Does it matter how many people your partner has had sex with???
I've had sex with 5 but my bf wont tell me how many he has and i think im ok with it just wish i knew.
2007-11-15 21:16:00 · 23 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if those numbers keep increasing after you're seeing each other.
The past is the past. I've had girlfriends who've had more and less sexual partners than myself. it doesn't matter, they're with you now.
But if he's not being open with you, then something is obviously wrong somewhere. Talk to him and try to get to the bottom of it all.
2007-11-15 23:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Stormy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To some 5 would seem an awful lot, to others it would seem incredibly small, it's all about how you feel.
As for your boyfriend, past relationships are the past and not really to get hung up on, besides, he'll highly exagerate the number even if he does tell you!
2007-11-16 05:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't find out... if you are really that desperate to know ask for a ball park number. But what does is matter as long as he is faithful to you and you have a good sex life.
2007-11-16 05:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by anoneemee 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, if i met a girl and she told me she had sex with more than so many people at a certain age I would be a little cautious because not to be presumtous but it spells out hocake when she's had a go at every guy in town.
2007-11-16 05:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dan. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just don't have unprotected sex, if you do it's like sleeping with EVERYONE he has! Also, he doesn't want to tell you because he's embarrassed either because it's too little or too big. Look at the siz of his wing-wang, if it's small, then he's only been with a few girls, if its big then he's been with many.
2007-11-16 05:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you could get aids from having to many sex partners.
2007-11-16 05:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
id like to know the actual number...whats the big secret?
think the amount does matter as it says alot about how hes been with women in the past.
tell him you wana know
2007-11-16 05:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I imagine this is an entirely personal point of view. Does not bother me and not something that we discuss - why bother with past - present and future with your partner more important
2007-11-16 05:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by ells 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
why is it so important to you. He could be embaressed by a lack of partners or indeed by what he concieves as excessive. Let the past stay in the past, it should not make any difference to your relationship now.
2007-11-16 05:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by tomthewirish 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In love, it is better not to probe into the past, whatever be the reasons which support outspokenness now.
2007-11-16 05:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋