Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

My daughter is 15 and hangs around with other teenagers, both girls and boys. For the last month she has been getting excluded from the group, ie. not being invited up town, or to sleepovers. She has been told by a girl within the group that "nobody likes you, just go home" and so my daughter just leaves, upset obviously. She has been called nasty names by her "best friend's" little sister and because of this she has not been invited round to her "best friend's" house because her little sister doesn't like my daughter, but this is where the rest of the gang are hanging out. She has been threatened when she has done nothing wrong. She has had nasty comments left on her bebo account and this morning she received a really nasty text from her "best friend's" little sister putting her down. She has been excluded all this weekend from them. It all gets sorted out, and then two days later it all starts up again. Her "best friend" has told her she is not being bullied?!?

2007-11-17 23:59:08 · 24 answers · asked by flying on the zephyr 1 in Friends

After finding out that my ex wife was having an affair then splitting up cause she stated that she was unhappy for years and used the old cliche "I love you but not in love with you" does life ever get better? I constantly try and close off what has happened and move on but its always there. I'm in a new relationship now and things are going great but just need to forget the past but can't. Any advise?

2007-11-17 23:56:52 · 23 answers · asked by simmoref72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i believe that there is no true love without sex and no true sex without love.........voice your views?

2007-11-17 23:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on a dating site and there was a girl on it who wanted a date and when I read her profile it sed that she was engaged and had 2 kids. why would she be on a dating site looking for a date when she is engaged with 2 kids? I cant understand it?

2007-11-17 23:51:38 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-17 23:46:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my father says hes not racist but he is.. Im white, and my boyfriends black. well my father doesnt like my boyfriend because of this and is always saying nasty racial comments bout him. I tell my boyfriend and my boyfriend now hates my dad.. and wants to confront him but that'd only get me into more trouble. Anyone have any GOOD advice for me on this?

2007-11-17 23:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Little Miss Cute!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner is 18 stone and only 5ft 11in. I am a normal size and I am worried my partner will give himself a heart attack being this size. When I met him 10 years ago he was only 13 stone, but his weight has crept up, and now I just don't find him attractive anymore. This is really making me miserable. Yes I have tried talking to him, but he just loves cooking and loves his food too much. Last time I mentioned it, he just sulked for weeks! He is in early thirties. Any constructive advice welcome.

2007-11-17 23:42:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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Im not great at making friends. I have made friends with a guy in work since aug. The thing is i cant tell if he sees me as a mate. Hes not great at emailing me first ie when organising stuff outside of work he wants u to phone him and in work hes not great at iniating emails hell reply but not great at emailing to say hi.

Hell reply to mine and be like hows u how was ur weekend but would be nice if he did it once in a while, When we go to lunch he seems to enjoy my company joking with me n stuff and ive been over his flat but am worried/paranoid that he is just being nice. The one time i emailed him and he didnt reply he did appologise for not replying and the only time hes iniated convo was when he thought hed offended me which was nice.

Deep down i see him as a friend but im still paranoid as hes not great at contact hell reply to my emails and seems interested more than others ive emailed but as he dont iniate much i get paranoid.

2007-11-17 23:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by josephine123446 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Play that funcky music right boy play that funcky music?

2007-11-17 23:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-17 23:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How will you know if the girl your courting is just playing you, playing hard to get, dosen't like you? and how will you know if she likes you the way you are?

2007-11-17 23:27:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our sex live has dwindled to a rare one time a week thing. We used to be all over each other. I just woke up and he was looking at porn on the internet, I got upset. His ex wife is interferring in our relationship and causing many problems. It seems that nothing is right with us anymore and I don't know what to do. I can't stand living this way and am so hurt by all of this that crying doesn't even happen...I am numb. I just don't know what to do about it all. What to do?

2007-11-17 23:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by Ali C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we been live in for 1 year already we are happy to have each other thats why we decided to get married but our decision is different.that is our problem until now .even in simple things.our wedding is settle already....pls help me i dont know what to do...

2007-11-17 23:24:37 · 5 answers · asked by boracay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is this a total insult to the man you are marrying?

2007-11-17 23:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by janjaley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy of 8 years and 3 children cheated on me,for about 5 months leaving home blatantly going to see this other woman.Now we are back together,(she is gone has been for almost 4 months) I have tried to forgive him in my heart but every once in a while,I think about it and the pain is still there all over again,does that hurt eventually go away?

2007-11-17 23:22:41 · 13 answers · asked by Lin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, Answers. I'm going out with a girl of 20. We are not "exclusive", I ever told her that I don't consider us like a couple, (with the natural rules of a couple) but only like two guys seeing each others and also do sex staff. I ever told her that i'm not jelous and that she can do what she wants with other guys.
But now she told me that she did, and part of the reason, is that this boy she went, has got a big Willy...
I'm quite hurted, I did not supposed to be, she keep tellin' that she cares a lot for me, she was drunk and now she is feeling guilty.
I thought she was special and I was planning to ask her, to became an "official" couple, but after this episode, obiuvsly I changed my mind, and I don't know what to do with her and I'm confused with my feelings, I don't know if she's honest when says that cares for me....
I thought also, to carry on like that, seeing each others like before,like nothing happened, is half my fault,because I ever said: "You can go with who you want"

2007-11-17 23:20:13 · 15 answers · asked by "Poeta x" 4 in Singles & Dating

In the eyes of the ranger the unsuspected stranger had beter no the truth of rong from right cause the eyes of the ranger are up on you any rong you do hes on the scene when your in texas look behind you because thats were the rangers going to be. any one no that song?

2007-11-17 23:17:13 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out with this girl and her friends this saturday night and we got drunk.

a gang of hard guys appeared and were helpin us to get this drunk girl off the floor. one of the gang guys started hugging and flirting with the girl mate I LIKE (thats my job!)

he stood there lookin at us struggling while tryin to get with my girl mate. and i got angry but didnt show it.

i went to the toilet and they had all left by the time i got back,

accordin to my other friend the guy tried to get with the girl i like and she pushed him away and looked in my direction as if wondering where i was even tho i wasnt in sight. obviously much prefered me right?

i was on the other side of the field. my friend told me she came out that night only because of me but her feelings are confused.

i walked her home after. but i dont know to ask her out or not because before she said she would like to get to know me first before going out.

2007-11-17 22:59:18 · 7 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Singles & Dating

he dont wanna talk to me and just ignore .... i try to speak but it pass failure........ some body please help me..............he says that im gay and not the true guy

2007-11-17 22:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by cherahnoor07 1 in Friends

One of my friends at work,one of her sisters getting married next year and she has been asked to be Matron of Honor. Can she do that? or is it Maid of Honor? I'm confused at which is correct.

2007-11-17 22:55:40 · 5 answers · asked by Penny J 5 in Weddings

I knw this guy he used 2 be my bigest crush i stoped liking him nd i got a bf i been with him long time nd i reli luv him. nw the guy i used to reli like likes me and i dont wana hurt him but he thinks i stil like him nd i dont have the heart to say i dont like him everytime i bring it up he changes the topic or leaves

2007-11-17 22:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by xlilxpenguinx 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I liked in my school but I think he has a girlfriend. I'm unsure If he likes me or not. There are other girls that likes him but I'm not sure if he looks at me like how I look at him.. My bestfriend also likes him. What should I do? Should I still him or just give up on him?

2007-11-17 22:25:50 · 11 answers · asked by CINDY 2 in Singles & Dating

what size do men normally like best go into as many details as you need or want too
is 38b too small

I am curious howmany ppl ansee this or just read this because of the title lol

2007-11-17 22:24:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heard from two girls my BF was cheating on me with them. One described how he was in bed (was mostly true) and the other described his bedroom (very accurate). A good guy friend of mine also said he has seen him with girls (but is not sure what, if anything, was going on). Neither of the girls have pictures, messages, emails, letters, etc...

Could they be messing with my head? Could he be innocent - like he says he is?

2007-11-17 22:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am, I miss her and as usual I'm thinking about her and I can't sleep. How about you?

2007-11-17 22:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a black female and i am married to a white man when he gets mad he calls me the n word he says he say things like that out of angry but when i get mad at a white person i never say racial things

2007-11-17 21:57:52 · 26 answers · asked by chancireese 2 in Marriage & Divorce

About 18 months ago my brother was murdered by his wife, who is now incarerated. My retired parents took on the task of raising the five children. It has been realy hard on the entire family, but I think most difficult for my mother. My parents who lived with my wife and I moved into my brothers house too care for the children. We were hoping not too uproot the kids from their already familuar routines and backrounds, we felt this would only further tramatize the children. There are five children ages 6 to 17. Recently I had suggested that the time has come to sell both my home and my brothers home so that we could all move in together. My parents are not getting any younger and its been very trying for them. When I mentioned this too the kids two began crying intensely, which broke my heart. I don't know if I'm doing more damage than help. My wife and I do not wish too move to my brothers home in the city. Just don't know what else too do?

2007-11-17 21:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by paul g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and he dating another girl, who he's not sleeping with...

is it likely he will stay with the one having sex with him? or choose the one he is dating?

2007-11-17 21:43:30 · 15 answers · asked by lucy6 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and thru my life, I've gotten into fights when I was younger. In elementary and middle school were the times when I beat up people since I had no choice. My environment was dangerous so had to protect myself.

I haven't fought anyone in a long time, and I think I'd get pulverized by anyone now. I really want to be able to be strong enough to protect myself, back my friends up, and protect my love ones. I'm also afraid if I got a gf she wouldn't be able to protect herself or my little sis who won't be able to protect herself either. I'm really scared.

What should I do to gain power? Must I learn what my ancestors learned? Martial arts, does it really help?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-17 21:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

My cousin is very warped. His grandMother is also very warped, she tried to kill her husband. She has warped my cousin into a puppet. She ordered him to kill me once and he tried to. He used to hit me with stuff from behind and when i came around he was smiling at me and snapping his fingers and laughing. his grandmother told him to do these things and I stay far away from him. Now the problem is that we go to the same community college and he does see me once in a while and snarls at me and points me out to people and yells at me. I'm afraid he might try to kill me again. what do I do? who at the college should i tell about this?

2007-11-17 21:24:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family