now it's all in the past but he recently began talking to the girl's sister (but only on myspace). I find this weird. I'm I just being jealous?
2007-11-15 21:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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NO I HAVE FORGIVEN HIM NOT MOVED ON. I'M STILL MARRIED AND STILL LOVE HIM. I'VE FORGIVEN HIM. I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY HE STARTED TALKING TO HER SISTER.
2007-11-15 22:04:49 · update #1
Hes on the sniff again.....desex him ! lol
2007-11-15 22:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by twopzinapod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure I will get blasted for this but I think once a cheater, always a cheater. If they do it once. . . It is very difficult to remain in a relationship once one or the other has strayed. He shouldn't be talking to any girls on myspace in myopinion but of course, that is up to you. What is wrong with being jealous? It is natural and especially since he has already done it once. Are you jealous or cautious? I would keep an eye out and trust your instincts. Good luck.
2007-11-16 05:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by dallas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being jealous, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Why is your husband talking to other women on myspace? Doesn't he know how badly your trust in him was dented, and doesn't he care about rebuilding that trust?
You two need to agree what is and isn't acceptable about relationships with members of the opposite sex. It doesn't matter what you agree, as long as you're both in harmony and respect each other enough to keep to the agreement. Otherwise you don't have a future together.
2007-11-16 05:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Helen M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is intolerable and it needs to stop immediately. He is disrespecting you by chatting with the sister. Tell him it is the Internet/chatting with other girls or your marriage. It seems that he has taken your forgiveness as approval to "cheat". Move the computer into an area where it is plainly visible so that he carry on his "innocent" activities in front of you. Learn how to check out the "History" of your computer, it will reveal what he has been up to.
2007-11-16 05:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by canuck1950 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be jealous if your husband has cheated on you in the past - you also have a right to ask him not to contact her sister or talk to her on my space - he should respect your feelings -
I know I wouldn't want to know what that family is up to by him contacting her sister on my space its bringing up those bad feelings all over again!!!
Speak to your husband and tell him how you feel - he should cut ties with that family for your emotional sake.
Good luck
2007-11-16 05:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by charge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whether you're jealous or not, but I find that weird too. Is there a particular reason for him to talk to the girl's sister?
2007-11-16 05:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you really love him , i guess thats the case ...
Jealousy.. comes in...its good believe me at times , of coz , coz you only want him..by yourself and no one else ...rite
especially the relatives of the girl he once cheating you on...i wouldnt let him ...
coz what if hes aking the sister to help him get to the same girl/her sister ..
i would tell him to drop it completely ...
Good luck and dont wory too much ,you already have him...hes in your house ..
2007-11-16 05:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not just being jealous, if that was me i wold have words, i have had 3 different men cheat on me and i never saw it, looking back i think to myself "how could i have not seen THAT!!?" have words with him tell him how you feel about the hole thing. personally if that was me he would of been gone the first time, but maybe your love is deep. ask him whats going on??....why are you talking to her??? good luck hun, hope you get the answers you are hoping for =)
2007-11-16 05:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy.... for sure!! I would be..... Id be paranoid as well!!! Are u still with ur husband?? Id be asking him to cancel his account or stop talking to this other girl....... because ur feelings should matter to.
Who cares if he cares if u are jealous??!! If its bothering u and making you unhappy then tell him...... if he doesnt fix it then he doesnt really care about you as much as u think he does..... dnt fight fire with fire just tell him straight out that you feel uncomfortable with what he is doing!!
2007-11-16 05:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Resor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that's not weird.... i think i would feel the same way.
and no i wouldnt say you're being jealous... maybe just being smart.....
(the warning bells (eg: jealousy) go off for good reasons - usually to let us know we are in / about to be in a situation where we may get hurt).
2007-11-16 05:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by rapturousmermaid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a hard time trusting him again as I did my wife when I found out she cheated on me. And I was right I found she was doing it again all on the Internet. Now she is living with him.
2007-11-16 05:45:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ynot 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋