Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

i haven't seen her in the past 13-14 years. she conatacted me about a month and a half ago; sadly i havent gotten back to her other then once. i want to keep the door open and i would like to leave a comment on her my space wedding photos...

can someone tell me some kind appropriate, and congratulating words to leave as comment on her wedding photos?

thank you

2007-11-15 21:37:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, so I've been married for 11 years now. Since year 2, I've been begging for attention, asking for help, trying to make him see I'm here for more than laundry, homemaking and (now) childrearing. He's a good man, but never taken any interest in any project I've tried, and the last time I told him we had problems and I needed to at least have more than a word with him, because someone else had become interested and I shouldn't be looking forward to that attention, he shrugged me off completely. Rejected more than too many times both sexually and emotionally, I eventually told him I want out. NOW he tells me we can work it out, and will NOT accept a divorce. I want to move on, but see my child happy with his father and it tears me up to walk away, yet staying makes me feel like I am loosing my mind. I would be happy if he had someone else. I really would. So what now?

2007-11-15 21:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by buttermilkrusk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 16 and planning to get married next febuary. I'm very mature for my age and have been living with my future husband for the past 6 months. We are very deep in love and very independant. both his and my parents aprove of it. Does any one think 16 is too young no matter what the circumstances or have any advise for me? I'm nervous, but in a happy/good way. well, excited.

2007-11-15 21:33:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 21:24:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 21:23:38 · 3 answers · asked by khaled w 1 in Family

i have been married for 15 months, and we have a daughter. my daughter is my love, but my sister told me that the child has no resemblence to me, and i should get a paternity test. i did which showed that she is not mine. I approached my wife and she confessed she had an affair with a doctor from work (my wife is a nurse). this doctor is 41 years old (we are 22). i asked her why she kept it from me, and she says she didnt want to break my heart-she knew all the time. i think i am going to leave to start a new life-----what do you all think? i am going to ask in a lot of categories because i really need opinions

2007-11-15 21:22:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this summer near the end of june and start of july i was sleeping over at my best friends, who i had liked for a year and he finally told me he had liked me too. Then the next day we had basically been acting like we were going out and stuff, went to fireworks and when we were walking around we stopped at a GoArmy tent. He then turned around and told me he was gunna be joining the army and was serious, i had no idea what to think about it then but the next day he calls me telling me he likes me but he doesnt know how hes gunna be able to have a girlfriend with him going into the army and other things, and that we'd be friends period and i told him that was fine and i didnt want to lose his friendship.
Then the next day he sends me an IM telling me how he hates all these girls that like him and that he doesnt like anyone and when i mentioned what he had talked about yesterday he told me i was lying and that he never said any of it. I was so heartbroken, he stopped talking to me.

2007-11-15 21:21:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that women love to yell? Why can't yaw just argue softly? Why put so much emotion? WHY?! WHY?!! WHY?!!!!!!

2007-11-15 21:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anthony J 1 in Singles & Dating

i been married for 3 years but me and my wife seperated shes in arizona and im in oregon we talking on getting back togethere and then 3 days latter she changes her mine what should i do ?

2007-11-15 21:16:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does it matter how many people your partner has had sex with???


I've had sex with 5 but my bf wont tell me how many he has and i think im ok with it just wish i knew.

2007-11-15 21:16:00 · 23 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Singles & Dating

Who are the players in a HUF?
A HUF consists of: Karta
The karta has to be the oldest male in the family. If he passes away, his wife cannot become the karta. His eldest son will take his place. If he chooses not to, he can give up his right and the next son in line can take his place. But If Eldest Son Neither wants to give up right Nor he wants to sign any paper, in that situation what to do ?

2007-11-15 21:15:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do we have so many freckles compared to other races? I've never seen a latino, black, or asian person with freckles..(well maybe just a FEW). I used to have so many freckles...then they just went away o_O?

2007-11-15 21:14:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one in the forest ;or two on the cheek .

2007-11-15 21:12:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

14. My mother never believed me when I told her what he did to me, she never believed me when this other man she had living with us was sexually touching me down there everyday. I had to live with my step dad since I was 4 until I was 18. Well I dont hate my ex step-dad anymore, its hard to explain but eventhough I am traumatized about that, somehow I was able to live with him and try to get along with him, because my mom was never going to believe me and he was never going to leave the house. I dont know whats wrong with me, deep inside I care for him because he was like a father to me eventhough he did that. I guess I just got used to men molesting me that I didnt care because my mom didnt care. I brought up the subject last night, and my mom still tells me that she doesnt believe me, because I dont hate my ex step-dad and now she is telling me that she thinks that I liked her ex-husband!! Eventhough my mom has always put men infront of her children I still love her to death

2007-11-15 20:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by rorybellows 4 in Family

Or is it only rude when they're oveweight?

I don't mind at all when people ask me about my weight, but I read and heard that it's "offensive" for men to ask women their weight.

2007-11-15 20:51:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was wondering if intimate relations are really that bad, and I would like tp know what you all think.

I think that I'm in love with my math teacher. I'm 16 and in highschool, and Im guessing hes in his thirties. I'm extremly mature for my age, and we've connected on a deeper level. I'm not attracted to him physically , and I honestly do think I'm in love with him. I'm tired of hearing that the age difference would emotionally mess me up, and thsr i would feel bad agtetward. Someone in their thirties would not be the oldest i have dated. My friends think its weird, so im just curios to what you all think.

2007-11-15 20:51:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 19 and my girlfriend is 18, we have been dating for 3 years now and I truly love her with every last breath in my body. I think about her daily and dream about her while I lay in my bed asleep. I cant bare to live without her, however, she seems to be drifting from me and I do not know how to stop it and make her love me once more. My heart would literally shatter if I lost her I cry now as I type this hoping and praying that one of you will provide the answer to save me from the pain of losing the one I love most. I would give my soul just to hear her say "I love you" once more.

2007-11-15 20:49:38 · 10 answers · asked by DarknessFalls 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my wife is extremely selfish and it's beginning to bother me. We've been together for over 5 years and I can't remember when I first noticed it, but it'd been like this now for ages. She'll do what she wants, and watch what she wants, eat what she wants. If I ask whether we can do something that I like she either flatly refuses or sulks (for days) until I feel so bad that I back down. She even does it with our daughter, once flatly refusing to go out for the day because she didn't like the idea of where we were going - even though our daughter was giddy with excitement. I've spoken to her about it and she sees that it's not helpful, but can't understand what's wrong and thinks she should be entitled to do whatever she wants. We've talked about it, much of it has been due to her upbringing and that she's been raised to believe if she does something that a man wants she is 'weak', even if it's something like watching a movie together... I'm lost as to what to do, I love her.

2007-11-15 20:41:42 · 17 answers · asked by FourEyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When one of my best friends got a promise ring (about a year ago) she talked about, but nothing offical, about how I would be her Maid of Honor. Now she has been offically engaged for over two monthes, and ever since the beginning of the engagement, she said I was her maid of honor.

Just recently, she dropped the bombed (nonchalantly) that I would be sharing the title with another friend of ours...

I was immediately offended and she could tell. Later on I called her saying how I felt offended and almost betrayed. She some-what understood but doesn't plan on changing plans and she never even said she was sorry.

If I don't start getting over this... I may just leave the wedding party.... am I overreacting? What are your thoughts?

(And its not going to be a large wedding party. Acoording to her plan it would be TWO maid of honors and ONE bridesmaid.... it doesn't make sense.)

2007-11-15 20:34:49 · 21 answers · asked by JackieSmackie 2 in Weddings

Hi..This is was my original wedding plans..**beach wedding ceremony at a destination location which is the same state but about 2 hours flight & immediately followed by the reception**
BUT the thing is I'm Catholic & after some research I realised it's not possible to have a beach wedding that is recognised by the Catholic Church..
BUT is it possible & okay by the Catholic Church to have a non-catholic wedding ceremony at the beach and then followed by a Catholic Church wedding ceremony/blessings at the church..
And which should we have first? the Catholic Church ceremony followed by the beach wedding? or the other way around?
And does my husband who isn't Catholic have to be baptised before the Catholic wedding blessings?
Just want anyone's views/advice ..or even better someone who were/was in the same shoes..Thank You :)

I've always wanted a beach wedding..the cool breeze..soft wet sand beneath your feet..
And my parents are strong practicing Catholics.

2007-11-15 20:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by Mia D 1 in Weddings

i wanna know how to make a women feel good and happy when having sex? does any women know ? i wanna make my girlfriend feel so good when having sex? for example is it licking below ?

2007-11-15 20:16:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love wit this guy i work wit, & 4 a short period i tot we were dating until i felt he really ddnt care 4 me as i did 4 him, so i called t off.He neva asked me y or tried 2 get bac wit me, so i assumed d dissatisfaction was mutual.Den over time, we bcame friends, but close enof friends dat d rest of d office bgan suspectn dat we were dating again even doe we werent.I still had loads of feelins 4 him, but i'd begun 2 date other guys & as a friend i told him abt t.Howeva, pple wld com 2 me 2 tell him he was enaged 2 some1, i'd ask him abt t & he'd deny t.Until suddenly out of d blues, he admitted dat indeed he was getting married.I was very hurt cos he'd lied 2 me ova & ova, but i 4gave him & we remained friends. Den, all of a sudden wen i'd tease him abt his upcoming nuptials,he'd deny he was getting married.I was so confused.I sent him a text once tellin him dat honesty & consistency were d qualities i desire d most n friendship & invited him 2 tell me d truth abt his lovelife

2007-11-15 20:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by Hmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy at work everytime he comes around me he talks to me and flirts with me and asked me for my number and keeeps saying lets get together , but he never freaking calls me!!! he even tells the other girls at work that he likes me and wnts to do something with me. hes supposed to be getting a divorce, is that whats holding him up maybe?


also ive just gotten out of a 4 year relationship i have a 2 and a half year old im 19 and hes in his 30s but we just get along so well and have so much in common and we're comfortable around each other i cant help but be interested

2007-11-15 20:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by momma4christopher 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf is 24 n me 21 i m pursuing my PG n my bf is doing business .he is a muslim n i m hindu his family n my family doesn't know abt ur affair his parents is planning for his marraige n i m just 21 n stdying , first i want to finish my stdying n then can decide abt my marraige and other things but i love him so much right now he is going to see a girl for marraige (he already reject 3 girls earlier ) he loves me more than i love him but said i donn't wanna to force u do as wht u want ,do wht makes u happy . when i tell him that if we get married n my parents doesn't convience then the whole life i cann't face them ,he said if my parents didn't convience then we will live seprately ..................i really donn't know wht to do plz help me
he also loveme n wanted to marry wd me ,even me too but its too early i m just 21 i want to study ,he said if we get married then after certain all get relaxed but i really donn't know wht to do????????????

2007-11-15 19:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i couldn't understand until she told me her boys dad wanted to get back with her and she had been confused. Now she says she wants to concentrate on "us" and make the best of it. I feel like I was 2nd fiddle. Please tell me what you think

2007-11-15 19:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you marry a pretty woman and she has to have a caesarean to give birth to your child. How do you stay attracted to her despite the nasty scar with overhang on her stomach. She lost all the weight but has an unsightly scar with loose skin just above the incision. I can't maintain an erection when I look at her. I love her, but her body is so unappealing to me now. What can I do?

2007-11-15 19:48:21 · 21 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Give me your age and sex so I can compare. I am 71, health ,not to bad. I have to work (decorator) as I am skint and can't live on my pension. I smoke but don't drink. am married and just my wife and I live at home. I rent my flat (private) and I live in Bromley Kent. Life is not to bad. How is yours?

2007-11-15 19:46:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I find out how he truely feels?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me over three years ago when I moved away for college...He is seven years older and was starting his career and said the long distance was hard etc. We stayed friends (w/benefits but only saw him every 4 months or so) for about 2 yearss until I found out he had another girl and told him I could just be friends. Last week I was visitng and we got together and he told me he was single. It had been about 4 months since I told him we could just be friends. He tried to get me to stay over..but I just kissed him and left. This weekend he was in my town (not visiting me but a friend) and we got together for an hour in the day and it was kinda awkard. I still like him a lot and cant figure out how he feels..why does he still contact me? do you think he still has feelings for me? guys..is it hard for you to open up? he knows now that i wont sleep with him but is still keepin in touch..?!?

2007-11-15 19:44:10 · 5 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Singles & Dating

i know it sounds bad but i am dating a man who is married.for the past few days his wife has done nothing but harras the hell out of me,at first i denied that i was her husbands girlfriend but then i just told her the truth,we first saw each other at a party,she found out about e because at the party he kept staring at me,he and i had talked a bit at this party,so i kept the conversation short with him.as i got up to go to the bathroom, the wife was in the bathroom 1minute later,while i was washing my hands she kept staring at me, i was powdering my nose, she tried to pretend she wasnt staring but she was fixated on me,when i left the bathroom she left and at the party she kept walking by me.after her calling me so many times ,she told me she wants 2 talk in person.i agreed .but the only thing she saying saying is what is it that her husband likes so much about me,she always wants 2 c me now.what does she want,why is she so fixated on me.

2007-11-15 19:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they say taurus people are calm, easy going people all true but there is a point when a taurus can stand in the ground and not move.

i am genrally like the taurean character and yesterday i think i hit the "taurean rage" its not a preety sight... so heres the storey

i have always had this tag along into my group of friends (hes a scopio) anways over the past 3 years he was controlling always putting me down saying im dumb **** and such... i just thought it would blow over, anway yesterday i could not stand anymore of it he did not exspect it, went up to him tried to talk he just kept calling my mum saying she a whore i really got pissed then so much in my life... it was unbeliveble the amount of rage i felt! anyway i hit him in the face then the stomach the hardest... and i just kept hitting him and could not stop i felt good it felt all that time i was put down and this was my revenge.

so im asking you people(taureans) have you ever been in the famous taurean rage?

2007-11-15 19:39:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends