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2007-11-15 16:01:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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Acceptance. Accept your child for who they are. So many parents want their child to be who they want them to be and will not accept them any other way. That is the saddest thing to see a child seek acceptance from a parent and no matter how hard they try they will never get it. Did you ever know a great kid and see their parent tear them down for not being smart enough but they are the smartest kid you know? How about the parent pushing their kid into sports because they played but their kid is to lazy but the kids English paper brought you to tears what a story teller. Don't tell your kids who to be listen and you will find out who they are if you don't you will kill the story teller, the confidence they are smart enough, pretty enough, good enough and you will end up with a child whose only goal in life is to make you happy. But they never will because you cannot accept them and they cannot be who you want them to be all you have succeeded in doing is killing who they are.

2007-11-15 16:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by puzzled 5 · 0 0

Patience ! Patience ! More Patience !!! The raising of children can be very trying at times. Some learn quickly; Others are slow; Some follow instructions readily; Others give you an argument at every turn. Some are passive Others are aggressive. Two older guys would gang up on the younger. But in general , they were disciplined when wrong, praised when right,applauded when they achieved, encouraged when they needed guidance and loved for who they were. Mom always said" don't you look nice " .

2007-11-15 16:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by googie 7 · 0 0

Patience. And enough LOVE to teach them wrong from right. You do your kids NO favor by spoiling them. Be strong enough to set limits.

A sense of humor helps too!

But LOVE is probably the most important thing of all...

One other thing -- your MARRIAGE has to be at LEAST as important as the kids. How can there be a happy home if your marriage (or relationship) is going bad?

2007-11-15 16:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0 0

The biggest qualities are trust and forgiveness. You have to trust that your parenting skills have taken affect in your child's life, and need to forgive when your children make mistakes, as they definitely will. Here are some other great qualities for parents to possess:

http://parentingtweens.suite101.com/

Best of luck!

2007-11-16 00:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Denise O 2 · 0 0

Actually there is no extract thing. But there are so many things.
Educate child well.
Educate about society
Feed well, and Also consider about health.
show the way to do works.
Always show the truth and way to be a perfect person.
Love them well
Help them when facing with problems.
Always be with them at sorrow and happy
Do everything that you can be happy.

2007-11-15 16:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by LakVision 2 · 0 0

Patience

2007-11-15 16:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by doconwheelzz 3 · 0 0

The unconditional ability to love and guide to being a good and responsible adult. Even if that is not a Socially Correct attitude anymore.
God said it IS correct through His son's mouth. Believe it.
Teach to think and act for oneself and use abilities to help others as often as is possible.

2007-11-15 16:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by gd2cook 2 · 0 0

Remain sane, especially in the presence of your child. If you are screaming like a lunatic at people in stores, on the road, etc. in front of your child, you are setting a poor example. Also, how are they going to take you seriously when you tell them to not get into conflicts at school, respect others, etc.?

2007-11-15 16:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by deirdrezz 6 · 0 0

Forgiveness

2007-11-15 16:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Greetings, well there's not just one there's many:

1. being loving
2. listening to your child
3. having the ability to say no to teach your kid respect and responsibility, not to mention right and wrong.
4. supporting your child no matter what he/she has done though you may not approve of it.
5. loving them enough to let them go and not smother them
6. making sure they stay in school and get a good education
7. knowing where your child is and what they are doing, who their friends are
8. having your house be open to your child's friends and knowing them
9. being involved in their lives (sports, events)
10. providing a stable home and financial security for them

2007-11-15 16:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tina of Lymphland.com 6 · 0 0

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