Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

she left me for like 3 weeks i guess it was. said she was confsed and currious about her life. I understand and love her but should I take her back...

2007-11-15 16:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by William L 1 in Singles & Dating

he loved me last year, i didnt have feelings for him.
as soon as he started seeing another girl i realized how much i liked him and decided to tell him. he chose to stay with the other girl, afraid i'd hurt him again. recently hes been SAYING he has just realized hes still in love with me and that he cant continue his relationship with the other girl.
he wants me to do this: wait (ive already waited a month and a HALF) until hes so mean to her that SHE breaks up with him because he doesnt have the heart to break up with her. I'm so tired of waiting, if this guy's in love with me he'd just break up her NOW wouldnt he?!
(PS. i was devastated the day after we went out and he called me and said "...yeaaa ive decided to be with the other girl." it was TORTURE. and now im afraid he'll hurt me again. do i wait, or do i hit the road? i REALLY like this guy..)

2007-11-15 16:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by Vertigo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 16:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Winterball's coming up, and I want to ask him. I don't know if he likes me or not (I have no reason to think he does, and no reason to think he doesn't!) If I asked, it would just be my way of letting him know I'm interested. The problem is, when we were discussing another dance with some friends, he said dances weren't really his thing.

If I already know that, should I bother asking him anyway, just to let him know I like him? If he says no, how do I react?

2007-11-15 16:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Singles & Dating

Well I've been sexually abused in the past time when I was like..13 or so. Only once, I pretened I didn't notice was he was doing. He was just doing something so overlysexually I don't feel comfortable describing it here..no he didn't do it to me. I never told anyone. Well am a fifteen year old girl. I was at someplace and I was moody and I guess my 21 yr old cousin was just trying to cheer me up. He was touchy but not in a bad way but he never ever payed attention to me. ever. especially since I was young. he kept a good eye on me. but how come no one else payed attention to me that night, especially since i had a dozen other cousins over there. in the middle 20's?
im asking because im paranoid and somewhat traumatized, hope I didnt gross any one out.. =/...i mean he cared about me more than my mom who made me cry/

2007-11-15 16:43:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

should i be mad if a friend doesn't anwer my emails??? Shes in the Phill. i mean i'm kool with it but like about to cry.. all i can think about is her and her and her... and i can't do my work...

2007-11-15 16:34:55 · 22 answers · asked by Princess Rheymae 1 in Friends

She gets boyfriends almost as soon as she dumps or is dumped by the last one. We both have feelings for each other (she is the sweetest woman) but I'm too affraid to make a move less I alienate her and I also can't seem to compete with the guys who are after her (they have muscles and sexual experience and I have very little of that). I also think she might think she is not good enough for me, she has had a hard life and I always seem to come across as some overgrown child (looking innocent that is) even though I'm 8 years older than her. It's kind of the girl from the wrong side of the tracks meets the guy who lived a overly sheltered life (well, more like a hermit really). Should I pursue her or is this doomed?

2007-11-15 16:32:25 · 17 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently had full custody of my youngest two children taken away from me. I now have to share partial physical custody with my ex-husband's parents, which only allows me to have 6 hours of visitation a week at their home. My problem is, I have no idea why my parenting is being questioned. I have never raised my voice to my kids. I concidered myself very lucky. They are too well be-haved for their ages (2 yrs/ 6 mo.). The only thing that happened was that I was physically, verbally, and emotionally abused by their father (none of which happened in front of the children). As much as I would love to bad-mouth my ex, I have to admit that he has never harmed our children in any way. Starting 3 weeks ago, his parents have been coming up with ways to be gone during my visitation hours, usually leaving me with 1 hour a week on an unscheduled day, or in most cases, weeks on end without seeing my babies. What kind of help is available to me to get my children back where they belong?

2007-11-15 16:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my husband always seem to be very busy. He is a firefighter, so he rarely gets to enjoy a night with just me. I want to make tomorrow night very sweet & romantic just to let him know how much i love him. I want to stay at home all night (no going out to dinner, movies, not that kind of stuff)
any ideas?

2007-11-15 16:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Siberian_Husky Lover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I m getting engaged and I know this is the guy for me! I really love him but the problem is that I don't like kissing I have never had sex and Im not even sure if I want to. Im not sure what is wrong I NEVER WANT TO DO ANYTHING no matter what mood Im in, he is so loving and caring he does a lot of stuff that touches my heart but I really don't like kissing I usually just do it so I don't hurt his feelings because we have talked about this before. I can't tell if its because I have been metally and physically abused by my father and guys. Or is it that its something medically wrong I just want some feed back from someone. Please no rude comments.

2007-11-15 16:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is hard to ask but i have to. Well lately some times my white friends like are talking about like random stuff. whenever theres like a african-american in the story they are telling it makes me feel uncomfterable when they say "black person". They sometimes make racist jokes that r suppose to be funny. This other african-american kid laughs but i feel rly bad and weird. One of my white friends said once "Once i was walking down the street and there was this black dude rapping and it was weird." I felt rly uncomfterable after this. How can i not feel this way or tell my "friends" to stop with all this?

2007-11-15 16:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by InuKag4life 3 in Friends

Just curious...ive been divorced for 4 years and still uncertain about a lot...i just had planned to be with him...then he left and i had to start over and think of how i wanted to live my life...i messed up. I spent a lot of time worrying about guys that were losers, i stressed about them...i got drunk. Miraculously i still kept the same job and am in grad school...my goal now is to buy my own condo...in boston it's tough to do that on your own. Sometimes i feel like, poor me ):

2007-11-15 16:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lilly d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend met a guy on a phone line a week ago and they now live together. she also let this other girl.. who she does not know move in with her. this guy talk kinda mean to her. he says he is an electriction but only works in the summer.. is that possible? nah! (just filled out an app to work at taco bell) he does not have a car, money, or nothing! why wont my friend listen to me when i tell her he is bad news? he got mad when she wouldn't do it in the pooper.. lmao

2007-11-15 16:24:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hanging out with someone that I thought things were going really well with. The first time we kissed she said thank you which I didn't know how to take. She always gave me these really long hugs and stuff. She would say all these things that kept me thinking that things were progressing. Flirting, talking about childhood stuff, pictures etc. Sometimes we would hang for 2hours together and just watch a movie or something. I went over and made her dinner one time, and I thought that went well. She saw me on a Saturday, and said Ill see you on Tuesday. On Tuesday she texted me. Sorry, not interested in being anything but your friend talk to you later? What is going on here.

2007-11-15 16:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 16:20:43 · 10 answers · asked by qmoney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 16:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by Iheartsuperheros 1 in Singles & Dating

when i get to the point where i believe i am going to climax i go tense why is this

2007-11-15 16:20:22 · 9 answers · asked by ATARI 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad really really loves my sis... and he pays no attention to me.. my sister is 19 and i'm 15... he is not with my mum any more and we both live with our mum... but every time we go to see him it's all about my sis... it hurts heaps he makes me feel like i'm not there... i hate it...

2007-11-15 16:18:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Unfortunately, they are two different persons.
She is also married but unhappy, I am unhappy too.

Accepts real and realistic answers please.

2007-11-15 16:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My marriage goes through difficult times because we are financially destitute from paying everything we make in legal fees that my husband's ex wife (who he left 14 yrs ago) keeps hounding us with. She's alienated his 15 yr old daughter and now the girl says she hates her dad (my husband) even though he was the most kind, devoted dad ever. We had a bad lawyer while the mega millionaire ex wife had a great one, and she got us sicked with $2000/mo child support for the one daughter plus all her healthcare. We are so desitute from this, we're about to lose our home. We can't afford it but CA has higher child support than any state and is very pro women/mothers and anti men/fathers. The 14 almost 15 yr old daughter says she hates my husband and never wants to talk to him again. Sometimes it's too much for me. I am so alone. I don't know anyone going thru this. I just married him a year ago, 13 yrs after he left his ex wife due to her violent outbursts and anger and now the ex wife is afterme

2007-11-15 16:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by Wintergirl 5 in Family

He was a great man and gave me everything I ever wanted, but no sex. I cheated and was terribly mean to him. Two years have gone by and I cannot live without him. I never stopped loving him, I just needed sex. He ignores my attempts to get back with him and has told me straight to my face he does not love me anymore. I still wait and wish he will give me another chance. I have been the only woman he has ever loved. Will he give me a chance? Should I force myself to move on? Should I keep trying? Better tried than failed, but for how long?

2007-11-15 16:12:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have three small kids and I want things to be civil how do I let him know that?

2007-11-15 16:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...and you find out another way. You show up to the funeral and EVERY single one of your "friends" are there, including ppl that haven't seen or spoken to the person that passed away. Would you forgive them? Would you be ok with that or would you be completely offended?

2007-11-15 16:06:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-15 16:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by hookerln 5 in Singles & Dating

I was looking at peoples responses to questions about breaking up with a guy without hurtuing him.Some guy wrote have a threesome with a really hot girl someone way more beautiful.......? Could it really be that easy? is that how guys r? if you really loved a girl or at least thought you did how would that effect you,would you start thinking you need to see other girls, think u can do better etc.???? i'm really considering this, i really dont want to hurt him and just want to be friends.....

2007-11-15 16:06:00 · 23 answers · asked by pinklove 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is the sweetest most caring person on this planet...last night after I opened my handcrafted b-day gift from her I almost lost it as she has my heart in her hands..my question is this..does it make me look weak to show emotions?..Do women look down on this?..thanks..

2007-11-15 16:04:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I happen to see this girl virtually everyday on way to my Workplace. Even she looks at me. should i speak to her?
I find her very cute? how should i approach her?

2007-11-15 16:04:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you thing that liviing together without getting marry is not a problem...agree or not...because....

2007-11-15 16:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-15 16:01:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I do. I'm 29, divorced, i feel underpaid, i'm in school for my masters, single...watching everyone get married, they wonder when i will get married, i want to say, look beotch i've been married. I sort of feel like i'm watching everyone have 'their day.' Im wondering when it will be my turn. I never thought my life would be like this. I expected to have kids by now...but i'm divorced...i'm working and trying to be better...but it seems like my life will be the way it is now...forever. I wont be happy ):

2007-11-15 16:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Marriage & Divorce