should i be mad if a friend doesn't anwer my emails??? Shes in the Phill. i mean i'm kool with it but like about to cry.. all i can think about is her and her and her... and i can't do my work...
2007-11-15 16:34:55 · 22 answers · asked by Princess Rheymae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Philippines- Phill. and she doesn't have a cell phone I can call her with
2007-11-15 16:52:15 · update #1
Philippines- Phill. and she doesn't have a cell phone I can call her with
2007-11-15 16:52:19 · update #2
Tell her how you feel and hopefully she will try to respond more promptly. She is probably just busy, so don't let it ruin your career!
2007-11-15 16:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by lillou_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't know what the Phill is. I'd have to have more info before answering this.
Not sure if you should be mad - she's probably busy. Maybe her computer isn't working well. Why are you crying about it? That is more concerning than her not answering you. Save the tears for something more important than your friend not e-mailing you. Drama is so boring and overrated.
2007-11-16 00:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give of yourself - that's important, but if there's no reciprocation, you cut bait. No need to obsess. Maybe she's getting a little wierded out from your frequency. Wait awhile (month or so), and then writer her an email to wish her a happy holiday or new year or whatever. Try writing her snail mail to make sure she's okay, but move onto other people, thoughts, things. You don't want to get sucked into some black hole of emotion. Sometimes cool people can be lame. Give her some space and come back positive and happy.
2007-11-16 00:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad yet. There may be a very good reason for for not answering your e-mails. Maybe she changed her e-mail address, her ISP has been cut off, your e-mails are getting put in the junk-mail list(unknown to her), she is on vacation, her computer is broke down or one of a thousand other reasons. How long has it been since you heard from her? Try calling her or writing an actual letter.
But most of all, wait to find out why before getting mad.
2007-11-16 00:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by taxbill06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend you have to give her the benefit of the doubt. She may have a good reason for not returning your emails. Is her pc down? Maybe she hasn't even looked at email in a few days. Maybe she is sick. Who knows, but if she is a good enough friend to get that upset over then she is a good enough friend to call and talk with or a good enough friend to wait until she emails you.
2007-11-16 00:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by jennie m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just not that quick to respond. I have the same problem with some of my friends and their cell phones. Don't take it person. I am sure it is not just you that is frustrated with them. Find another way to contact them. Like most of my friends who don't answer their cells are great at text messaging. Go figure!
2007-11-16 00:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so sweet that you care so much about your friend. She may not have a working computer or Internet doesn't work right. When you e-mail ask that a proof of receipt is sent to her and if she gets it, it will let you know. Don't be discouraged yet. She misses you too but maybe is a bit busy for awhile. good luck and be happy.
2007-11-16 00:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be mad if a friend doesn't answer emails, but try calling her, maybe her internet service provider is broken or something. If she just ignores you and you are 100 percent positive just drop her like last months vouge magazine. Because she isn't worth it
2007-11-16 00:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by LikeItorNot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a a sec. to meet someone
a min. to like someone
and a day to love someone
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone
in other words she is prob. doing someone and I'm sure she will get back to you soon true friends don't jump off a bridge with you there are at the bottom to catch you!
2007-11-16 00:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by That_Kelly_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huge problem these days...we depend on electronic communication way more than we should. Text messages, instant messages, email....all emotionless way of communicating. I can't count the number of times my kids have misunderstood a text message as a hateful one, when it was just a joke. Call her.
2007-11-16 00:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by Madre 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is that there is nothing for you to do but write and wait. It sucks, I know......... I'm going through something similar...... If this person doesn't write back ever then it's there loss. Just say a prayer that they are alright!!!
2007-11-16 00:45:32 · answer #11 · answered by chiefredwater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋