i know it sounds bad but i am dating a man who is married.for the past few days his wife has done nothing but harras the hell out of me,at first i denied that i was her husbands girlfriend but then i just told her the truth,we first saw each other at a party,she found out about e because at the party he kept staring at me,he and i had talked a bit at this party,so i kept the conversation short with him.as i got up to go to the bathroom, the wife was in the bathroom 1minute later,while i was washing my hands she kept staring at me, i was powdering my nose, she tried to pretend she wasnt staring but she was fixated on me,when i left the bathroom she left and at the party she kept walking by me.after her calling me so many times ,she told me she wants 2 talk in person.i agreed .but the only thing she saying saying is what is it that her husband likes so much about me,she always wants 2 c me now.what does she want,why is she so fixated on me.
2007-11-15 19:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Errr, he is not your man btw.
2007-11-15 19:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by electricgold2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question? If you are telling the truth, which I am dubious about, then your behaviour is outrageous, and you should know that full well already.
A nice, decent human being doesn't get involved with another woman's husband. They just don't. They see he is married and back off. And you are asking why the man's wife is so fixated on you? Are you stupid as well as nasty?
2007-11-15 20:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by helly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok plain and simple YOUR SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN!
Geeze what is not obvious too you if he wanted to be with YOU he would have left her by now kids or no kids she is obsessed because she can't comprehend it do you blame her?!
Wouldn't you be just a little upset and want to know things if you were married and found out about another girl sleeping with your HUSBAND!
I just can't believe that this isn't more obvious to you come on.
2007-11-16 02:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by teal_eyed_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date a married man. You are fortunate if she doesn't do worse. Break it off with him and do it in front of her if possible. That way she knows it's done and she can relax and quit obsessing about you.
In front of her, call him and tell him it's over for good and that he is not to EVER call, email, or text msg or contact you in any manner.
Now find yourself a nice man that is not a cheater and get yourself a good life - one you live without regret.
Joy to you.
2007-11-15 19:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying that goes...keep your friends close and your enemies closer...that's probably what she is doing to you...she wants to keep an eye on you and see what you are up to...
by the way...he's not your man...you're just sharing with her because she's the wife...and she has every right to harrass you by the way...after all you are the one who's trespassing into their lives...im sure if you were in her place you would feel the same way she does and you'd probably be doing the same things or maybe worse...
2007-11-15 20:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that if you go to survivinginfidelity.
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2007-11-15 23:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why i stare he left me for that thing she is just a manly piece of a big sloppy mess *pukes* mind you i was with this man for 13 years and have his child its kinda funny actually. but if you don't like her staring oh well you are with her husband she has upper hand not you don't like it go find an unmarried man to hang off shouldn't be with her man anyway that's all i have to say =)
2007-11-16 08:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by ღ.ღ.ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmm, i actually think the whole situtaion is awful. Do you have no consideration for this poor woman. Of course she fixated on you, my goodness your seeing her HUSBAND. Get it, he is NOT yours, he is her husband and she has every right to stare at you. Go find your own man and leave this poor woman alone
2007-11-15 21:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is hoping that you will leave her husband alone. She is trying to figure out what he likes about you so she can do that. If I were her I would let you have him. If you want to date a married man that is your business but do you need to rub it in her face? I would not have gone to where they were going to be.
2007-11-15 19:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is married so hes not your man,She has every night to talk to you and wonder why you,Put yourself in her shoes you would probably do the same thing
2007-11-16 14:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave the married man and his poor wife alone. it does take two to tango but i don't think i could have the guts to do that and keep doing it.
she obviously dislikes you. i would too. i say break all ties with the guy and leave them the hell alone.
and shes fixated on you BECAUSE YOU ARE DATING HER FRICKING HUSBAND.
2007-11-15 19:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋