We have been together for 2 and a half years and every thing has been great. Then all of a sudden she decided to go back to school, no big deal. Now she graduated and isnt even looking for a job. She is going out with her friends which I rarely question and not worring about anything. I throw the usual get it together threats out and she is like ok but does nothing. We are looking for a new place right now and Im wondering if I should bring her with me or tell her its time to go.
2007-11-15 19:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by steve f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's time to pull in the reigns buddy. She's not worrying about you so wgy should the responsibility all fall on you? If you want this relationship to work you have to give 50-50 right? it sounds like 75-25 to me. Try talking again and don't threaten. Leave and go stay at a hotel for a night, then she'll get the hint!
2007-11-15 19:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by BeautifulNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem that she wants to be free lance, woh, I have heard this before my male friend like a brother, have a nice sweet girl who loves him so much he bought her a car.Then she quit her job and stays home,she does not clean house cook or do laundry she is not home all the time and party at night with girlfriends,she does not contribute to expenses. My friend have a hard time kicking her out so,he dated her best friend and finally she is out of his house. He was really mad of that experienced that he is not going to have a any woman in his house. It is your decision if your woman is worth having?
2007-11-16 03:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like shes really doing anything wrong. its impressive that she graduated from college, its fine that she want to take it easy for a while before starting a serious profession, and theres nothing wrong w/ her wanting to hang w/ freinds (u dont own her), u shouldnt throw out threats to her or anyone, she sounds fun, and low stress. you should feel lucky to be w/ her
2007-11-16 03:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she does not get on with her life, she can just stay and you will move by yourself. If that doesn't wake her up, do it.
Ask her how she would feel if you were handling your life the same way.
2007-11-16 03:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her. She should be looking for work. I think this question is what if? Does she really care about you? Is she a good wife? Good Luck to you.
2007-11-16 03:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equal partnerships require equal workloads, she needs to start with her share or else you'll move on with your life.
2007-11-16 03:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by runic111 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋