I know this is very long but I need help?

Question

I'm going to keep this as short as possible. My ex broke up with 2 months ago while still having feelings for me. We stayed friends and he talked to me everyday for a month. We still hung out at parties with our mutual friends. It got to a point where a couple times I said I couldnt handle this and I was miserable. Finally I made a comment about some girl he works with that knew about our break up before me that he cares more about her although I know deep down he doesnt care about her at all and he finds her very unattractive. Thats what set him off the cut contact with me.

Its been a month and up until that incident he really wanted to try to make us work. We just have a really good connection. We're the idiots who can sit around and do nothing and its fun. He always told me how happy I made him and he could be himself with me. I think I hurt him a lot with my comment. We havent talked in a month. Ive seen him randomly at the mall where he works but I dont make eye contact and my

friends say he just stared. Im mad at myself, I miss him, He didnt deserve any of this.

Answer 1

Ask yourself this, "Whats the differents between conditional love and unconditional love?". Then ask yourself "Do I love this guy conditional or unconditional" THEN figure out for yourself if you can do this. Unconditional love relationships require people to be mature, honest, and emotional intuned, not just slap happy they can be idiots when their with each other. So you better figure out, are you willing to fight for this guy in your life (doesn't matter friend, lover, personal whipping boy) or if you just want him if he can give you certain things. Its your life, your the one who slepts with the choice..... but loves a fight, relationships are a fight, friendships are a fight, if you don't treat them seriously like that, well they just *PUFF*.......