Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

2007-11-15 18:07:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanna know my friend has a girlfriend in phillipines and always asking for money andhe turns her down most of the time

2007-11-15 18:00:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 17:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by bebe1028 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a friend the other night and over the night we just got really drunk (I didn't mean to it just hit me).

The next day someone from the club told me that I kissed another guy. I don't remember it at all, but my friend said I did briefly but it was no big deal.

I feel so ashamed, I have been with my boyfirend almost 2 years and never done anything like this. No one that he knows was there and there is pretty much no chance he will ever find out. but I feel so so terrible, should I tell him??

2007-11-15 17:54:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this friday I have to attend the wake of a good friend of my brother. I knew him and his family farely well and would this be a regular situation I would be fine, but I'm nervous because he commited suicide, I never knew anybody who's done that and it scares me. it may seem silly to you but I'm seriously lost. How do I act? do I say I'm sorry for your loss? do I shake there hand, hug them? do I bring a mass card? I'm so angry at him! my steps of grieving have gone straight to anger and I just wish I could yell at him. I can't believe he would do this to his family. I don't think I can hide my emotions of anger. maybe I just shouldn't go.

2007-11-15 17:53:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi all I am prity here. I am having one huge problem that is taking up all warmness and color out of my life.

I am divorcee from my husband because due to emotional blackmails from his family side, it was very much bad so in those days I came to know one lady friend who also divorcee, she got thru her problem and that with two kids so she initially reached out to me giving support and phone calls and all when I was suicidal and in misery.So we become fast friends and at some point I feel she is saving my life. She has got married and that with two kids from previous marriage so I felt some hopes for myself.

These days I am spending lot of time in her house, and I slowly slowly came to see what a great guy her husband is. He is very emotional with her and attached, loving guy that I haven't seen in long time, and brave coz he fought with his parents to marry her even tho she is divorcee, and very much emotionally attached wtih her kids like they are his own. They only been togehter some two years. Now I am looking at him in whole new light to see, what kind of great guy does all these? And they had only one child together so he is supporting four people and buying his wife expensive gift like ipod, HP notebook, new cell phone, ect. Treating her so good! It's making me want him and althogh initially he was not attractive to me but now I find him irrisistable.

She calls me over for dinner and lot of things I notice- 1. she cannot keep totally clean house as she suffers from some illness related to her pregnancy 2. she is very much overweight and fat - yet he still seems to show much affectionated for her. I don't know why.

I know I am hiding this feeling in my heart but I cannot resist much longer. I don't want to get hurt in any way. Sometimes I think, if he is such a good guy he can accept this lady and her kids then he can surely accept me and I with no kids even! And I keep such clean house and have great figure too. So maybe deep deep in his mind he is ready to go for better relationship, ie with me. I lay awake at nights thinking on this, that how can I approach him, what should I say? I am sure if he compares me with his wife he will find me much better and more suitable. All the color is come out of my life since I got to know what a great guy he is. Now I feel direct need to approach him and show him how I feel. Can I please get some advice, how to fix this problem? What can I say to him, I don't want to look bad but I must step up as his wife is very much overweight and I am sure we are much better match than that. What words can I use?

2007-11-15 17:47:50 · 19 answers · asked by Krazinski 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am talking about loving your brother, sister, mother, father, and especially your children , no matter what they have done in the past and what they will do in the future????????

2007-11-15 17:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by hppy2b 2 in Family

how do i start one if my gf always has her lips closed? We do nice long closed ones but I wanna make things interesting.


Ps
no tounge

2007-11-15 17:45:27 · 9 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

I would talk to my gramma. She died when I was six, so I feel like I never really got to know her. I have few memories of her, but I do remember her rocking me to sleep at night and singing a lullaby. "Go to sleep, my baby....." I think it was a song she made up. I don't know why, but I miss her so much right now.

2007-11-15 17:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are having some issues, and while I would like to sit down and hash things out, my husband would rather bury the issues. Or, if I can get him to talk, the conversation usually doesn't last more than 5 or 10 minutes, then he starts getting "frustrated" and wants to bail. When he gets to that point, its not even worth it to continue the conversation because it will likely go from talking to yelling, and then nothing is resolved. How do I get him to talk things out without it turning into a huge argument? We have been together 8 years, and this has been a constant thing. I am out of ideas, and feel like I have tried everythng!

2007-11-15 17:33:27 · 18 answers · asked by theMrs. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

You don't invent anything. You've never discovered anything. The most famous engineers, mathematicians, scientists, explorers, philosophers, doctors and computer programmers - ALL men. You underachieve at work. Despite having more advantages than men nowadays you rarely get female Managing Directors. You do poorly on SATs, and in IQ tests. You have poor general knowledge, are less likely to do science (i.e. useful) degrees and more likely to do arts (i.e. useless) degrees. Less than half the members of MENSA are women.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_intelligence

The one field you don't totally suck in is the arts: and even then there are just as many, or more, great male writers & painters. Men are funnier (100 great male comedians for every decent female one). Very few female film directors - and most of them make romantic comedy. Where is the female Mozart or Beethoven? Or Lennon or McCartney for that matter....

Ladies: When are you going to do something useful?

2007-11-15 17:27:04 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just answered another posters' question about not wanting a traditional ring and band set as her wedding rings. And the question kind of popped into my mind after answering her, What makes the marriage officially legit? I mean is it the wedding band that seals the union between man and wife or is it more of the marriage license that makes things official for the couple? Also where did the tradition of the wedding band come from in the first place? Because I think I had heard that in the olden times it was just one ring worn on the middle finger of the left hand. But not really sure where the second band idea came from or why they are both meant to be worn on the ring finger of the left hand. Sorry if this is many questions in one, but they are all related.

2007-11-15 17:24:58 · 15 answers · asked by Cursed_Romantic 6 in Weddings

2007-11-15 17:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was at the library and I overheard something going on. A guy just walked up to this girl and says (and I'm paraphrasing) "Excuse me, I saw and wanted to know what was your name?" After she gave him her name (and so readily, I might add) he complimented her freckles saying they were cute and left..So the question I guess you could say is it really that quick and easy to get a conversation started with a girl and get her name? Especially one you've never met before?.... obviously, as you might tell, I have no luck with women, so this little episode fascinated me.

2007-11-15 17:08:53 · 20 answers · asked by Sammy S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 17:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by chiefredwater 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it that time to jump into the pumpkin, leaving a glass slipper behind?
I myself may be a few minutes behind!!! And I can't recall, if I came to this Ball, barefoote!
So . . . Good Night, Then? Hugs, kisses and until the morning comes?

2007-11-15 17:07:37 · 2 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Friends

2007-11-15 17:02:19 · 15 answers · asked by Wolf woman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

:)

2007-11-15 17:00:36 · 1 answers · asked by ZebraRider 2 in Singles & Dating

I love older women!!

2007-11-15 16:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by betafishj 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife goes onto a website called worlds biggest chat on yahoo to make new friends to talk to.. . i use this site too, for the same reason.
Every time she goes on there, lots of guys flirt with her and ask her to meet up for sex n other things. . even though they read her profile and know she is married.
some of them have even offered so much that she has agreed to their requests but up until now, she has never met any of them to carry this out.
the problem is that my wife is and always has been easily lead.
i dont want to stop her from using this site because she only wants to make new friends but i'm not sure what to actually do about this.
when i confront her about agreeing to some of these guys demands, she says she was only winding them up because they shouldnt be asking her for that but i'm not so sure because she has had affairs before.
i love my wife and dont want to lose her. . any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-11-15 16:59:17 · 25 answers · asked by heart of ice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They told me I wasn't allowed to lay down on the couch with my boyfriend or cover up with a blanket, but I still did. So now they won't let me hang out with him anymore because they don't think I am mature enough to make the right decision. So what should I do to get their trust back to let me hang out with him again? I have already told them that I was sorry and what I did was wrong. I've even been doing my chores when they tell me to. What else do I need to do?

2007-11-15 16:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My children is suffering chicken pox for the past 3 days.My hubby has called up my inlaws and inform them that about the incident.They came over to pass those leafs to rub on my children body so that wont be so itchy.One things that make me really angry and heart pain is that my in law never even want to come in to my house to see my children coz they says that they pantang due to my sis in law (which is my hubby sis)which is staying with them is pregnant.
I really cant undertstand why?My children is also their granchildren.Is it wrong if they just come in to see and look at my children condition.i never ask them to hug kiss or anything.I really feel so hurt that i told my hubby bout the incident.My hubby just can keep quiet and stand by their side due to the reason that his sis is pregnant.
I found that all this is bullshit.For me it really depends on individual.Chicken pox is not really a serious decease.
Why are they like this?

2007-11-15 16:57:56 · 11 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family

So yeah what should we do. I like her, she likes me. We're dating but we're afraid to go any further. She has problems with trusting me, and I have problems with like...getting up and running. Like I'll like a person but if I feel like I like that person too much I'll get over the girl and end it. Her problem is that she doesn't trust easily no matter who it is. I know trust can't be given easily and it has to be worked at. Should I continue to just try to build up trust with her?

2007-11-15 16:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am mixed. ( Black,Chinese,Spanish,East Indian,English and Scottish)

i am not racial its just a preference. I have friends from many different ethnicities

2007-11-15 16:56:53 · 24 answers · asked by newbie ice hockey fan & TV serie 3 in Singles & Dating

when an inscident happend several years ago and b/f still talks about it to make you feel guilty what do you do? how do you react?

2007-11-15 16:55:35 · 25 answers · asked by ZAMANY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well beth has been my best friend since 4th grade! &nick has been my best friend for a 6months but we have been friends for a year and i REALLY liked him last school year.
over the summer i met ryan nicks best friend & we really hit it off so i started liking ryan & nick & i just got closer & closer which was fine w/ me. but then in like july nick started REALLY liking beth & beth started liking him beth was dating this other guy andy but she never really saw him&itwas REALLY getting to her so i was like well mayb it would b good if u and nick did go out... & the night b4 it happen i got really mad! idk y but i did & now what me and ryan dont talk as much (long story) i feel like my best friends have ditched me for each other! and idk is that just mean or do i really ahve a reason to be mad they are always talking and when im around the have to kiss and i no i dont like nick anymore but i just dontl ike watching my Bff's making out! what should i do am i wrong for not likeing it?

2007-11-15 16:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

reposting for more answers.
me and my gf have been going out for 9 months, and we both love each other alot. she cheated on me once early in our relationship, but she confessd to me in tears and i forgave her.
(or at least i think i did) . i try to forgive her, but i dont kno if i have.
she still sees the guy around and talks to him after i told her that id prefer her not talking to him at all. she says she knows and will try to stop talking to him, but she still does ocassionally , and i think its natural for me to get pisd off bout that.
i dont get pisd off at her, but i do get in a pisd off or anoyed mood.
any advice? its been 6 months or so since it hapend, and i still get frustrated at times, if u guys think i should just forget bout it, tell me how cuz i dont kno.
thx

2007-11-15 16:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by Danny ♣ 1 in Singles & Dating

there r 2 girls at my school that i like and i dont no who to ask out help.

name: Morgan
age: 13
details:average body,brown hair with light blond highlights,nice ears,5-3(1 inch taller then me), and average breasts.

name: cestar
age:13
details:blond hair,glasses(hot ones not nerdy),nice body,5-4,average breasts,blue eyes, and spunky.

2007-11-15 16:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And i wonder if they had another choice would they take it? And how they do it?

2007-11-15 16:53:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me n my gf have been together for about two weeks now and the last time i seen her we were at a friends house so she showed up before me like an hour i think and one of her cousins freinds were there this dude is single so when i got there they were like playin around she was sayin im brakeing up with you and he's my new bf but she was jokeing at the time so all night it was like this so about a week later i find out that before i got there they were playin around and he tryed takin off her shirt this comes from a outside source but the other thing is her phone shut off and we were unable to talk for like a week and when i went on her myspace i found out she's talkin to him and she never messaged me so someone HELP wat do i do ???

2007-11-15 16:49:59 · 4 answers · asked by The Wired Computer Guy 1 in Singles & Dating