Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

I try to make friends and I try to keep muself busy but no matter, I feel so empty and lonely inside.

2007-11-15 23:49:11 · 18 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 and my Gf is 21, living in USA.

The problem is that my Gf doesn't know how to wear decent clothes. Last week i had seen her with her friends ..she wearing just a string bikini. Again.. when we both went to see our parents she was just earing a small 'top' and bottom exposing her body too much!!!

I had already advised her thrice but she is asking what the problem is in exposing urself !.... she's a diehard fan of micros...

I also don't lik my girl showing her breasts b4 my friends. But still she is adamant about it.

2007-11-15 23:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by Omg !!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been going to the same math tutor for six years Normally she is a sweet, helpful, caring woman but lately she's been...different. Wednesday night I saw her for help before my test.

Our teacher had given us a huge review packet of fifty questions. My tutor insisted that we "skip around" and in the end of our session, i only got ten out of the fifty problems done! Also, she spent fifteen minutes of our session reading the book because she didnt understand what i was learning. Then, when she tried to explain she said, "carry the exponent in the equation." There were two equations so i asked her which one she meant and she got mad and laughed at me. She also continued to yell at me for making mistakes but she wouldn't show me how to fix them! Then she continued to yell at me and make me feel stupid.

I can't talk to my mom about this because she is my mom's best friend and when i tried, she said i wasnt greatful enough for such an "angel" like my tutor. Please help!

2007-11-15 23:20:55 · 7 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-15 23:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by shutupgotourroom 1 in Singles & Dating

This friend of mine who is married with kids was telling me his situation and had doubts about his masculinity. I mean don't get me wrong he is a rugged guy and all but sort of having doubts in his marriage and was less interested in sex with his wife. But he likes hanging out with his buddies more often each day and finds comfort in being with them. Could he be on the path to being gay?

2007-11-15 23:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my g/f broke up with me for another guy about 3 months ago. we were together for about a year and after the break up we founf it really hard to keep any kind of relationship but we managed to be friends and about 2 weeks ago we got together and she ended up cheating on her b/f with me. now im in high school so cheating here is not sex but we made out and had some for-play. after that i made her feel guilty enough to tell her b/f and they broke up which is really what i wanted cause i do want to get back together with her. now she is comming over here today and we will be alone and she wants to have sex. she said it would be meaningless to her and that it doesnt mean we will get back together or anything. i dont want to do it if its not going to mean anything but i will if she really wants to. im the only one she has ever had sex with but i dont want her to be a whore and have sex just for fun. what might i be able to say to her to wake her up to the fact that sex should be specail?

2007-11-15 23:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by chunkx1200 1 in Singles & Dating

last night my boyfriend told me, i keep having dreams I'm cheating on you. i said, something bothering you? he said "i feel so bad. i was hanging out at the bar the other day (i go there to, but i was home) and i went to hug Cori goodbye after pool legue, i did one of those little air kisses and she turned her head and i got her on the cheek i feel so bad" and it wasn't a big deal even though i made it that way, but i had a dream he had changed. he worshiped me and was so freakishly in love with me. i only remember one thing he said out of everything "i love your voice it's so distinct" what does that mean? thats erking my nearves, why in my dream did he say that, what does "i love your voice its so distinct?" i dont sing, and my voice is normal, nothing special. is there another translation for this?

2007-11-15 23:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you thing living together without getting married is a problem ..because...

2007-11-15 23:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I took a week vacation off work and was looking forward to getting some much needed work done around my house! (Like painting and getting ready to put in hardwood floors, etc) Wellll - my husband decided to take the time off too and he is just going to be in the way! He thinks I should entertain him all the time and doesn't want to "waste" vacation time. How do I get him to either go back to work or leave me to my household chores without making him angry?

2007-11-15 23:01:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if yes, did it work out?

2007-11-15 23:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey. There is a guy who is friends with my best friend. Well my best friend brang him over two days ago and i met him for the first time and she said that he likes me. Its kind of complicated because i don't feel the same about him, and i already like somebody else. I told my best friend that i liked him more then a friend when i really don't because i didn't want to hurt his feelings. I feel really bad about this, i just didn't want him to get hurt but now he knows that i don't feel the same because my best friend told him. I don't think he gets the message because he keeps on texting me asking if i would go out with him. Was i wrong to not tell him the truth straight away? i mean he is a nice guy i just want to be friends with him but nothing more than that. Thanks :)

2007-11-15 22:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He never lets me date other people, he tried to fight guys I go out with and tells them lies about me so they can break up with me. One time he came to trash the place I worked in, and told my boss I paid him to do it, and I got fired. What should I do? I don't really want to get him into trouble though,.

He always puts me down to and tells me i'm fat and ugly that no one else would want me.

2007-11-15 22:54:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Singles & Dating

Where do I start, well i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years in May, Thinks aint been great but they been ok, She cheated on me at one point about 4 months into us dating, as far as i know she had sex, now she admited this to me very shortly befor we where due to go on holiday which I paid in full, so as I dint want to lose my money I put of ending it till after, and never did we got closer and closer.

Now I met somone who I like I spent a night with her and we kissed, so I told my gf yesterday I needed a break to think about mine and her relenship but not telling her about the new girl, i then went out with my mate and then the girl

I realy seem to like this girl am no child am 21 and my GF is only 16, this new girl is only a year younger than me, she seems like she likes me alot and I think theres a good chance it will work but I feel weird in my stomac like its turning over, Have I made the right choice last nite seemed so right now I am thinking I should talk to my

2007-11-15 22:51:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and myself would like to get married abroad. But I haven't got a clue where to start. Silly question. But what is the difference between a religious and a civil ceremony. I'm not christened but my partner is

2007-11-15 22:45:03 · 26 answers · asked by Eccles 1 in Weddings

My mother died when I was 15 and my father has never really been a part of my life, has anyone ever heard of finding surrogate parents at this age? and if so, where would one find such a thing?

2007-11-15 22:26:25 · 5 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Family

My wife and I have been married for nearly 7 years now. We are both in our late 20's and we have 3 little girls, one whome I've adopted from her previous marraige. We work separate shifts so there is no need for the kids to go to day-care. Here's the issues. The little time we spend together usually involves arguing about who did or didn't do something during the week. She has little respect for my feelings or the things I do to try to please her. I do all the cooking since she can't cook, when I dicipline the kids she undermines me in front of them, saying I'm too hard on them and lets them off the hook. I joined her faith of religeon and quit smoking and drinking a year ago. She's not sexually interrested in me any more. It's a once a month deal and it's more of a hastle on her end. Because of this all, my feelings for her have dulled. I'm not ugly by any means and she fears I'm going to leave her for another girl when there is no other girl. Do we try counciling?

2007-11-15 22:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by LithoMan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 22:20:39 · 21 answers · asked by Monika 1 in Family

I understand that we can never totally eradicte the “eew” factor and WE ACCEPT THAT coz WE UNDERSTAND.
But you people are judging us off the limits that doesn’t conform the real facts and you tend to generalize right away. That is just wrong.

We want you to know that having a cousin as a girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband DOESN’T MEAN that we sleep with other family members as well. NO! We still respect family relationships! We see our brothers as brothers, sisters as sisters, other cousins as cousins (in the LITERAL way), etc… We still respect our family members!

It’s just that we fell in love to a cousin of ours. You cannot really control your feelings and your mind doesn’t always go with your heart. It is not our fault if our happiness belongs to a cousin of ours and it is the hardest thing in the world to stop yourself from falling in love.

2007-11-15 22:18:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could go back in time, on the wedding day and warn yourself about certain things in marriage what would you say to yourself?

2007-11-15 22:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone ever tried this in relationship ,please share your story

2007-11-15 22:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1 in Singles & Dating

weve been dating almost 2 and a half years. he brought up marriage in the past and i said no i felt too young. he isnt pressuring me to do anything.but lately i have been kinda wishing i can marry him. i kno its a big responsibility and all. im ok with that i have experience..im # 8 of 9 kids and have 17 neices and nephews. but the thing is i kinda want someone in my grade or someone i kno my age to get engaged first like i dont wanna be the first one bc i feel like its young and im uncomfortable...do you understand or think its weird... i want your opinions. thanks

2007-11-15 22:10:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the current DDR in Second Life high score holder. Is this a turn on or turn off to women?

2007-11-15 22:09:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 22:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this beautiful dominican girl online and she is real because she lives in my old hometown and people i know, know of her, but we talked online and now we been talking on the phone for two months, and are suppose to meet next month, she started to like me and now she claims she loves me, she calls me more than i call her, she calls everyday never missed a day, on her birthday when the clock hit twelve she called me first so i can be the first person to wish her happy b-day, she told me when i come she wants to be in a relationship and she told her family and friends about me and i know because i've spoke with some of them on the phone.

She wants to meet my family she says, and she always talking about us making love when i get out to new york to see her next month, she told me the guys that like her and always call her, she cut them off and tells them she's talking to somebody which is me....what do u guys think? because i do feel for her.

2007-11-15 22:03:42 · 14 answers · asked by mr discreet 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a friend for his kind hearted and personality , he is not good looking and not even my type. Sometimes is hard to smile back at him or see him in the eye becouse it's just that he is ugly specially when he is smiling.I Thing he knows what iam thingking but he seems doesn't really care about it.in your opinion can i bring up this issue to him but in light conversation like not mean to put him down?Tahnk you

2007-11-15 21:56:53 · 10 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1 in Singles & Dating

that, at the other end .there.s a person of your dream.s wateing
for you .

2007-11-15 21:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 28 and I have never had touched a guy or have had sex with one. I told a guy I love very much I want him to be my first time..and I wonder what he feels like if I touch him. Can someone tell me what do you think he will feel like to me?

2007-11-15 21:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear friends, treat me as your good friend and share interesting and good mails with me...trust me I will be a good friend....

2007-11-15 21:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

now it's all in the past but he recently began talking to the girl's sister (but only on myspace). I find this weird. I'm I just being jealous?

2007-11-15 21:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So we used to im all the time..and then he disappeared for ages..figured it was just one of those online things..whatever..then he tells me he was in diabetic coma (hes diabetic)and thats why he didn't contact me..and he tells me all this worrying stuff about his health..so we email back and forth for a bit and then he drops off the planet again and I email him back that i am worried ..is he ok? wondered whether he had collapsed again..and nothing for days so I rung him cos he gave me his address and all his phone numbers ages ago..and I rung him and hes fine..just doing heaps of hospital tests and medicated and busy and he says he will be there all day sat and sun if i wanna im and he liked hearing my voice...but i am suspicious of him. Even tho hes been nothing but nice and lovely to me part of me thinks its all a load of shite and hes playing mind games with me. What do you think?

2007-11-15 21:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Friends