I told him in a simple way. I don't want to waist your time, it's never going to happen between us.
will it hurt his feelings badly? it's not what I meant to do.
thanks.
2007-11-19 02:26:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this the same guy as the other question?
You don't want to have sex with him, even though you are attracted to him--because?
Is he pressuring you?
Never say never. You might change your mind. Why would or wouldn't you?
It is never a waste of time to enjoy a friend's company, unless you are being dishonest, and letting them think it in more than that. Everyone wants more friends. Some SAY friend, when what they want is sex, and are just playing it out.
You KNOW what is going on. If this man were a girl (friend), how would you handle this differently? Think on that.
Sounds like you like the attention and don't want to have NO ONE, so you are bs-ing around to keep him hanging on, and he is hanging on, hoping for a loose moment.
Not fair.
And if he is happy being your buddy, then sex will not enter the conversation, after you are CLEAR about how you feel.
If you have been clear and it is still a topic, he is not listening to you. Nip it in the bud or you are going to have big hurt feeling to deal with. The longer you mess around, the worse you will hurt him.
2007-11-19 03:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt his feelings but it is what you needed to do. You should always be honest in this situation. His feelings might be hurt but it is better to tell him than to give him a false sense of possibility and then hurt him more. The key to this is not to tell anyone so it doesn't get back to him. Don't joke with your friends or even tell them if possible. If he wants to tell people that is up to him. Also, don't be aloof from this guy still talk to him and be nice to him to show him you guys can still be friends (with out saying it) and that you don't feel weird around him. Hopefully he sets his eyes on a new girl and forgets about it.
2007-11-19 02:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by chris03711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt his feelings for a little while..but I think once he really thinks about it he will respect your honesty more than anything..though I dont think he would be heart broken maybe a little rejected but atleast he knows the truth and he isnt anxouis anymore which means you dont have to worry about him as much..he will be fine
2007-11-19 02:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you feel is the most important thing. It may hurt him, then again it may not hurt him. It is human to feel concerned, but your feelings should take precedence over all others. Why be with someone because you feel sorry for them? You should be with someone because you love them, and they love you as well.
2007-11-19 02:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already said it then why ask. If it does then it is.
Even if It does hurt you chose the best way and that is direct and simple.
good for you. when it is over IT is over.
2007-11-19 02:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the short term it would hurt his feelings maybe but, in the long term you're helping him out by showing him he's wasting time.
2007-11-19 02:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it might hurt his feelings, but it is better to that now rather than wait until he has grown more attached to you. It is best to be up front and honest with him now.
2007-11-19 02:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Pam H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuu should break it down to him slwly sit him down and say look i know how yuu must be feelin inside but im really sorry ur not my type.
or yuu can make up a lil white lie and say something like look i know yuu like me and i wish i like yuu back but i have a boy i am seein and the mo or tell him your by on yuu like girls and ur just not into him
2007-11-19 02:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be a sore point, but if he says anything further just tell him, If i said yes but was not interested in you that would be worse than telling you now that i am not interested. at least now that i have told you you can turn your attention to someone who is truly deserving of your attention ;)
2007-11-19 03:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by Micheal Jones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋