Forgiving an ex because they can't find a new love and move on after divorced. If they have a better life after divorcing, will they still take their ex back? Do they really mean to "forgive" their ex or they said it because it takes less work to start a new life? Will they change when they said they fogive me?
2007-11-17 14:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Kim J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because you forgive your ex doesn't mean that you have to take them back. It's really a good thing to forgive. It's make you a better person, but if the marriage didn't work and the person hasn't changed, then it will not work for the second time.
2007-11-17 14:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by driven_tolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they will not change just because they said that they forgive you. They have to want to change themselves and actually do it. It's not often that a divorced couple ends up getting married again. And usually, when someone decides to forgive someone, it is just to make peace with them. It doesn't necessarily mean that they want to try again. I don't know what you did that you need forgiving for, but some things are harder to really forgive than others, even if they truly want to.
2007-11-17 14:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a divorce, you concentrate on yourself. You get a new outlook on life and a renewed sense of self. Sometimes, it's this new confidence that your ex sees and remembers why they fell in love with you before.
And just because you forgive eachother, it doesn't mean that everything's 100% A-OK. If you're going to reconcile, you need to resolve what tore you apart to begin with, or history could repeat itself.
2007-11-17 14:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just always think that the grass is greener on the other side. Once they cross over the bridge and see that its not and how good they once had it, they come back and appreciate it more than they did before. Just make the best of your second chance
2007-11-17 14:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love is not only blind, it is also blinding.
Good luck.
2007-11-17 14:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why only they know.
2007-11-17 14:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋