ck I want to look at, do you see me f*cking him?"

I think it's wrong on both sides to do it blatanely in front of your partner but I'm getting the impression guys aren't allowed to complain or correct anything a woman does without being of accused of being controling

2007-11-19 04:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by Undead 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married about 4.5 yrs the marriage on a whole has been very emotionally rocky for me. I am going to be turning 26 yrs old soon and my husband is 39 yrs old we have a daughter(adopted)who is 3.5 yrs old after i could not concieve even though i had no medical issue.My hubby has a son from his first marriage so he did not care.Looking back i think i was more infatuated with the gifts he was giving me,i liked being shown off and all the attention.It felt like love but my feelings started diminishing shorty after we got married because i was so lonley.My husband travels 4-5 months out of the year he will let me buy whater i want but is cold and ignores me 90% of the time.He is very controling expecting a copy of my schedule for him to aprove so he can call to check in as much as he likes.Emotionally cruel i suspect an affair and physically has shoved/pinned 5x and 2 days ago slapped then shoved i fell into a glass cabinent(i needed stiches).I signed a pre-nup and have never..

2007-11-19 04:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is an extrememly hateful person. I have never dated someone so terrible in my life. We have a 7 month old baby together. We have been split up for about 6 months and he already has a live in gf who has 2 kids. He does not pay support, he lies to me, refuses to pay support, and knowing the back stabbing 2 faced person he is I am scared of what he might do next. I have a fear that he is going to try and get custody just to avoid paying support. I dont really think he can accomplish winning, but he is a snake and nothing he does suprises me. I dont know his new gf but I know him and I know both of them have called the police on my telling lies to try and get me arrested. I hate those people and would like to know how I can find out what they are up to without doing it illegally.

2007-11-19 04:27:56 · 9 answers · asked by fantasy gal 5 in Marriage & Divorce

but they had herpes.......would you repopulate the world?

2007-11-19 04:27:25 · 36 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 04:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by Paulus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 04:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was dating this girl for a few months. everything was going good and seemed like we both wanted to continue getting to know each other. became intimate a bit early in our dating. then an accident happened. the condom slipped. we immediately got plan b. after she seemed fine with what had happened. she even was affectionate and wanted to be intimate again later that day. she seemed fine, then became distant after a few days. i asked her about it. she said shes trying to figure things out. that what happened brought back feelings and emotions from the past. that instead of a long drawn out talk she thinks its best if we just don't say anymore. i tried to talk about this again a few days later. she said she didnt want to talk. she said basically she got her friend and was moving on. what the happened here? she had an abortion from a previous bad relationship. could this have been the emotional issues from the past?why would she not want my support or never want to talk to me again?

2007-11-19 04:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by curious question 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's my situation: My girlfriend and i recently got engaged and its a big deal because we are both only children in huge families. Her parents of course are paying for the hall and the church and the other traditional expenses that the brides parents pay for. My parents are paying for the rehearsal dinner and a few hotel rooms for out-of town guests. The problem were having is that her father is dipping into his retirement fund and her mom got a second job to fund this wedding while my parents are sitting back only having to fork out a few hundred dollars for the rehearsal dinner. They arent helping pay for the wedding,they arent paying for the honeymoon and this is SOOOOO not like my parents to just skip out on helping such a huge event in their lives too. My fiancee is now very hurt and heart broken that they arent helping and its causing her to not even want to do the wedding anymore. What do i do???...i'm just so torn : ( Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!

2007-11-19 04:20:39 · 14 answers · asked by redrenontv 1 in Weddings

Ok, well my fiance and I have been engaged since February of 2007, and well I want to get married within a year or two (AT MOST). He wants to wait until we are both completely established economically (he won't start working until next August, and I'm still attending University). But that could take up to 5 years at least with our standards of what "economically stable" means? So what should I do just wait or push for the big day?

2007-11-19 04:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have an argument in car two days ago....I got mad and didn't talk with him. I still prepared the dinner, the lunch and everything just didn't want to talk. But...he seems normal...watch TV..papers...yard work..etc. After two days...we didn't talk still. I don't want to be the first one to start the talk. I'm confused...angry...and upset. What should I do?

2007-11-19 04:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by bighug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean u dont have to have sex but just to look

2007-11-19 04:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by nooneknows 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 20 and I don't want to be in a relationship. I'm focusing on school right now...and then after I graduate I'll be focusing on my career. Causal sex is still fine, though :D

Maybe when I'm like 34 or so I might commit, but definitely not anytime soon. All the girls I know want commitment. Maybe it's because I'm a guy, or is it just a double standard that it's okay for guys to not want commitment?

2007-11-19 04:16:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating