Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

I've come here asking this because I've taken online career test which say i should be a pipe layer which I would hate. These are my interest: MUSIC is number one in my life. I know how to set up any string instrument, and like to play (guitar and piano mostly) a variety of instruments and would say that I am good at it. I also have experience recording and mixing music for local bands, and helping get their demos on the radio. second, I love random history facts! I know so many unusual things about history from the eastern and western world that I never have anyone to talk about it to, because no one I know shares the same intreset as me. I love education television and learning. I also am a very quick learner. I hate working in factories, and I dont like jobs that dont involve interaction with people or music. I am getting ready to go to college or tech. school and was wondering if you'd have any ideas of a career i may be interested in! Thank you!

2007-11-15 19:38:35 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family

Ok so a very LARGE majority of marital problems revolve around money. Well my husband seems to think that even tho i am 5.5 months pregnant i should get a job to pay bills(he works nights and we have a toddler home all day still). His needs always come before the 'family" needs, like if he needs new shoes or workboots they come first before a bill or groceries.I don't have a problem getting a job i just don't know of any company that will hire a woman who is almost 6 months pregnant.
Its like a never ending battle with my husband everytime i tell him i need "x" amount of money for a bill he freaks out and says no, and the other thing that pisses me off is we have a joint account yet i am NOT allowed to touch "his" money.
I just feel like he is trying to control and manipulate me, he has already got me completely dependant on him, before we met i had a job and was doing fine and now........
We fight nearly everyday i hate it, is it time for divorce?

2007-11-15 19:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Wishmaster 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf is 24 n me 21 i m pursuing my PG n my bf is doing business .he is a muslim n i m hindu his family n my family doesn't know abt ur affair his parents is planning for his marraige n i m just 21 n stdying , first i want to finish my stdying n then can decide abt my marraige and other things but i love him so much right now he is going to see a girl for marraige (he already reject 3 girls earlier ) he loves me more than i love him but said i donn't wanna to force u do as wht u want ,do wht makes u happy . when i tell him that if we get married n my parents doesn't convience then the whole life i cann't face them ,he said if my parents didn't convience then we will live seprately ..................i really donn't know wht to do plz help me

2007-11-15 19:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He smokes weed as if it was ciggerets. Is this a major turn off

2007-11-15 19:22:56 · 7 answers · asked by Kid 1 in Singles & Dating

How should I confront him?

2007-11-15 19:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a guy with a ponytail http://profiles.yahoo.com/hocoloco1

2007-11-15 19:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not an accusation or suggestion, just an observation; but every woman I have spoken to about it says that they get extremely turned on after smoking a little goon gas...any other opinions?

2007-11-15 19:16:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So that's my question, why? I've been in a plethora of relationships with good looking people who end up being douchebags. I didn't realize it until my last relationship where a ridiculously good looking person turned out to be completely out of whack. It took me a while to realize that the only reason I was with her was because she was well ...hot. I'm a young guy so I'm thinking this is all part of becoming an adult and realizing that looks aren't everything because sometimes they screw u over. So any suggestions on how not to be shallow? I am really trying to change for the better.

2007-11-15 19:15:29 · 7 answers · asked by LuckyDevil56 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whats your problem?

2007-11-15 19:12:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When he died, I felt so sorry for my parents. I never saw them so helpless and it broke my heart. I had to be strong for them and I had to forget about my own grief. But now , depression is really getting to me. I miss my brother so much and I find it hard to let go. He's gone but I get to live longer. I miss him so much. How can it be better when he's no longer around? Life doesn't make sense.

2007-11-15 19:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by Davin 1 in Friends

2007-11-15 19:09:15 · 23 answers · asked by freespirit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 19:05:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 2 and a half years and every thing has been great. Then all of a sudden she decided to go back to school, no big deal. Now she graduated and isnt even looking for a job. She is going out with her friends which I rarely question and not worring about anything. I throw the usual get it together threats out and she is like ok but does nothing. We are looking for a new place right now and Im wondering if I should bring her with me or tell her its time to go.

2007-11-15 19:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by steve f 2 in Singles & Dating

Ah help my heart is broken! I dont want to hurt anymore! I broke up with my boyfriend about2weeks ago because he was hurting me with all his flirty ways and lies..he always wanted to drink all the time and when he drank would chat up other girls and hurt me more..and he had so many girl mates! he was alwys talking to girls and one being a girl he kissed when he was with his ex!! I was with him for 2years and I moved to another country for him but moved back alittle under 2weeks ago because i was an emotional wreck and just didnt know who i was anymore! ahhh i just want to get over him.. now that i have moved back home all i can think of is all the good things i dont have anymore and miss him so much! there were good things but with all his lieing i couldnt trust anymore and was so hurt i didnt no what else to do.I just want to no how to move on.please can anyone help my heart is broken it was the hardest thing ever getting on that plane and now im so hurt!!! Did i do the right thing!

2007-11-15 19:02:36 · 18 answers · asked by hello 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know why i really dont want to study anymore after i broke up with him , yes i still love him , but i dont know why i just feel taht i dont have any interest to study the degree
maybe it is because he wants me to get a degree , but right now , i feel that i dont have any reason to get one
yes i should better my future career , but i dont know why every time i think of him i will feel that he is still around me , i feel really bad
i want to be success in the future , but i dont know why i just dont have any power to keep studying hard
maybe i will feel regret later , but i cant focus on my study
i feel really bad
i really dont know what i should do

2007-11-15 19:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by candy 2 in Singles & Dating

When do you lose desire to have sex? My husband no longer wants to, so how do I join him?

2007-11-15 18:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to know what it;s like to bang a latin chick. are they as senual as they appear to be? Do they "love" there man better than a white women, black women? please explain how they are good and what makes them so good.

2007-11-15 18:51:43 · 15 answers · asked by Road House 1 in Singles & Dating

i have never had a g,f and never had sex . everone i talk to has had it , one of my best mates told me last night she has had it , i was shocked realy as she said before she almost had it so that was annother one who has had it so what can i do , and i would not just go out with a girl so that i would lose my virginty

2007-11-15 18:50:33 · 21 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Singles & Dating

Let's say it's 2 or 3 in the morning and it's a work night. I am just curious as to how many people would get mad.

2007-11-15 18:43:23 · 45 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for a matrimonial site searching for tamil bride.
(I tried shaadi.com,tamilmatrimonial.com sites.!!??)

2007-11-15 18:41:46 · 7 answers · asked by jaikanth 2 in Weddings

I am seeing a guy that I have known for years, but we only recently decided to date in the last two months. He lives very far from me, but we manage to see one another a two weekends a month. I already graduated and am planning to go to grad school, and he is graduating in May and then applying to jobs far away, abroad and at home. We have a close and intense connection and the love I'm starting to have for him feels real. The more I see him the harder it is to leave. Should I just enjoy this while it lasts, see him as much as I can and have the memories, or should I end it, because this relationship will probably end in 6 months? We haven't slept together yet, but I know when that happens my feelings for him will get even stronger. He has talked to me about the length of the relationship and he really cares for me and is unsure of the future. I want to follow my dreams and not let a guy get in the way of my plans, like him. What should I do?

2007-11-15 18:35:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 18:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 18:30:51 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with someone and found out that their ad is still active on a datting site. I confronted him about this and He says that he only wants to look, but cant you look with out having an active ad? It makes me feel that he is only holding on until he finds something better out there. I have a 3 year old son who calls him daddy, and this greatly hurts me. I gave up everything to be with him, and now am so confused. I have no place to go, and am not sure what to do. Please give me my options here on what to do. Right now I am so heartbroken and confused as to what to do..

2007-11-15 18:29:02 · 4 answers · asked by cantmissamy 2 in Singles & Dating

Do u give some money allowance 2 ur in law? Why?

2007-11-15 18:22:49 · 14 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am already in my 20s, and so is he. I stay in the relationship because he has a weak personality. He still lives with his parents, he has no stable job because he often quits, he is a drunkard, I often fetch him from his friends' houses or from bars everytime he's wasted, I often pay for the bills because he says he's broke--but he says he loves me. I think it's unfair for me to stay with him. He seems so helpless and he has a gentlle manner. We've always been faithful to each other. I am not seeing other men. I prefer that this question be answered by those who are already in their 30s and onwards.

2007-11-15 18:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by Halcyone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this boy who i don't like at all. he used to be friends until he started annoying me. He is not really annoying is just that i want my space and i do not want to talk to him anymore. I try avoiding him and he finds me. I purposely don't tell him where I am going. I know it's normal in a friendship to want to be around someone but i don't. I don't like him walking me to class. Sometimes i like walking to class alone. I know i am annoying person myself because i nag. I have tried being blunt to him and i have ignored him. I just don't like him for no reason. what should i do? I don't hate him. i'll still want to do nice things for him but i just want him to leave. Not to leave completely but stop always being there.

2007-11-15 18:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sorry to say but she is a high mantinence wife i have 2 jobs and it dosn't seem enough for her and to make this worse we have trouble to get her pregnant now she looks at me as a sperm donator and thats it.

2007-11-15 18:19:28 · 22 answers · asked by tribeplanet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I allready asked the question,thank you

2007-11-15 18:17:00 · 22 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a muslim girl(shahira) ....she is getting married to a muslim guy who is already got married.His name is ibrahim.He want to marry shahira as a second wife.Is it compulsory for him to get a acceptance for second marriage from his first wife.Is my friend shahira marriage is legally valid.what are the procedure she need to take to make her marriage as a valid one.

2007-11-15 18:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by senthil k 1 in Marriage & Divorce