Family & Relationships - 19 November 2007

I decided I want to have programs at my wedding. It just seems like a fun thing to do and will give guests something to look at as they are waiting and take home if they so wish. They will have a picture of my fiance and a picture of me when we were each small and then one of our engagement pictures underneath. Then, of course, all of the other info that are normally put into programs.

Well, does anyone know of a good place to get them? Decent price and off- or online is fine. Online is preferable almost though.

I don't want to print them myself because I am doing other things myself and don't want to worry about those as well. So, if I could have any advice or websites or whatever, that would be GREAT!

Thank you all in advance for the help!

2007-11-19 07:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Julie D 4 in Weddings

I really enjoy going down on my husband!

He says I am great at it .... BUT there is always room for improvement so....

1. What are some tricks that you like to use OR What are some tricks guys like to get

2. How can I get my husband to direct me to what he likes or what he wants more of .....

Again not a perverted question .... just asking for advice

2007-11-19 07:27:49 · 27 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a good time to have an affair or second..........? if you know other person is having affairs too?

2007-11-19 07:26:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 07:26:18 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For a long time I cared for this guy, but recently after "making love" with him I felt disgusted. Even in the middle of performing I gagged!! I knew my feelings for him were slowly fading, but didn't realize how much I must dislike him now. I am now concerned that because of him it will take me some time to want to be with someone physically again. Has this ever happened to you? Do I need theraphy now??? I feel confused!!

2007-11-19 07:20:15 · 28 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so we have just bought our first home! We would love to combine our moving card with our holiday card this year. We want it to be fun and cute any ideas? We have 4 daughter twins 6, a 5 year old and an 8 month old!

2007-11-19 07:19:29 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah D 1 in Family

what should i do if someone tells me that my bf wants to break up with me what should i do

2007-11-19 07:18:42 · 6 answers · asked by chelsea o 1 in Singles & Dating

My mum and dad have an argument at least once a week shouting at each other, it usually only happens when they get drunk. I am 17 and they sometimes start shouting at me after it and say its all my fault they argue because i smoke weed and they find pipes or bongs in my room sometimes. But the arguments are never about that it's always about other stupid things never about me, so i dont get why its meant to be my fault. I think it might be from them drinking so much do you think it is my fault?

2007-11-19 07:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by Rik M 1 in Family

My best friend just had a baby and her husband is not helping her out at all. He hasn;t changed one diaper, fed the baby or even held him for more than 5 minutes. If the baby cried he actually yells at the baby to stop--and the baby is just a newborn. Now that she isn't working he actually throws that he makes the money in her face. He says that since he works 15 hours a day that its his money and she should appreciate that she has a roof over her head...but she never said she wasn't happy or appreciated it. She askes him if he wanted to be with he anymore and he said if I didn't want to be with you anymore You wouldn't be here...so my question is...if he says he wants to be with her...then why does he act this way and not help her at all and scream and yell at her constantly? He says he wants to be with her, but doesn't act like it...Do Actions speak lounder than words?

2007-11-19 07:17:17 · 25 answers · asked by lesliebedford623 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His friend is single and no girlfriend. He's over 40 years old but still hang out in go-go bar. He has a lot of friends he met in go-go bar, both male and female. He's been friend with all exotic dancer. I never liked when my husband go and hang out with him. I feel threaten and now he's married he shouldn't act like he's still single and go hanging out in those bars. Most of the time, his friend will call or send him messages to go out. If not, he rarely goes by himself. I feel like it gonna ruin our marriage life one day if he doesn't stop. How do I cope with this?

2007-11-19 07:14:36 · 25 answers · asked by Penny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

married for 3yrs but together for a total of 6yrs.

How would an open relationship work?
My husband and I have been talking about it for a while now and thinking about actually making it work... The thing is how do we make it work without causing any problems?

He's not jealous and i'm alright with it... I dont mind him being with someone else as long as they know its not serious.

We both love each other very much and just want to spice some things up a bit.

Prefer Comments from people in an open relationship...

2007-11-19 07:12:17 · 22 answers · asked by ladyeve983 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am moving from Louisiana to Texas. I have purchased a home and the closing date is December 10th.

The problem is, I have an 8 yr old daughter that (my court papers say) I share joint custody .....but, we have not heard from her father in over a year. He has not had any visitation nor has he tried to contact her since christmas last year. He has made 3 child support payments in 3 years with the last being Oct of 2006. He does not have a job nor a house. The last place I knew of him living was with his fathers girlfriend.

I looked up online (and called an attorney to make sure that I have to do this just to cover my butt) and found out that my responsibility is that I must notify the father by sending him a" notice to relocate letter" to his last known address by certified mail. I sent the letter to the girlfriends house this morning but I still am unsure of his whereabouts. Soooooooooo what if we hear nothing back - does that free me to move?????

2007-11-19 07:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by spoildrotn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband installs carpets. His work is very scattered. He might work from 8a-2p one day then 6a-9p the next. I have been cheated on many times before so when he doesnt answer his phone or tell me exactly where he is working that day i get suspicious. it def. affects our relationship but i dont want to get hurt what should i look out for. Oh also his text msgs get deleted alot because his phone (my old phone) can only hold so many and he uses that alot for work so i cant really check that... Anyways what should i look out for.

2007-11-19 07:11:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Husband in 40's, good job, kids, wife that adores him, wedding day promised to never join the army again, behind him, 15 years later he started to think, sleep, talk, the service. His entire family has begged him not to join. His promise to his wife means nothing. Stands to lose $$ if deployed. Wife full time home maker, good wife, he is going against all. Joined for 2 months (part time) before he told wife. Now he has turned cold, obsessed with his 'new' life. Wife fears mid-life crisis. He always was very moody before now displays further behaviour diffierences. Yet thinks the wife should continue with him as if he did not change their whole lives. Should the wife confront him and tell him to move out? Should she leave with the kids? Or is there hope for this marriage? The wife was honest up front that she did not want him to join when they married, could not be a military wife, she remembers how depressed, angry, drinker/ he use to be when he got out before.

2007-11-19 07:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by wife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has two girls - 7 and 9. If the 7 year-old is my flower girl, what can the 9 year-old do? I don't want her to feel left out.

2007-11-19 07:08:35 · 25 answers · asked by monicanena 5 in Weddings

My husband and I got married three years ago and things are normal. But last week we argued over some silly stuff as all couples do, and i said some hurtful things about his family and that upset him and we got into it real bad you know. He packed his things and left. I tried telling myself its okay but im now hurting. I love him and although we had this bad argument that got nasty, and i was mad for a day or two, now i miss him.
Have i chased him away for good? What makes a man leave his marriage? Its the first time he has ever walked out? What can i do?

2007-11-19 07:08:08 · 28 answers · asked by AALYAH R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single young woman who desires to be married. What should I expect from marriage? What are things I should work on now that will make my marriage strong?

2007-11-19 07:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by DelightBunnie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so my fiance is white. People who have read other posts from me probably know that by now. We are very much in love, my whole family has met him and they all love him because he loves me and I'm happy. I have spent a lot of time with him, his parents and his sister who's his only sibling. They all love me. Me and his mom are very close, I call her mom. But, on Thanksgiving I will be going to his sister's house for dinner. Like I said before, his sister loves me. But some of his other relatives will be there. Relatives I have yet to meet, and he has described them as "Red Neckish". His grand parents, he has been kind of estranged from for a while because of the whole interracial dating issue. He's said they've kind of mellowed on the idea of it, because they have learned that he is attracted to black women and that is who he chose/chooses to be with. But honestly they don't like it, but accept it for the most part. So, I am nervous about meeting them. Advice pls

2007-11-19 07:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Opinionated 2 in Singles & Dating

And Steph(mine and Charley's(myexgirlfriend's) bestfriend) said I should ask her out. The only problem is I'm really good friends with this girl and even though me and Charley are still bestfriends even though I still have strong feelings for and I was bestfriends with her before we went out, I'm worried that if I ask her out and she says yes we'll split up and we'll never be friends again and that if she says no we'll be awkard around each other like what happened with me and Steph when I asked her out and she said no, it was a month until we started talking again. Also she doesn't hang about with me and Charley that much and only really hangs with Steph and Charley's even though she's my ex is a big part of my life and has never ditched me for a guy(she has had boyfriends but she's made sure she hangs about with me when she has a boyfriend) and I know if I got a girlfriend like April(the girl I fancy) I'd end up ditching Charley when she's never done that to me even when she's got a boyfriend.
What can I do, I like this girl but I don't want to ruin any friendships in the process?
I'm 15, April's 14 or 15, Steph's 13 going on 14 and Charley's 12 going on 13.
By the way this isn't affecting my school work, I'm getting A*s and As in science and maths without revising and with revising I'm getting college acceptable grades in English and other lessons.
Me and April talk alot in RE and she's quite helpful in that subject and we also talk about life at home in RE.

2007-11-19 07:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Singles & Dating

start trouble by ADDING TO THE STORY OR BY MAKING UP SOMETHING and then the person is in SHOCK ....Is it a mental illness???...he always laughs when i say..."that is false or that is wrong"...it is hurtful also...and then the other person has to defend theirself..WHAT is a matter with him??? honest answers only...It really does bother me...What can i do??? He is over 50 years old...

2007-11-19 07:03:53 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family

My husband has a temper! When we argue he gets very angry and says that I need to shut up and usually leaves. He has never put his hands on me but last night he threw (and shattered) the remote control. Is this an acceptable level of anger. He has always been very responsible about leaving before it gets physical but he yells and leaves and nothing ever gets resolved. I don't think that I should have to always conceed to him to avoid any physical abuse. Am I wrong? or should he learn to better control his temper.

2007-11-19 07:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by reynaspoerl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents just got into a huge fight and my father left saying to my mom "you broke my heart." He drove away and we don't know where he is and he won't answer his phone. Currently, his voice mail says "I can't return your calls right now."

I'm really scared. It's just me and my sisters right now and my mom apologized, but he won't call back. We have no idea where we went and I'm really scared. I'm the oldest of four girls and right now my little sisters asking me what's going on. We're supposed to travel tomorrow to see my dad's family, but now my parents don't know if we're going on our trip afterall.

How can I help my parents? They've been married for 16 years and everything seems to be going so bad right now. Yesterday was my bad meet and now this!

What can a 14 yr old girl do to reunite her parents?

Serious answers please. Thank you.

2007-11-19 07:03:10 · 44 answers · asked by miss brightside 4 in Family

i have no car no money and no were to live what programs are out there to help get a appment and money to raise my kids i have no job. i want to stay in wi.

2007-11-19 06:59:30 · 14 answers · asked by chainznwife69x2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-19 06:54:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you call her beautiful, sexy or pretty?

and why dont you call her beautiful?

My husband and i have been together for over 6 years and i think my husband has called me beautiful maybe 3-5 times total!

I know im pretty (not being coincided) but why do guys not call there wives beautiful after being with them for so many years?

2007-11-19 06:54:12 · 13 answers · asked by ladyeve983 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We all hate the cold and the bull crap of NY State. Especially the cold. Now that our kids will be going to college we would get cheaper in-state tuition here but I am sick of being shut in the house from October until May.

I'd love it if everyone agreed to move to some place like Houston, TX. We are used to getting 3 bd. houses in safe areas for $75K however and none of us are willing to live in the ghetto. My husband is a drug and alcohol counselor; there is a need for those in every city. My business and my license is portable. My sister's business and license is portable. Her husband would have to find a job but he is a skilled welder. My brother would probably join us as he is a perpetual student and my mother, well, we would just have to knock her out, pack her stuff, and have her wake up in another state. As for my MIL, she won't go anywhere as long as her sister is alive but they hate the cold too. The older folks need a cheap, safe place with apartments.

Any ideas?

2007-11-19 06:53:14 · 6 answers · asked by Teresa 5 in Family

I have this boyfriend and we have only seen eachother once everytime we go to meet he always makes up excuses =/
is he using me or is he just busy with other things?

2007-11-19 06:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you know? How did you find out?

2007-11-19 06:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating someone we both have children I suggest activities for us to do with the children which usually cost money. Since I suggest am I expected to pay it seems he never takes his wallet out or offers to pay at any time.

2007-11-19 06:48:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How should i behave around his parents, dress..
Any advice you can give.

They're conservative but cool about the fact their son is dating a pakistani girl.

2007-11-19 06:45:17 · 23 answers · asked by zurious 2 in Singles & Dating