When do you lose desire to have sex? My husband no longer wants to, so how do I join him?
2007-11-15 18:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is not only his decision to stop sex, he is being very selfish. tell him how you feel and if you really want to join him, just stop all together. it may be really hard, but just think about how you two can better connect if your both on the same page. i hope it works out with you two :o)
2007-11-15 19:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Loves Cure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. What do you mean your husband no longer wants to. Why does he get to make that decision, alone, without your consent? Is he medically ill or what's the reason why he can't have sex?
2007-11-16 02:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a serious issue in your marriage. The desire doesn't just go away. There is either a medical problem or resentment that needs to be taken care of. You have needs, that are not being met and that is part of the reason it needs to be taken care of.
2007-11-16 03:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to join him?It's been over 4 years for me but I'm single and old and have nothing to offer a woman but you should talk to your husband and get him to see a Doctor.Good luck.
2007-11-16 03:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not in every man's mind. Sometimes, there is no drive because there are many issues clouding my mind such as money, job, stress, unhappiness, uncertainty, etc. All we want at this moment are words of comfort and arms to hold us tightly into.
2007-11-16 03:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tabo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope i never will loose the desire of sex . get a toy or find a boy toy
2007-11-16 04:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by jimm_b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure when you married him you each had plans to fulfill each other's needs- including emotionally and sexually. This isn't his decision to make alone. When he married you he promised to love and cherish you and fulfill your needs- otherwise what's to logically stop you from getting your needs met elsewhere? Not saying that you would want to, but if he just doesn't want to anymore he can't expect you to also stop wanting to. I would suggest you get to the root of the problem- whether that be medically, talking, counseling etc.
2007-11-16 03:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by kaliraksha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people never loose their desire. I'd say your husband is getting it somewhere else.
2007-11-16 03:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband must be talking to my husband because i am in the same boat as you. Pleasure your own self it works for me.
2007-11-16 03:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll go with that one also. He has lost his desire for sex.....with you. Alot of other women out there that he hasn't lost it for.
He's a banging someone else.
The Rat
2007-11-16 03:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋