Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

2007-11-19 02:44:50 · 19 answers · asked by ADC 1 in Weddings

What would you do? run away, stay...does it matter? On your honey moon you notice that you didnt as you guys say..."pop that cherry" will you ask her and care? If she admits rape what would you say/do?

2007-11-19 02:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by Blair Waldorf 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 02:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by bear 1977 4 in Singles & Dating

My LOVE and I are wanting to romp are you wanting to play to with your love in the romper room

2007-11-19 02:40:34 · 2 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married 20+ years, and its a good marriage except for the fact that he thinks he has to initiate all sex or affection. He gets turned off if it is my idea. When I start to be affectionate with him, he says I'm too needy or clingy. It kinda hurts my feelings when he pushes me away. Of course in the beginning of our marriage, I had to fight him off. I still look as good as I did then, haven't gained weight or let myself go. Any advise?

2007-11-19 02:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2.5 months now. We usually meet for lunch once a week (not a scheduled thing, just random times), and hang out once one on one during the week. We are both involved in a church, so we see each other more than that in a group setting. We usually talk, text, or email every day. Most of the time text or phone after 1030 at night. About a month into us hanging out, a conversation was steered in the way of relationships. Not necessarily by me or her, just mutually. I told her that I was starting to have interest in her, and she said she could see potential in a relationship, but didn’t want to rush into a relationship, as she had gotten out of a two year about 3 months earlier. I would say we hang out more now than we did then. We are not dating though. We talk about our families and our past quite a bit. We are both busy, and independent. Neither of us is clingy. The other day I told her that I was gonna get my hair cut, and she offered to do it. Yesterday, I went to her apartment and she cut it, and we hung out for a while after. I was doing some stuff on my laptop, and she said she had to get ready to go so she was gonna take a shower, but told me I didn’t need to leave. I am sure this is very hard to follow, but I am trying to keep it compact. She is 25 and a CPA, I am 21 and almost done with college. Does this sound like stuff that a normal woman would do if she just wanted to be friends? Any advice would be great. Thanks!

2007-11-19 02:38:12 · 4 answers · asked by Dan M 2 in Singles & Dating

We have known each other for 24yrs now, she knows my own relationship(of 24yrs) with her sister is deteriorating and 2 affairs her sister had while with me. I have been pure & truthful to my SIL and we have done a lot together. I have been there now and seen 3 long-term relationships end of hers. I can go on and on. We are very much alike in many ways and interests.

We also confide in each other, mostly me doing the talking. But she has come out and said I look good, and we would look fine as a couple and finally, she loves me.

Strange part is family peer pressure from others including our own children my son 14yrs and her daughter 18yrs. My own wife says, “its your second wife on the phone” the other SIL says “ oh we know you two are close”. The MIL says I do things other men didn't do with her. (flowers on mothers day when she was single, assisting her to move many time etc.

But now I honestly do love her.

Sooo, has anyone herd of a successful SIL or BIL relationship?

2007-11-19 02:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by cyclone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I JUST started dating this guy and he seems to have a problem with my BEST FRIEND. I've always said in the past that if any guy I start dating ever has a problem with my best friend that I would stop talking to him. The thing is, that I think he only doesn't like my best friend because my best friend is a gay male. I told him that it's very important to me for him to get along with him. But it seems like he doesn't even want to get to know him. Which I DON'T UNDERSTAND!!! He doesn't even KNOW HIM!!! He met my best friend ONCE! and I thought it went rather well....but I guess he just doesn't like the fact that he's also a male. I think he might feel a bit threatened by the fact that there is another male in my life that I just absolutey ADORE!... and also...my best friend isn't flambouyant at all so it just seems like I just have some random "straight" guy always around or something....I don't know....what should I do!? What would You do?!

2007-11-19 02:34:15 · 3 answers · asked by tatttttsssss 1 in Singles & Dating

I already spent my first Thanksgiving and Christmas without my ex-husband and his relatives last year. But I'm hearing Christmas songs on the radio today at work and I'm feeling this overwhelming sadness. I miss my ex-husband (he left me) and his parents and siblings - we had such fun traditions for 5 years and then all of a sudden it was over. All of my friends are married and some have kids so they all have their own families to go back and forth to on holidays. I love my own family, but it is not the same hustle and bustle that it used to be. Help!

2007-11-19 02:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by alyanna99 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him in a simple way. I don't want to waist your time, it's never going to happen between us.

will it hurt his feelings badly? it's not what I meant to do.
thanks.

2007-11-19 02:26:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically speaking, if you were with someone for a long time and about to have a baby and you told the father that he was a soon-to-be dad and he wanted a paternity test, would that offend you?

Just getting a female perspective, (but fellas you can comment too).

Besides, if you haven’t been cheating then there should be nothing to worry about, right? The dad will get his anxiety resolved and confirmation and you will get the validation and medical proof that the child is his like you said.

But what about you personally? How would you feel about this?

…And no, this is not happening to me. Ha Ha!

2007-11-19 02:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by Answer-Me-This 5 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically speaking, if you were with someone for a long time and about to get married and was a soon-to-be husband and she wanted a prenuptial agreement first, would that offend you?

Just getting a male perspective, (but ladies you can comment too).

Besides, if you haven’t any doubts about the marriage lasting or any desire for her things as opposed to desire to be with her then there should be nothing to worry about, right? The wife will get her wish and you will get to be with her.

But what about you personally? How would you feel about this?

…And no, this is not happening to me. Ha Ha!

2007-11-19 02:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Answer-Me-This 5 in Singles & Dating

She wouldn't reply to my aim message, so I smashed my computer and everything in my room. Now I do nothing all day(I am using a public pc now), so what now?

2007-11-19 02:23:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Come on, ladies. You know if your boyfriend of 2 or 3 years or however long you've been with him, got down on one knee and asked you to marry him, you'd say yes in a heartbeat.

I just don't understand the purpose of staying together as boyfriend and girlfriend, living together, having KIDS together and NOT getting married.

I dated my lady for 1 year before I knew she was the one. We were about to put the plans in motion to be able to just live together, and I thought, "Why the hell am I doing this? I want to marry her and have a life with her. I need to make this official." And so I did, in front of all my family and closest friends and it was amazing. We've been married for 3 years and I couldn't be happier.

So explain this whole, "We don't need to get married just to prove we love each other" stuff.

2007-11-19 02:19:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and birthday suite too
I have someone special in mind
do you..

2007-11-19 02:17:58 · 5 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Singles & Dating

For A General Talk Page Where You Can Talk With Loads Of Other People,,,,.................

2007-11-19 02:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I stress the word normal. No extreme health, financial or family situations.
I personally think 4 months, to a year (at the most).
I think that any longer just gives a couple more time to fight over trivial wedding arrangements.

2007-11-19 02:15:00 · 29 answers · asked by Jonny B 5 in Weddings

he has been working long hours and he has been tierd but am a little bother that we didn't go out or he didn't bring anything home but a chessecake! i don't expect a romantic dinner since we have two kids to bring along with, we could of gone out as a family, i think he still should have done something to celebrate our day, should i let this go or should i go to him about this?

2007-11-19 02:12:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband after 5 years put up a profile of hisself on a singles page.he started talking to females on there and eventually gave them his cell phone number.i busted him out and now he has promised me that he put a stop to all of it.i contacted one of the girls on yahoo messenger and told her to leave my husband alone cause we worked our marriage out.see we had an arguement when he put the profile up.he deleted his profile i know that cause he sent me the email where it said his profile had been deleted,but should i trust that he's not still talking to them on yahoo messenger?cause he said he ignored all of them where they can't contact him anymore cause he loves me and wants only me what do i do?

2007-11-19 02:09:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know the Dad or the Mom calls to talk to the kid's but sometimes they try to make conversation or fight with the other parent.

Now tell me, how do you feel when your either expecting them to call or your not and they call, how exactly do you feel, and how long does it bother you for?

2007-11-19 02:06:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it makes me really mad if my friends lie to me like all the time, especially if i know that they are lying. how do you get someone to stop lying all the time?? it drives me crazy.

2007-11-19 02:04:06 · 32 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Friends

Earlier, I posted a question about my sick husband who takes the smallest symptom and turns it into the biggest illness. I don’t think his mother was too happy with me yesterday. She is a sweet person to those who she wants to be sweet to, but overall she is blunt, rude and controlling and it drives me crazy. I went to church yesterday and I asked my husband several times if he was okay to stay at home alone (for congestion and sore throat). He said he was so I was off to church. Afterwards, me and my three aunts went to dinner as usual. I ordered my husband a to-go plate and headed home. I get a call from my mother inlaw and when I answer the first thing she says is “___, how’s ___ doing?”. I said “Fine I guess. I’m not at home yet”. Then I paused and said “I talked to him earlier though”. She said “Well what did he say” (and she said it firmly). I said “He is laying down”.

2007-11-19 01:59:51 · 20 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I met once one boy who looked interesting to me. I didn't noticed him before but I saw him sometimes smiling at me. I thought it's not something special. I am quite complicated and I have problems with myself sometimes.

And once I was in a lesson and rised my head and I saw he was gazing at me. It was quite warm and I liked that.
I have a few persons who understand me indeed. And I thought that he could be one of them. Then I started to look for some information on the internet. And I saw his form once where he looked very communicating and courageous person who has many girls around him. Something like 'ladies' man'. Nothing similar to me. In the lessons he smiled at me.

Once I saw he walking in the street with a friend. I said him 'hallo' but he didn't answered. So I didn't understand why he smiled at me but didn't greet me in the street?
Maby there is some kind of persons who have 'two lifes' - one with many friends and another with serious,intellegant personalities?

2007-11-19 01:58:21 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 01:50:21 · 37 answers · asked by lexxa 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is African American and I am Caucasian. We have been married going on two years and together for five. Recently we have had some difficulty with communication and there are times he says things to me that are out of line and he finds no problem with it. I was talking with a friend of mine last night and he said that my husband thinks it's ok to talk to me like that because in the African American community men treat black women that way all of the time. I disagreed, but I took what he had to say as he was trying to help me. In a nutshell he basically said b/c of our cultural differences the relationship will never work. So, my question is: How would the cultural differences in our relationship keep us from communicating effectively or keep us from spending quality time together? And the advice I need is in reference to this communication. How can I reach my husband to let him know my feelings are important to me and that they aren't stupid?

2007-11-19 01:46:06 · 11 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

buy for my parents 25th wedding anniversary?

i have already booked them a weekend away. but what else could i get them?

thanks

2007-11-19 01:42:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-19 01:42:08 · 17 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Singles & Dating

i want answer

2007-11-19 01:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by sulbokobon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 01:38:55 · 10 answers · asked by Missy 09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-19 01:38:43 · 8 answers · asked by brownsugarr615 1 in Marriage & Divorce