Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

I have been married for 7 years to a wonderful guy,but I recently found an old boyfriend on classmates and we have been e mailing each other and IMing each other,there is nothing going on except friendship,so should I tell my husband that I am talking to this guy over the computer?

2007-11-17 14:10:10 · 17 answers · asked by flavagirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Forgiving an ex because they can't find a new love and move on after divorced. If they have a better life after divorcing, will they still take their ex back? Do they really mean to "forgive" their ex or they said it because it takes less work to start a new life? Will they change when they said they fogive me?

2007-11-17 14:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Kim J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well im 21 and she is 26 and we kinda have diff views on when she wants to have kids and when i want

i atleast want to wait a few till i finish school
but shes gonna be 29 by then and ill be 24

but i want to see ppl's opinion about this b/c i want to finish school and she wants to take the next step

she told me she wants to have one bf she turns 28 ....money isnt a prob just is going to be alot of things for me ....school job my wife and the baby (if we do)

idk what i should do i do want to have kids with her but im kinda not in the place so if anyone could give me some guidance or advise in what i should do so we both get what we want

she finished shool 3 yrs ago so im like a bit back behind her

2007-11-17 14:05:34 · 8 answers · asked by some nerd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I am re-asking. I got a couple good answers from the last time I answered, but the rest were rubbish, and I want more answers, but ppl aren't answering anymore, so here's my question:
I have one younger sister and two brothers. One older, one younger. She has been treating me and my sister like we are toilet water. My brothers yell at her all the time calling her bad names and stuff, but when I tell my mom how I feel, she yells at me, and she puts me in my room. I cry a lot, and I can't stand it.

She also, always flirts with other guys at Trader Joes, and in the city and stuff. But I guess that's what you get when her mom's in her late 50's. I really want her to stop this. Of course my Dad doesn't believe me. It really makes me upset. (What really gets the other guys is that she's blonde and has a nice French accent.)

All my bothers need to do is ask my mom if they want something, and they get it. We ask, and again, yelling, and getting sent to my room. I'm soo sad...

2007-11-17 14:04:47 · 2 answers · asked by SoundofSettling 4 in Family

2007-11-17 14:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by littleacetata 1 in Singles & Dating

i can tell the genre but is fast and it says: "i play like a pro star, act like a movie star, f*** like a pornstar.. baby i'm a superstar".. is not that old..

2007-11-17 14:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, I like dis boy and I asked 4 his #, suprisingly he gave it 2 me, so I called him. we talked on da phone for about an hour. i flirt wit him at school and i am really sprung over him. My question is, "Does he like me back? Did he give me his # as a friend or 2 become more?" i said i would call him on monday and i said dat if he called me to use my cell #, but does he like me?! I mean, why would he give me his # if he didn't like me??!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm SOOO confused!

2007-11-17 14:04:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf just came by & told me he's having a party. He said my ex & his new girl are going to be there, also some other girls. I'm shy okey...Even with a few people I don't know...much less a whole room full of complete stangers? I havent' been to a party in awhile. I kind of forgot how it is, & how to act....

I dunno I'm real nervous about being with a bunch of stangers & I'm pretty shy & errr I'm like have anxiety issues here...

Do you have any advice to calm my nerves & also how to make this party fun & not stressful...because I have a feeling it's going to be very stressful...I'm trying to think different..but err I just help please!

I think what I'm most nervous about is being an idiot in front of all these people....Like I'm afraid I'm not going to be accepted for who I am...


thanks

2007-11-17 14:03:29 · 3 answers · asked by Savanna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's only one other female and she's even younger than me (I'm 26). There's only 5 or 6 of us altogether in that particular office, but my shirts are v-neck or scoop neck, etc. Do I have to watch what I wear since there are mostly men?

2007-11-17 14:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my best friend's dad is out of the picture he is a alcohlic a very mean 1 i wittessed a big scene at a sleepover so she lives with her mom and has never had a very good relationship with her she doesnt even tell her who her chrushes r at school (instead she tells me everything) but she has a very good life she has a very nice house nothing big just 4 her and her mom she has all kinds of clothes from abercrombie and fitch and coach purses so her mom defintly provides well 4 her but like 2 weeks ago she called me in tears because she fond her moms stash of pot and confronted her mom about it ever since she said shes been so angry and depressed with her mom and she says her mom is very depresed and she said her mom is sorry but she says shes still so mad and (i went to her house yesterday)and she just keeps throwing it back at her (like to get something like a pair of jeans)(is that right) and i know she is angry but when is enough enough and how can she move on

2007-11-17 13:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Morgie 2 in Family

alright so nobody likes getting older...that is unless your younger than 21. No need for any details lets just get down to the basics......When you're having a meltdown (due to age/reality crisis), what do you do to make you feel YOUNG/ALIVE once again????

2007-11-17 13:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im bored

2007-11-17 13:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy but we are not exclusive (just friends). He also has another girl in his life. I also have other friends but I am in love with him. He told me that when he's ready for a relationship and my divorce is final he wants to be with me and that he just sees her as a friend. I've been there for him and helped him out financially. I knew him years before my marriage and believe he'll pay me back because we're friends. I really love him but have a hard time trusting him because of the problems I had with my soon to be ex. I've always loved him but we lost contact and I met my husband. How can I tell if this will mature into something more or if he is stringing me and the girl along?

2007-11-17 13:56:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a girl whos belly is not totally flat but a bit of chub to it

2007-11-17 13:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On 10/28/2006 I married my junior high school sweet heart, whom I love dearly . However, before we were married she caught me cheating and was really withdrawn and didnt want to ever see me again. After we chatted about everything i wanted to make her happy. She told me in order for her to stay she would have to be married because girlfriends dont put up with a year long worth of drama that i caused our relationship. I've always planned on marrying her anyway but now that a full year has past and things ar great i often find her researching young married couple dilemas and if they do last until "death do you part". Will we last? Im a 23 year college graduate and she is 22 years old attending med school. She was raisedin a single parent home and I come from a very stable two parent home. And ill admit I do speak to some of the girls in the past.Is this healthy ? Cause i believe we can have a wonderful life together. Im just concerned with all of the "young married couples dont make it

2007-11-17 13:55:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it "OK" if you, personally, have come to the conclusion that the marriage is "no longer working"? Is it "OK" if you feel that your spouse hasn't lived up to your expectations? Is it "OK" if you were going to tell your spouse about it the next day?

What words of wisdom would you impart upon a person who answers "YES" to the three "Is it 'OK'" questions above?

2007-11-17 13:54:43 · 21 answers · asked by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for around a year and half with my guy. He use to be very fun loving and have heaps of enegry and like to go sight-seeing and make the most of a lovely day.Maybe go for a country drive or brisk walk to the park.But I found in the last few months, his motivation to get out and do stuff has gone. I really have to push him to get motivated. He is 10 years older then me, (38). Do you think that he is just naturally slowing down as you progress with age or is there more to it? I have talkd with him but seems to get on edge when i suggest ideas.

2007-11-17 13:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Honey 5 in Singles & Dating

Married for 3 yrs. I knew when we married that he had some anxiety issues and he wasn't always comfortable in social situations. After we got married, he started to deteriorate. He lost his job and didn't work for 6 months. He would become depressed and suicidal. I encouraged him to get help and he would go to a doctor appointment, but never follow through with additional appointments or take any medication. We worked through it with marriage counseling and tried to make the best of it. We decided to start a family. He became more depressed and told me (after we had been trying for a few weeks) that he didn't want kids. After I had the baby, he got worse and one day told me that he has been hallucinating for 10 yrs. (but never told me before.) He kept other things from me as well (ex. how much $ he spent on things.) I gave him an ultimatum: get help or I will get a divorce. He refused help and moved out the next day. Now says he wants to work things out. Should I divorce him?

2007-11-17 13:53:29 · 5 answers · asked by jen19music 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i had some control issues with what we will say is my ex now but today he called and apologized and told me it would never happen again...its been a week since we split and i do miss him but i dont want to be with a control freak...i dont know whether to trust him or not...is it worth it to take another chance to go back and hope that it doesnt happen again?

2007-11-17 13:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by wynona m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-17 13:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by J. M. 2 in Singles & Dating

My wonderful girl has publicly pronounced my cooking as mere swill....thet's hogslop fer mah hillbilly frens....this was, of course quite the blow, I was momentarily siezed with the desire to throttle the beauty but alas I love her far to much for any such drastic action. So, as a result I will be tendering my offical resignation as Head R&S Chef and relinquishing the helm to mama24....as she is quite supiorior in the culinary arts and my skills pale by comparison....I wish you all well......
The new Head Chef of Joes Bar and Grill......
John O

Your kind thoughs?

2007-11-17 13:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my sister was in the mental hospital and about 4 days ago I got a call saying to come over there. When I got over there they told me she was was starting to calm down and not trying to kill herself every second. So at night they took their eyes off of her for about 10 minutes and she was dead. They're not sure how she died.
What should I do?! Now i'm thinking that I should die because it's all my fault that she's dead. First I loose my mother and now my sister. Both my precious things in my world are gone. My girlfriend hasn't even talked at all since then.
I don't know what i'm supposed to do anymore!
What should I do?!

2007-11-17 13:44:02 · 9 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Family

there is this guy who is always chasing me and calling me 20 times a day and passing me notes ALL the time i am freaked! He has even SAT ON ME BEFORE!!! EW! what would i call him like a perve or stalker or what

2007-11-17 13:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by roo 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be the worse thing they would find??

2007-11-17 13:37:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are long nails more attractive than nails that have been bitten short or does it matter?

2007-11-17 13:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by WilmaF 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna call basically every church in the Pittsburgh area on Monday to see if a Catholic church will marry me (hopefully one will since there are 150+ in the Pittsburgh area). However, if I can't get married by a priest within my time restraints... which is next month... what other options do I have? I don't really want to do a court house wedding, so what could I do to have a unique ceremony for two people with no guests?

2007-11-17 13:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by dsandra78 1 in Weddings

what i am talking about is my mother and brother is in the house screaming back and forth and i dont feel comfortable living in the same house hold as them to!!!!!it is a really bad feeling for an eleven(11)year old girl

2007-11-17 13:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by hazel 1 in Family

When he broke up with me a year ago I was extremely depressed because we had been together for 2 years...then I met someone else a few months later and he decided he wanted me back. He begged and begged but I was too afraid to get hurt again so I turned him down...and I knew the only way I could make him go away was by telling him a lie because I did in fact still love him.. I told him that I lied about having sex with only 1 other person before him and that it was actually more than that because I knew how much it would bother him and that he would just go away....it took some time and he was quite upset by it but he did. Now a year later...were talking again and were going to hang out...I want to tell him that I lied about that one thing because it was soo not true and I dont want him thinking that of me anymore but I dont know how to do it...any suggestions? :S thanks...by the way I know it was a dumb thing to do so I dont need any smart comments..lol

2007-11-17 13:29:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, stupid question I know, but do they? I got a story. This one guy was saying he liked this shiny perfume bottle, and that guys like shiny things. and he goes 'why do you think guys like blondes so much? Their hair is shiny. Guys love shiny things.' Is that true? Best answer gets 5 stars!!!!

2007-11-17 13:28:52 · 33 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating