ever had an office affair?

Question

if yes, did it work out?

Answer 1

I haven't personally , but a few years ago I worked at a place where office affairs were very common. There were several people, most of whom were married, who were known to be having affairs with colleagues. Usually the affairs would come to an end, and then months later they'd be at it with someone else. It was a bit of a merry go round!

My point is, EVERYONE knew what was going on - who these people were, who they were sleeping with. It undoubtedly got to senior management. Gossip spreads like wildfire at work, and you will be thought of as a lesser person if you start using your workplace as a place to have a bit on the side.

It isn't worth it - do not involved - you could lose your partner and your job. Even if the consequences are not that drastic, you can still lose credibility and respect with your colleagues.

Answer 2

never had an office affair but i know two people I used to work with who did. they were together 5 years... then the guy found out that the girl was cheating on him (probably cuz her parents were telling her to try dating this other guy they like better).

The guy (at the office) resigned. The girl got married to the other guy within the year but after a while, we found out that she broke up with her husband and is back with her ex-bf... In fact, they both have a kid together.

Answer 3

Yes I have, and no, it hardly ever works out. It's usually just lust, and can lead eventually to trouble. If you two start fighting, you don't want that to go on where you work. There is an old saying relating to this which I think is true,"Never cut your meat where you make your bread". I know it's corny, but it's actually good advice. But then again, this is only if you're hoping for a relationship. If it's just sex, and the understanding is that it's basically a "friends with benefits" type of thing, then go for it.....you have nothing to lose. Just don't get your heart involved. Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Office affairs generally turn out bad. Once the two split it causes an uncomfortable work environment. If it works there are issues of jealousy among other employees.

Answer 5

I can honestly say i have never had an affair with an office.

Answer 6

lol NO, but the question is. "HAVE YOU"? lol I know before when I started working at my job, there was this guy who was like so like all over me, we worked in the office, he was a manager and i was an assistant manager, but damm man, this guy would pretend to like accidently tripped or something to touch my butt, breast, or a simple hug would turn to something more sexual, i was much younger back then though so You know I never said anything because I felt embarresed and usually no one would believe you , but now that I have been there for such a long time and know people much more, and dont work there anymore, I realize "dammit I should have ****** this guy" lol hahahah well he was hot, mmmmmmm i can imagine me and him ******* on that table.........aw well to late for me though.........am a women and i love sex what can I say.....so yaaaaaa

Answer 7

i never have, my wife would kill me, but i had an ex'boss walk in on two workers having sex on a office desk, the woman was laying across the desk, well you get the picture, of course both were fired . and we had to get a new desk after that. because no one wanted to use the old one,

Answer 8

No, never been anyone, in the office who I want to have one with. LOL

Answer 9

ive dated a coworker, and yea when that all ended our business was all over work. so i dont really recommend it. oh and at that same job i worked with an ex...haha that was fun too. but me an him actually still got along well we didnt really try too hard to talk to eachother though

Answer 10

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