We have three small kids and I want things to be civil how do I let him know that?
2007-11-15 16:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Everyone who will be spending Christmas here with the family this year step forward. Not so fast, Daddy."
2007-11-15 16:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure this is what you want. I am going through a divorce right now and it's the worse thing I ever put my son through. My daughter didn't take it so bad because it was her stepfather still, it doesn't change the fact that it's a major life altering experience for everyone. But anyway..if you're 100% positive this is what you want, you need to sit down with your husband and explain to him that things aren't working out. Remember to hear him out as well so that both of you are on the same page. Let him know that you want to make it as smooth of a transition as possible for everyone and you don't want it to get ugly.
***Believe me divorces involving children CAN get ugly. I hope that both you and him see eye to eye. This will make things so much easier.
I wish you the best.
2007-11-15 16:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a divorce, I would imagine that he is aware of problems, too. Have an idea of how you want to work out all of the issues, sit down and talk to him. Be calm and don't get angry.
I'd suggest, if it can wait, do it all after the holidays so the kids won't have a stressful christmas.
2007-11-15 16:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God only gives one reason for divorce and that is adultery. If your husband has not committed adultery, you can't divorce him with out breaking your wedding vows. Your children will suffer greatly if you break up the home. You should do everything you can to make your marriage better. That is the right thing to do.
2007-11-15 16:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about :I would like a divorce for __(reason)
i hope i will never have to say or hear that after being married
2007-11-15 16:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't care about you or the kids anymore, and I am not willing to try and work things out even for the sake of the kids so I'm filing for divorce.
2007-11-15 16:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I told my ex I wanted a divorce and he tried to kill me. You better get a restraining order when you do tell him.
2007-11-15 16:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and straight forward that you're not happy and that you want a divorce. also,you should discuss what you are going to do with your children and how youre going to tell them.
2007-11-15 16:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We need to talk. I'm sorry, but I don't love you anymore, and I think it's time to move on."
I hope this isn't because of a fling. You didn't specify your reasons.
2007-11-15 16:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you do is seperate............... then work it out from there
2007-11-15 16:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋