Ok so this summer near the end of june and start of july i was sleeping over at my best friends, who i had liked for a year and he finally told me he had liked me too. Then the next day we had basically been acting like we were going out and stuff, went to fireworks and when we were walking around we stopped at a GoArmy tent. He then turned around and told me he was gunna be joining the army and was serious, i had no idea what to think about it then but the next day he calls me telling me he likes me but he doesnt know how hes gunna be able to have a girlfriend with him going into the army and other things, and that we'd be friends period and i told him that was fine and i didnt want to lose his friendship.
Then the next day he sends me an IM telling me how he hates all these girls that like him and that he doesnt like anyone and when i mentioned what he had talked about yesterday he told me i was lying and that he never said any of it. I was so heartbroken, he stopped talking to me.
2007-11-15 21:21:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So after the whole summer of not talking to him, he just recently had IMed me and started talking to me. We talked about what was new...and just random things then we started talking about what had happened. I was telling him how he deserves to have something good right now in his life and he told me that right now all he wants is someone that he can relate to and just talk to and hang out with, but its hard for a guy like him to find someone like that.
When i asked why he told me its because whenever he does he ends up choking and bails on the person, and said thats what had happened between us and apologized.
He wants to be friends again and from the way hes been talking i think he wants something more than just that... I dont know what to think of this at all.
I still love the guy but i dont want to be hurt like i was again.
What should i do?
2007-11-15 21:21:52 · update #1
Sounds like hes a bit confused with what he wants. I think he may be scared that ur friendship may get ruined. If you are both happy to take ur friendship further,then go for it!!
good luck
2007-11-15 21:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run, run. He has two personalities. He will never treat you right. One day you will be on cloud nine, the next in the dumps. Why waste your time on a rollercoaster life??
2007-11-16 05:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read 'He's Just Not That Into You', by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
2007-11-16 05:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋