What do you do when you and another guy who is married like each other and want nothing more than just sex? I am in the situation and HE is married and still wants to mess around with me.. I like him alot and I think I would since he wants to. There is alot of sexual tension between us. He must not be very happy with his wife or something. I know this might be very wrong.. but it is HIS CHOICE. Please no bad comments.. if it happens, it happens. I would rather find out the hard way myself... at least I would gain a life lesson from it. By the way, I am a 21 year old female and he is a 35 yr old male, but we both like each other.
2007-11-15 15:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Geez, you’re back again, but now you’ve moved on to the status of homewrecker.
The man’s wife was supposedly your ‘friend’ although she really wasn’t, she was your former college teacher who you became obsessed with. You harassed her incessantly and asked HUNDREDS of questions about her under your other accounts--why won’t she return my phone calls, why won’t she respond to my emails, do you think she likes me, is it okay if I take her newborn baby a present, is it okay if I give her a birthday present, etc, etc, etc. And at one point you even claimed that you ‘loved’ her (no, I don’t think it was ‘romantic’ love but still…). And then you went and got a job where her husband works so you could stalk him too. And now you want to scr*w him? That’s how you treat friends who you love? Grow some morals, and for the love of God, GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP, because you desperately need it.
Your other accounts:
As blue_star12111
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AgWxkQACBUWXeQDfxF0hvb2_7BR.;_ylv=3?show=I9iB66G4aa
As sagittarius_girl806
http://ph.answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=An.VprM2_AeuD8SA6QaG9y6PcRV.;_ylv=3?show=OpHHY1Ypaa
As pink_flamingo1211
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/qa/index;_ylt=Ar.QKZQWuo59AuJCN8eg4lfsy6IX;_ylv=3?link=question&more=y&show=awHVRisBaa
As black_panda12:
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhiXu9ffAIkKCnMzM_NOXlK_7BR.;_ylv=3?show=0xzePzR7aa
And God only knows how many other accounts you have (a violation of community guidelines, by the way).
2007-11-15 17:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by kp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex without love is meaningless and can only lead to regrets later on as well as a possibility of disease if he is playing around with someone else as well. Then there is the fact that the time you are spending with him is time that you could spend perhaps finding the person who will love you for more than sex. Sex should be special and not simply a release or the release can be more precious to you than a complete relationship. You will find that if you get into a sexual relationship with this man you will find it easier to accept sex without love rather than love with sex for many years if not the rest of your life. Of course, if you get into a sexual relationship with this man, and then find someone you love enough to marry, you will be a hypocrite if you stop your husband from having an affair with someone else or condemn him if he does. All in all, you have far more to lose than gain in a situation like this.
2007-11-16 00:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this really the kind of guy you like? One who'd cheat on his wife? I don't care what kind of problems he's having, marriage is forever, (or should be at least), so he should be wanting to commit as he said vows. Anyways, this is you- do you really want to look sleazy? If so, go for it. But picture yourself as his wife. How would it make you feel about him then? You know he's married, don't be another statistic that boosts the percentage of single woman going after married men up. (it's quite high) I think it's completely wrong of not only you to do this, but him as well. I'd say let him get divorced first, but then it goes back to...well, he could do that to his wife, he'd do the same to you someday.
2007-11-16 01:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're set on doing it just because he wants to then nothing I can say will ever stop you. And this is going to sound harsh because it's not what you want to hear. Sex shouldn't only be HIS choice. It should be your choice too. If you choose to go along with a married man you're choosing a man who has no integrity. However unhappy he is in his marriage he made a commitment to his wife and family and until he breaks that commitment formally in court he's lying to you and to her and maybe even to himself. Why would you want to be with a man who sees you as someone he can lie to? How would you ever trust him with anything after that?
I never could but maybe you don't feel you're worth more than that.
2007-11-16 11:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be used for sex? If you were married to this man, how would you feel if you found out he was sexing up some willing sl**? Think about what you are doing!
2007-11-16 00:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If U want a "life lesson", why are U asking for advice?
...by the way, if U are going to do that U are a whore...
LOL
2007-11-16 00:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bubi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honney...grow up! get away from the cheater! you don't want to be the 'other woman' do you? i sure wouldnt! if he will cheat on his wife he will cheat on you!
2007-11-16 00:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really think he "loves" you if he has a wife whom he goes after he's done with you??
2007-11-16 00:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋