Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

This guy has had a crush on me for many yrs.But I always had a boyfriend and I guess I always thought he would be there chasing me or whatever.Anyhow this past year we got really close..on the phone..in person ect. Hes like my bestfriend..he says all the right things and does all the right things..he is that old fashion kind ..you know that fairy tale this and that and sitting on the porch in our rocking chairs when were old kinda guy..I really have fallen for him the problem is this..I have a lot im doing right now in my life and I don't want to have to deal with us being in a relationship you know.He told me he would let me get my life in order and wait as long as he knew in the end I wanted and was feeling the same as him..in return I told him I needed time and for us to go our own ways for awhile..he seemed okay with that at first but now its been 4 days since we talked and he won't talk to me! I know I strung him around ALOT!! but if he loved me wouldn't he had tried to call??

2007-11-15 16:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is directed towards guys since i always hear guys say they like meat on girls bones and I would like to know if I seem to thin because my friends alwasy say I am. I felt like since I had curves that guys wouldnt care that I was skinny. I am 5'5 113Ibs measurements 33C- 24 - 37 1/2. Does this seem too thin? Does it seem really curvy I thought I was curvy and would like to be but since people say imskinny i feel like im not.

2007-11-15 15:55:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you and another guy who is married like each other and want nothing more than just sex? I am in the situation and HE is married and still wants to mess around with me.. I like him alot and I think I would since he wants to. There is alot of sexual tension between us. He must not be very happy with his wife or something. I know this might be very wrong.. but it is HIS CHOICE. Please no bad comments.. if it happens, it happens. I would rather find out the hard way myself... at least I would gain a life lesson from it. By the way, I am a 21 year old female and he is a 35 yr old male, but we both like each other.

2007-11-15 15:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

It feels like he doesn't even notice me.

2007-11-15 15:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25 my wife is 24 and we have been married 3 years. I moved to AZ for work, wife was going to move in me 2 weeks later.

Instead while I was away started developing an online relationship over World of Warcraft the video game with a 21 year old kid.

She flew out there to Texas from New Jersey had sex with him, and moved in with him 2 weeks later.

She abandoned me, her family and all her old friends and has since started a new life.

His family found out she was married and his son is a homewrecker and will not have anything to do with them. Her family will not speak to her either as they are angry at what she did to me.

My wife tells everyone I'm verbally abusive, lazy, manipulative and I deserve to die... her family and friends are charecture witnesses that say otherwise...

She ignores any contact attempts on my part, no contact for 2 mos.

What are the chances of their affair actually working out? And what do I need to do if I want to win my wife back from this douchebag kid?

2007-11-15 15:52:43 · 17 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my present boyfriend for like 8 years and I have been trying to forget my ex boyfriend...my first love. We tried to run away together, when we were teenagers. Our parents moved us apart and lost touch. I've been trying to locate him all these years and he's been doing the same. He found me and I was so surprised and all my feelings came back to me! I'm in a relationship now and my present boyfriend and I have a 6 year old daughter together..I don't know what to do. All I think about is my ex boyfriend and I cry myself to sleep. I feel guilty when I look at my daughter and it won't be fair for her. My ex has never been married and single..My heart aches and confused...Please any suggestions would help. Thanks.

2007-11-15 15:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My child has realized that the biological father is not the father the child has known. The child is confused and I was wondering if you have any advice. Also, the biological father choose not to be a part of the child's life, do you reveal that to the child also? By the way the child is almost 8 years old and has an awesome "Daddy" which is all the child has ever known.

2007-11-15 15:46:59 · 24 answers · asked by katheryn321 1 in Family

The problem is we've got a brilliant friendship otherwise and I'm afraid I destroyed it. What should I do? I can't really say I don't love her, and I can't claim it was my brother or something. Please, help me - FAST!

2007-11-15 15:40:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years, lived together 2. We have never had much of a sex life but for the past year he has just lost most of it. We use to have sex at least once a week, not Im lucky if its once a month. I dont know what to think anymore. He definately loves me, we had a rough patch and we became closer than ever, just not physically. He has never really been a sexual person but I mean he was so into kissing and holding my hand in public. Now I go to hold his hand and he pulls it away.
He says he's too tired and just wants to relax, but when he pushes me away from just wanting to kiss him it hurts ya know... I mean he cuddles and has his moments but just I don't know what to do anymore.. Any help?

2007-11-15 15:36:30 · 12 answers · asked by Courtney C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Was pretty popular the last couple of years. Something about "the best day of my life" "living in the moment" etc, but it wasnt "best day of my life" just along those lines. Just heard it as a first dance, and cant remember it.

2007-11-15 15:33:19 · 3 answers · asked by lillilou 7 in Weddings

OK I have a crush and he's smart, funny, nice and cute. But he already has a girlfriend! And he doesn't even like her! She said she hated him and so he broke up with her and she started balling her eyes out! But over the weekend they got back together and she kissed him on the lips when they were walking home and it broke my heart(and we're WAY too young to kiss!)! Him and I are alot alike, we're both smart, weird and well.... weird. We say random things all the time and we even look alike! I wish he liked me but I really don't know! What should I do? =C P.S The girl he's dtating is WAY too obsessive! And he doesn't like obsessibve girls and I'm not obsessive.

2007-11-15 15:32:35 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Which does a guy find hotterr, teens that are virgins or not virgins??

2007-11-15 15:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i KNOW, IT'S GROSS... INSIDE JOKE. mAKE ANY COMMENT YOU WANT. pLS. DON'T REPORT ME :0)

2007-11-15 15:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by tiffany 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im married and im having problems in my marriage and i starting seeing this guy at work and i told him about what was going on in my marriage and he understood and well we went out and we spent the night to gether then the told me i was his first and i was suprised but after we keept seening each other and he started acting funny and a few months passed and i found out he was trying to date other girls at our job i talk to these girls and he denyed being with me im so hurt he wont talk to me and thought i dont work there any more it does not stop me from loving him wht do i do how do i get closure when he wont talk to me i feel like im dying in side when i think of him i get sick when ppl talk abt him i cry i hate this i dnot know wht to do how do i stop loving some one dat does not love me how do i let him go. my marrage is over and i told him all of that and still he did this to me. how can i be in love with someone who does not love me whats wrong with me?

2007-11-15 15:27:01 · 29 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...Not quite blunt, but very forward in what they want in a relationship.

2007-11-15 15:21:12 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this girl since the 5th grade and her brother is totally gorgeous. I've liked him for years but never told him. Once when I was younger I went to their house to meet my girlfriend and he answered the door in nothing but his boxers, needless to say I got a FULL front view and he had nothing to be ashamed of. Now I'm 23, in college and I still talk to him, So here's my problem everytime I see him, or talk to him I have a habit of looking at his crotch! It's so embarassing because I can't help it! Is there any advice on what I could try to do to stop this?? He's been single now for months and I want to ask him out, but I'm afraid I'll end up talking to his whacker! Help please!

2007-11-15 15:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Bxbabifinest 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year at this time, my husband and I went through bad times, and he hurt me alot. He got sent back early from Iraq because of it, and almost got kicked out the army. As the months passed things began to get better between us and I let my guard down just a little. His friend returned from Iraq 3 weeks ago, and since then things have been bad. He is smoking weed, abusing pills, and neglecting our son. I have had it..I try to talk to him but nothing is getting through. I asked him not to do these things but instead he does it behind my back. Game recognizes Game..So I know whats going on but he denies it. To redeem himself he brings up things I did wrong in the past. I just want our family to not fall apart, but he is not hearing me. What do I do? I really want to leave because I feel like I am being totally disrespected and tired of constantly being lied to. Marriage is based on trust, I feel like if I cant trust him then what is that for a marriage? How do I get through to him?

2007-11-15 15:18:49 · 32 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was texting a friend of the guy i have a crush on was asking me who i liked

After he told me who he liked i felt obligated to tell him who i liked even tho i didnt really want to

After i told him he said k ... meaning "this convo is over"

He also radomly asked for my number even tho him and the guy i liked have it and he said

"Dale wants ur number coz he likes you"

Dale is the guy i like

Why did dales friend ask for my number when they already have it?

Why did he only say "k" when he had been talkitive b4

Dale has my number and hardly texts me he only texts back when i text him and then he isnt talkitive.. ?

2007-11-15 15:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by La P 1 in Singles & Dating

I trusted him and never thought he could cheat on me. He becaem very distant, he has not had any intimacy with me for months, he disappeared on week ends and came back home telling non sense stories. He started coming to bed very late, going out a lot and coming back home at 4 or 5.am.
I feel so bad that I have decided to divorce him. I'm soo disapointed, I think I will ever be able to fall in love again.

2007-11-15 15:14:43 · 19 answers · asked by thatgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like what do you wish women would tell you or confide in you, what are the secrets you wish to know about women, or your girlfriend, if women were two have a few more traits what would you suggest that we should have?

2007-11-15 15:11:00 · 4 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

how do u ask out a guy with out looking stupid if he says no and what do you do if he says no like how do you cover you tracs from the rumors

2007-11-15 15:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, It's obvious females have flaws, but what are your flaws (a imperfection of yourself)? Most truthful and interesting answer gets 10 points.
Thanx for your time!

2007-11-15 15:10:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and I recently split up "over distance" (1000 miles distance) but then I found out he actually broke up with me because he met a girl who he "connected with" better. I had not seen him in 2 months, and would not see him for another 2 or so. I guess he had only known her a week before he broke it off with me (6 months) and started dating this other girl. While they seem to be pretty "compatible", my question is...is it infatuation? Do relationships really happen that quickly? Is that even normal? I don't think I'll ever get back together with him now, but I'd like to hear some opinions on this frustrating situation. I think some clarity on it would just help.

2007-11-15 15:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by Persephone 2 in Singles & Dating

There is one guy I know, and for some reason I always find myself being mean and awful to him. As in very, VERY mean--I told him to kill himself, which is awful because he actually tried that once. I cry when I write these things to him, but I can't stop myself even though he's an amazing person who's done nothing to me. Everytime, he takes me back and acts like it's his fault, and tells me sorry for causing ME pain, even though he starts crying too.
So can someone please, please tell me WHY I'm so awful to him and WHY he's so nice to me?
PLEASE?
I know I sound like a *****, and I probably am one, but this is driving me crazy because I don't want to hurt him.

2007-11-15 15:04:48 · 37 answers · asked by LisaM 2 in Singles & Dating

people dont have a good sense of humor ? like you try to say something funny and then give you that weird look like WTF ?

2007-11-15 15:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-15 15:04:43 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to keep this as short as possible. My ex broke up with 2 months ago while still having feelings for me. We stayed friends and he talked to me everyday for a month. We still hung out at parties with our mutual friends. It got to a point where a couple times I said I couldnt handle this and I was miserable. Finally I made a comment about some girl he works with that knew about our break up before me that he cares more about her although I know deep down he doesnt care about her at all and he finds her very unattractive. Thats what set him off the cut contact with me.

Its been a month and up until that incident he really wanted to try to make us work. We just have a really good connection. We're the idiots who can sit around and do nothing and its fun. He always told me how happy I made him and he could be himself with me. I think I hurt him a lot with my comment. We havent talked in a month. Ive seen him randomly at the mall where he works but I dont make eye contact and my

2007-11-15 15:02:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 15:01:52 · 7 answers · asked by Mercedes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am at a loss for words. Ever since my husband and I have gotten a divorce my household has been out of control. My thirteen year old daughter is pregnant, my son is failing school, my fifteen year old is now a rebel, My twelve year old is defiant and my eleven year old is going around breaking things and cussing. What is going on and how can I stop it?

Thanks.

2007-11-15 14:57:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just dumped my boyfriend of 3 years because he is interested in a younger woman and is considering asking her out. By boyfriend is 52, the girl is 21 and still lives at home with her parents (her father is 53). She is a Junior in collage. I think there is something wrong in him for wanting to go after her. I told him I no longer want to communicate with him and he is out of my life because I will be embarrassed when others find out. Why would a 21 year old girl be interested in a man old enough to be her father? Do you think it is ok for him to ask her out.

2007-11-15 14:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating